02/13/2026
This is the simplest, most powerful tool I have developed when working with someone.
Just notice the use of the word "like" and let it remind you that you're going to story, description, and the mind.
You're leaving the felt sense of the body to "make sense" about it in the mind.
To make sense about something that is purely sense.
Pause your client, and yourself in this moment, and locate the sense without a story. This is what it will look like:
I feel *like*....she just doesn't respect me = turns into = I feel a pit in my stomach.
I feel *like*... I'll just never amount to anything = turns into = I feel a tension in my chest.
I feel *like*...just running away = turns into = I feel massive energy in my legs.
When you are locating sensation, instead of describing it, you are locating agency.
Movement.
From this location the body will move without story and thought. If it doesn't automatically, you can ask your client the question: "How does this sensation want to move?"
But make sure they SHOW you, not *tell* you.
And then move with them, mirror the movement, so they see it and so that they are joined in it, rather than uncomfortably looked at as if it's a performance.
This is a shortcut for releasing stored energy, repressed agency, and repairing boundary violations.