JP Counseling

03/16/2026

This is some of who keeps JP Counseling going every day!

03/12/2026

March is recognized as Problem Gambling Awareness Month, a time to bring attention to the impact gambling can have on individuals and families. With major sporting events and online betting becoming more common this time of year, many people may find themselves gambling more than they planned.
For some, gambling starts as entertainment but can slowly create stress, financial strain, or tension in relationships. Gambling problems often develop quietly, which is why awareness and open conversation are so important.
At JP Counseling, we want people to know they are not alone. If gambling has started to affect your mood, finances, or relationships, support is available. Talking with a professional can help you better understand patterns, build healthier coping skills, and regain a sense of control.
Problem Gambling Awareness Month is a good time to check in with yourself and the people around you. If you or someone you care about is struggling with gambling, JP Counseling is here to help.

03/02/2026

Since this month marks the start of my birthday celebrations, I wanted to share something more personal and share with you about what fuels my passion for working with couples.

I'll be honest: like many marriages, mine has faced its share of ups and downs. We've had misunderstandings—some minor, others significant—and there were times when hurtful words were exchanged. Of course, we've also shared plenty of love, laughter, trust, and friendship. Yet, over time and without realizing it, we drifted away from our commitment and the vows we made together before God.

Both of us balanced demanding jobs while raising two children, which often led to frequent arguments. Sometimes, these disputes were over important issues, but looking back, most were quite trivial. Does that sound familiar?

We often misread each other's words or actions. Managing careers, shuttling our children to daycare, working overtime or bringing tasks home, and managing daily chores—cooking, cleaning, laundry—left us utterly drained. Can you relate? Eventually, we stopped discussing our deeper feelings, thoughts, hopes, and dreams; instead, our conversations revolved around work stresses, parenting struggles, finances, and other problems, contributing to a negative atmosphere.
Ultimately, we separated for eighteen months—a year and a half apart.

Yet, in October 2025, my husband and I celebrated forty-three years of marriage—FORTY-THREE YEARS and still going strong!

I'm sharing this with you because I understand what you might be feeling in your relationship, and I want you to remember you are not alone. Hope and support are available. At JP Counseling Center, you'll discover a safe, non-judgmental environment with caring, skilled therapists ready to support you on your healing journey.

As a couple’s therapist, I remain impartial and do not keep secrets. My goal is to help you openly discuss concerns with your partner. Communication breakdowns are common among couples; that's why I teach communication skills and guide you both to connect more effectively.

Sometimes, you may feel like you're the only one fighting to save your marriage. I understand, and I'm here to support you in becoming your best self, no matter where your relationship leads.
Healing a strained relationship is not easy, but it's achievable when both partners are willing to put in the effort—being honest, dependable, consistent, and accountable for their choices and actions.

Feel free to attend sessions individually or as a couple.

Please contact me, Mary Hayes, at JP Counseling Center, Beaver, PA
724-494-6750
https://f.mtr.cool/qdnovvcezl

02/27/2026

Tomorrow’s the day! 💚

Admission is FREE, but registration is required don’t miss out!

Secure your spot now: https://f.mtr.cool/ijbugzzvcx

Join us this month for an Overdose Prevention & Narcan Training presented by our founder, Jill Phillips, and the Beaver County Drug Abuse Coalition at the BF Jones Memorial Library!

📅 Saturday, February 28th at 10 AM
📍 Aliquippa, PA
💊 Free Narcan provided
👥 Open to everyone

📝 Registration required: https://f.mtr.cool/ijbugzzvcx

Because being prepared can make all the difference. 💚

02/22/2026

‼️ Reminder‼️ “Exploring Mental Health Across the Lifespan” is coming up 🧠

Don’t forget to join Jill Phillips, MS, NCC, LPC, CAADC and Erin Troup, LPC, NCC, CT, IMH-E IV for this upcoming virtual training focused on mental health from infancy through adulthood. The session will include a special look at Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) and their long-term impact on health, development, and family relationships.

📅 March 9, 2026
⏰ 9:00 AM–12:00 PM
💻 Virtual Training

👥 Designed for professionals working with families facing mental health or substance use challenges.

🔗 Register here: https://f.mtr.cool/ssnrwokwyx

02/18/2026

Only 10 days to go until this incredible event. Make sure you’re registered and ready to join us!

Join us this month for an Overdose Prevention & Narcan Training presented by our founder, Jill Phillips, and the Beaver County Drug Abuse Coalition at the BF Jones Memorial Library!

📅 Saturday, February 28th at 10 AM
📍 Aliquippa, PA
💊 Free Narcan provided
👥 Open to everyone

📝 Registration required: https://f.mtr.cool/ijbugzzvcx

Because being prepared can make all the difference. 💚

02/16/2026

Don’t let the love only be around this weekend ❤️ Strengthen your relationship all year long.

Couples counseling is available with Mary Hayes, MA, Licensed Associate Professional Counselor, Certified Biblical Counselor, Certified Mental Health Coach First Responder, and a Member of the American Association of Christian Counselors.

She is passionate about working with couples, married and unmarried, helping them navigate unhealthy relational patterns and develop skills that lead to healthier, stronger relationships.

✨ Areas of Expertise:
• Individual, Couples, Marriage & Family Counseling
• Trust Repair
• Life Transitions
• Emotional Intimacy & Reconnection

Invest in your relationship. Call 724-494-6750 or click https://jpcounselingcenter.org/request-appointment/ to schedule an appointment today.

Request Appointment We are currently accepting new/return individual clients, Mental Health and S.A.P. D.O.T. Evaluations and Couples/Marriage (self-pay only), however, depending on your needs determined by your Client Intake Form you could be placed on a short waiting list. We are not accepting any...

02/09/2026

🧠 Exploring Mental Health Across the Lifespan

Join Jill Phillips, MS, NCC, LPC, CAADC and Erin Troup, LPC, NCC, CT, IMH-E IV for a virtual training focused on mental health from infancy through adulthood, with a special look at Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) and their long-term impact on health, development, and family relationships.

📅 March 9, 2026 | ⏰ 9 AM–12 PM 💻 Virtual Training

👥 For professionals working with families facing mental health or substance use challenges.

🔗 Register here:
https://f.mtr.cool/ssnrwokwyx

02/02/2026

Unless you reside on the West Coast, many of us on the East Coast and some southern states will attest that it has been extremely C-O-L-D; cuddling weather, for the past several weeks, to the tune of single digits, occasionally with a windchill temperature in the negative.

Similarly, all committed relationships experience times when love grows cold or lacks the intensity and closeness that it once held. What happened?

Regardless of the stage of our relationships, this month, we are surrounded by “love” displayed in “red,” the color of passion. Stores are packed with Valentine’s Day cards, stuffed animals, chocolate filled heart-shaped boxes both large and small, beautiful flowers, especially red roses, and of course jewelry stores strongly encouraging the gift of diamonds as an expression of love…preferably the diamond engagement ring which many single women secretly hope for on Valentine’s Day.

But I regress. What if you are struggling to keep love in your relationship? What if you are at odds with your mate/partner, and may not even be speaking to each other? Is it possible that you feel like you have fallen out of love?
Listen, love is not convenient, or based on how you feel, it is a choice and a commitment. Love is unselfish and is kind; it is patient, truthful and forgiving.

Relationships take hits such as the stress of financial difficulties, health problems, loss of loved ones, unrealistic expectations, past and current hurts, demanding work schedules and even the raising of children; these are the realities of life.

So, I challenge you during this month of “love.” Instead of waiting for your spouse/partner to shower you with love, make it a point to shower them with love…simply honor your commitment to them. Following are several inexpensive but valuable ideas to get you started which will not only benefit your spouse/partner but will benefit you!
- Ask your spouse to read this blog and commit to work together on your relationship.
- Leave encouraging Post-it notes throughout your place of residence.
- Compliment your spouse/partner.
- Practice patience.
- Inquire about your spouse/partner’s well-being and LISTEN.
- Forgive and/or apologize as appropriate.
- Be available to spend time with your spouse/partner.
- Create an encouragement box for your spouse/partner, filled with notes of love and encouragement that they can pull out and read as needed.
- Watch your spouse/partner’s favorite movie or program with them.
- Start dating again! Go on an inexpensive date like an indoor picnic.

Now it is your turn. Be creative with ideas of how you can demonstrate your love and respect for your spouse/partner. Practice it year-round. Let kindness, unselfishness, forgiveness, empathy, and compassion be your way of life in your relationship.
Remember, couples therapy is available. It provides insight to create and/or rebuild loving relationships. Couples therapy can teach you coping tools to address your relationship concerns, teach you how to communicate better with each other and much more!

Please contact me, Mary Hayes, at JP Counseling Center, Beaver, PA
724-494-6750
https://f.mtr.cool/cdcxmibddx

02/01/2026

Join us this month for an Overdose Prevention & Narcan Training presented by our founder, Jill Phillips, and the Beaver County Drug Abuse Coalition at the BF Jones Memorial Library!

📅 Saturday, February 28th at 10 AM
📍 Aliquippa, PA
💊 Free Narcan provided
👥 Open to everyone

📝 Registration required: https://f.mtr.cool/ijbugzzvcx

Because being prepared can make all the difference. 💚