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Shiloh Counseling LLC

Dr. Clay Brigance is the founder, clinical director and lead counselor at Shiloh Counseling, LLC. Clay is also able to see couples.

Clay's passion in therapy is to join you on your life journey to finding wholeness again. Clay is a doctorate level counselor who is able to see pre-teens and teens age 10 and up, as well as adults. Clay is also uniquely qualified to do psychological evaluations for children age 6 to 17. With nearly 10 years of experience as a school psychologist in the public schools, Clay can provide an informative evaluation for your child to help you find answers as well as guide you through the IEP process in plan language. However, Clay's ultimate passion is counseling individuals and couples who are navigating infertility and reproductive loss. Clay has become a leading researcher and therapist for this special population, being a featured speaker for the Institute of Reproductive Grief Care, The Crossing Church, and The American Psychological Association for how to counsel couples navigating infertility.

11/19/2025

A 30-second self-check-in can change the tone of your whole day.
What do you need more of, less of, and how can you be kind to yourself right now?

Pause today and try it - you might be surprised what surfaces.
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

11/14/2025

Sometimes “I don’t know” is a heart trying to stay safe. Not avoidance, just armor.
When words take time, move into patience and grace.

Save this for a day when your teen needs gentleness.
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

11/12/2025

Sometimes “I’m fine” is really “I’m tired,” “I’m overwhelmed,” or “I don’t know how to say I’m struggling.”

Many of us learn to cope by staying quiet - to be strong, to not burden others, to keep moving.

But strength isn’t silence.
And you don’t have to carry everything alone.

Everyone deserves emotional safety.
Everyone deserves support.
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unique, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

11/07/2025

Every relationship experiences moments of disconnection. What defines strong relationships isn’t how perfectly they communicate - it’s how intentionally they repair.

Apologies, accountability, and empathy rebuild trust one moment at a time.

If you and your partner are struggling to reconnect, our couples therapists can help.
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

11/04/2025

✨ Meet Ginny, one of our amazing therapists at Shiloh Counseling. ✨

This is just one part of our new video - we’d love for you to see the whole story.

👉 Watch the full video on our YouTube channel (link in bio!)
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

10/30/2025

Our therapists help teens and families build emotional understanding and resilience.
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

10/24/2025

✨ Meet Katie, one of our amazing therapists at Shiloh Counseling. ✨

This is just one part of our new video - we’d love for you to see the whole story.

👉 Watch the full video on our YouTube channel (link in bio!)
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

10/21/2025

This month, we hold space for every family touched by pregnancy and infant loss.
There is no single way to grieve, to remember, or to heal.

Each symbol, ritual, and act of remembrance becomes its own expression of love. 🕯️

However you honor your story, know that it matters. We’re here to walk beside you. Learn more or connect with a counselor using the link in our bio.
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

10/16/2025

✨ Meet Matt, one of our amazing therapists at Shiloh Counseling. ✨

This is just one part of our new video - we’d love for you to see the whole story.

👉 Watch the full video on our YouTube channel (link in bio!)

10/14/2025

Healthy relationships are built on curiosity, care, and consistent check-ins. 💬
Asking simple, open-ended questions can strengthen connection and remind your partner they’re not in this alone.

Try these this week:
✨ What was hard for you this week?
✨ What made you feel loved this week?
✨ How can I support you next week?

👉 Which question will you ask your partner first?
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

10/09/2025

You don’t have to rush your healing. You don’t have to meet anyone else’s timeline. 🌱

Growth is still growth, even when it’s slow, quiet, or hard to see. You have full permission to move forward at the pace that feels right for you.

👉 What’s one small way you’re noticing growth in your own life right now? Share it in the comments - we’d love to celebrate with you.
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

10/07/2025

✨ Meet Blair, one of our talented clinicians here at Shiloh Counseling!

👉🏻 Watch the full Shiloh video on our YouTube channel (link in bio!)
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone’s experiences are unqiue, so what’s shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

Address

15480 Clayton Road Suite 103
Ballwin, MO
63011

Telephone

+13142469126

Website

http://www.shilohcounselingllc.com/

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