03/06/2026
I’ve heard this quite a few times in my 26 years as a speech therapist:
“He can talk… he just won’t.”
I get why it feels that way.
When a child understands a lot of language but isn’t using many words yet, it can look like they’re choosing not to.
But understanding language and producing language are two very different skills.
A child can know a lot of words before they’re able to pull those words out and say them on their own.
And sometimes children just need a little help learning how to turn the language they understand into language they can use.
If you’re noticing your child understands a lot but isn’t using many words yet, I put together a free guide called “10 Ways Your Child Might Be Communicating Without Words.”
It helps you recognize the communication that’s already happening and gives you a few simple ways to support language from there.
You can grab it through the link in my bio.
Save this for the next time someone says your child is “just being stubborn.”