10/27/2025
Mondays with Mary: The Power of Intentional Communication in Relationships 🫂
💬 When was the last time you had a meaningful conversation with your mate?
When was the last time you felt truly heard and understood in your relationship?
Have you stopped talking because your partner doesn’t listen?
Because you don’t believe they care?
Because they make you feel small—or you’re just trying to keep the peace?
Studies show that poor communication is one of the leading causes of marital struggles and even divorce. 💔
But here’s the good news — there is help and hope!
The busyness of life often means relationships get pushed to the back burner. Over time, that lack of connection can grow into frustration, anger, and loss of trust.
💡 So how can you rebuild better communication in your relationship?
According to the Gottman Institute, the first step is intentional, non-defensive communication. When couples speak openly and listen with empathy, they can finally see and understand each other on a deeper level.
Here are some practical ways to start:
Recognize that change begins with you.
Accept that both partners carry emotional baggage—insecurities, fears, regrets, and trauma all affect how we communicate.
Be compassionate. Try to understand your partner’s reactions before responding. 💗
Watch your tone and volume—they set the mood for connection or conflict.
Set aside uninterrupted time together. Phones down, TV off, eyes on each other.
Listen closely, respond thoughtfully, and avoid name-calling or hurtful words.
If you’re struggling in your relationship, don’t give up!
Help is available. 💞
Allow me, Mary C. Hayes, to walk with you on your journey toward healing and connection.
📍 JP Counseling Center, Beaver, PA
📞 724-494-6750
🌐 https://jpcounselingcenter.org/request-appointment/