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11/03/2025

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She was 73 years old when she led children—missing fingers, blind from factory work—on a 125-mile march to the President's doorstep.
Their banners read: "We want to go to school, not to the mines."
And for the first time, America couldn't look away.
This is 1903. The Gilded Age. Rockefeller and Carnegie built mansions while children worked 12-hour shifts in coal mines and textile factories. This wasn't a secret—it was the American economy.
Two million children under fifteen worked in factories, mines, and mills. Some were as young as five years old.
They lost fingers in machinery. They went blind from lint-filled air. They developed curved spines from carrying loads their bodies couldn't support. They died in mine collapses and factory fires.
And the country called it progress.
Into this nightmare walked a woman who refused to accept that children were just cheaper labor.
Her name was Mary Harris Jones. The workers called her Mother Jones.
She was born in Ireland in 1837, immigrated as a child, and built a life as a schoolteacher and dressmaker. She married an iron worker, had four children, and thought she knew what her life would be.
Then, in 1867, yellow fever swept through Memphis. In one week, Mary buried her husband and all four of her children.
She was thirty years old and had lost everything.
Most people would have broken. Mary got angry.
She moved to Chicago, rebuilt her dressmaking business, and started paying attention to who wore the beautiful dresses she made—wealthy women who'd never worked a day in their lives—and who made them—women and children working in sweatshops for starvation wages.
In 1871, the Great Chicago Fire destroyed her shop and everything she owned. Again.
This time, she didn't rebuild. She joined the labor movement.
By the 1890s, Mary Harris Jones had become "Mother Jones"—a name she chose deliberately. She was everyone's mother, every worker's fierce protector. She traveled from strike to strike, coal mine to coal mine, organizing workers and confronting owners.
She was brilliant at it. Sharp-tongued, fearless, and utterly unintimidated by wealth or power. Mine owners hated her. Governors tried to ban her from their states. She showed up anyway.
"I'm not afraid of the pen, the sword, or the scaffold," she told them. "I'll tell the truth wherever I please."
In 1902, she stood with Pennsylvania coal miners during the great Anthracite strike—140,000 men refusing to work in mines where cave-ins and explosions were considered acceptable business expenses. The strike lasted five months. Mother Jones organized, rallied, and kept morale alive.
But it was the children she saw in the textile mills that broke something inside her.
In 1903, in the mills of Kensington, Pennsylvania, children as young as six worked thirteen-hour shifts six days a week. The air was thick with cotton dust that destroyed lungs. The machinery had no safety guards—arms and fingers caught in gears were so common that mill children could identify each other by their missing digits.
They earned three dollars a week. Some gave all of it to parents too poor to survive without it.
Mother Jones walked through the mills and saw seven-year-olds operating machines. Ten-year-olds with white hair from dust exposure. Twelve-year-olds missing hands.
She saw children who'd forgotten how to play.
When the textile workers went on strike that summer, Mother Jones had an idea that would become legendary.
She would march the mill children—the actual children working in the factories—from Philadelphia to Oyster Bay, New York, where President Theodore Roosevelt was vacationing at his mansion.
She would make the President look at what his economy was built on.
On July 7, 1903, Mother Jones began the March of the Mill Children. She started with about 100 children, though the number fluctuated as some dropped out from exhaustion and others joined along the way.
These weren't healthy kids on a field trip. These were children who worked adult jobs. Their bodies showed it.
One boy named James Ashworth was ten years old. He'd lost his left hand in a textile machine. Another child, Gussie Rangnow, was just eight years old—small for his age because malnutrition had stunted his growth. A girl named Edith had been blinded in one eye by flying lint.
They carried banners made from old fabric: "We want time to play." "We want to go to school." "We ask for justice."
The march covered 125 miles over three weeks. They walked through the summer heat, sleeping in barns and union halls. Mother Jones, at 73 years old, walked every mile with them.
In each town, she held rallies. She'd bring the children on stage and tell their stories—not for sympathy, but for outrage.
"Here's a child who should be in school," she'd shout, pointing to a boy missing fingers. "Instead, he's been crippled to make your cheap shirts!"
Newspapers sent reporters. This was theater, spectacle—an old woman leading broken children to confront the President. But it was also truth. Photographs showed children with bandaged hands, hollow eyes, bodies that looked decades older than their ages.
The public couldn't ignore it anymore.
When they reached New York, Roosevelt refused to meet with them. He wouldn't even acknowledge they were there. Secret Service turned them away from the mansion gates.
But it didn't matter. The march had already succeeded.
Newspapers across the country ran stories about the children. Editorial pages that had ignored child labor for decades suddenly discovered moral outrage. States began discussing reform laws. Politicians who'd taken factory money started feeling pressure.
Mother Jones had done what reformers hadn't managed in years: she'd made child labor visible.
The march didn't immediately end child labor—that would take decades and the Fair Labor Standards Act of 1938. But it was a turning point. The moment America had to confront what its prosperity was built on.
Mother Jones continued organizing for another twenty years. She was arrested repeatedly, threatened constantly, and never backed down. She organized miners in Colorado, steel workers in Pennsylvania, textile workers in the South.
She was called "the most dangerous woman in America" by one prosecutor. She wore it like a badge of honor.
"I'm not dangerous to working people," she shot back. "I'm only dangerous to those who exploit them."
In 1930, Mother Jones died at age 93—having outlived most of her enemies and seen many of the reforms she'd fought for become law.
But here's what makes her story different from many labor leaders: she never held an official position. She wasn't a union president or elected official. She had no formal power.
She just showed up. Wherever workers were suffering, wherever children were being exploited, wherever the powerful thought they could crush the weak without consequence—Mother Jones appeared.
With her sharp tongue, her fearless presence, and her absolute conviction that children deserved childhood.
The March of the Mill Children succeeded not because it changed laws immediately, but because it changed what Americans were willing to tolerate. Once people saw those children—really saw them, with their missing fingers and exhausted faces—ignoring child labor became harder.
Mother Jones understood something fundamental: people can ignore statistics. They can rationalize exploitation. They can convince themselves that poverty is inevitable and suffering is just economics.
But they can't ignore a child holding up a handmade banner that says "We want to go to school."
She was 73 years old when she led that march. An age when most people were retired, resting, accepting the world as it was.
Mother Jones walked 125 miles in summer heat to tell the President of the United States that his economy was built on broken children.
He wouldn't meet with her. But the country finally listened.
Because sometimes change doesn't come from those with power.
Sometimes it comes from those with nothing to lose—and the courage to make everyone look.
She called herself Mother Jones because she claimed every worker as her child.
And in 1903, she marched her children—the real ones, with missing fingers and shattered childhoods—straight to power's doorstep.
And demanded their lives back.
The factories didn't close overnight. The mines kept running. The child labor laws took decades.
But America had seen. And once seen, some things can't be unseen.
Mother Jones died in 1930, having fought for sixty years.
The children she marched to Oyster Bay? Some lived to see the Fair Labor Standards Act pass in 1938—the law that finally made child labor illegal nationwide.
They got to go to school after all.
Because one fierce, tireless woman refused to let the world forget they were children first—and workers never.

11/03/2025

Babies aren’t meant to sleep alone.
That’s why they wake every time you lay them down.

They’re not “bad sleepers.”
They’re not spoiled.
They’re not trying to make your nights harder.

They just spent nine months being rocked by your heartbeat.
They fell asleep to the rhythm of your breath.
They’ve never known a world where you weren’t right there.

So when you put them down and walk away, their body goes into panic.
It’s not attitude.
It’s survival.

They cry because they need you.
Because your touch, your scent, your warmth
that’s safety to them.

You’re not creating bad habits.
You’re meeting a need that nature designed them to have.
You’re their comfort.
Their calm.
Their home.
©️SashaGautreaux

10/25/2025

Tomorrow night I will be completing my contract for my current Long Beach client.
This will be last client for 2025 as i am having surgey. I am accepting clients for 2026. Please feel free to text 516 359-8399. Or email at phonerose2@gmail.com
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