02/03/2026
There’s a range where the nervous system can stay present, flexible, and responsive.
This is often called the window of tolerance — or the window of presence.
Inside this window, stress is manageable.
Outside it, the body shifts into survival: activation or shutdown.
Awareness is what allows these shifts to be noticed in real time.
Tracking the nervous system as it moves in and out of the window builds self-awareness.
That awareness matters because it shows when support is needed.
Self-soothing then becomes a timely response — not a forced technique — helping the nervous system return to presence.
Learning to notice first changes everything.
More on the window of tolerance here:
https://fullerlifefamilytherapy.org/window-of-tolerance/