05/06/2022
A non-religious funeral ceremony for a baby
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A humanist funeral ceremony for a baby recognises the depth of the loss and pain, acknowledging the unique significance of the child who has died, and all the ways their short life has touched and left an impression on the lives of the people around them.
We understand that planning a funeral or memorial service after the loss of a baby is one of the most difficult things a parent will ever do. A ceremony that focuses on the child may help the grieving process.
Often, the parents of babies who have died prematurely, or shortly after birth, will be asked before leaving the hospital to start making decisions about a burial or cremation – before they have really had time to process what has happened.
Conducting a ceremony for a life that has been fleeting
Humanist celebrant Sue Baumbach says: ‘Each life is precious, no matter how soon it ends. Parents tell us of the ways in which their baby was an individual; the effect their baby had on their lives; the personality that so often emerges before birth; or the brave struggle some babies have in the early stages of life.
‘They share with us the hope, anticipation, and excitement that the prospect of new life brought to them and their family – and to friends as well. They will also speak about the sadness and the heart-stopping moment of loss.