11/16/2025
💜 Fibromyalgia: The Pain You Can’t See… But Millions Live With Every Day
StrongHer. Seen. Supported. Never Silent.
Fibromyalgia isn’t “just pain.”
It’s not “all in your head.”
And it’s definitely not something you should have to explain or defend to anyone.
Fibromyalgia is a complex chronic pain and sensory-processing condition that affects 4–8 million Americans, with nearly 90% of cases occurring in women. It influences the entire body — the nervous system, immune function, sleep cycles, gut health, energy production, and even mood.
And yet… most people with fibromyalgia fight two battles:
👉 The pain itself
👉 And the misunderstanding that surrounds it
Today, we break that silence.
We bring awareness.
We bring validation.
We bring StrongHer support. 💜
💫 What Fibromyalgia Really Feels Like
Fibromyalgia symptoms can vary from day to day, which is one reason it’s so misunderstood. Common symptoms include:
✨ Widespread muscle pain & tenderness
✨ Chronic fatigue (even after a full night’s sleep)
✨ Brain fog / forgetfulness
✨ Headaches or migraines
✨ Sensitivity to light, noise, cold, pressure
✨ Stiffness in the morning
✨ Sleep disturbances
✨ IBS, nerve pain, restless legs, and more
Many describe it as:
“Like the flu, but it never ends.”
“Electric shocks shooting through my body.”
“A heavy, aching fog wrapped around my muscles.”
If you’ve ever felt this — you are not imagining it. You are not weak. You are living with a real, recognized medical condition.
🧠 What Causes Fibromyalgia?
Here’s the truth:
There is no single cause. Instead, fibromyalgia appears to be a whole-body imbalance involving the nervous system.
Research points to:
🔹 Central nervous system hypersensitivity
Pain signals are amplified in the brain and spinal cord.
🔹 Neurochemical imbalances
Changes in serotonin, dopamine, and norepinephrine can affect pain and mood.
🔹 Hormonal shifts
Fibro commonly worsens around perimenopause and menopause.
🔹 Gut–brain axis dysfunction
Leaky gut, dysbiosis, and chronic inflammation play a major role.
🔹 Immune dysregulation
Chronic inflammation may maintain the pain cycle.
🔹 Stress & trauma
Emotional, physical, or environmental stressors can be triggers.
Fibromyalgia is real, physiological, and complex — not imagined.
🩺 Diagnosis: Why It’s So Difficult
There is no single test for fibromyalgia.
Diagnosis comes from:
✔ Medical history
✔ Pain location & duration
✔ Tender points or symptom scoring
✔ Ruling out other chronic conditions
Dr. Ben Gaylhardt and many functional practitioners advise patients to never accept fibromyalgia as a final diagnosis until you’ve had a complete autoimmune panel because symptoms can overlap with:
Lupus
Rheumatoid arthritis
Lyme disease
Multiple sclerosis
Thyroid disorders
Vitamin deficiencies
Getting the right diagnosis matters.
🌿 Managing Fibromyalgia the Whole-Body Way
There’s no cure — yet — but symptoms can be significantly improved with a holistic, multidisciplinary approach.
🌸 Lifestyle & Natural Supports
Gentle movement: walking, swimming, yoga, tai chi
Anti-inflammatory diet
Stable sleep routines
Heat therapy or warm Epsom baths
Meditation, breathwork, nervous-system calming techniques
🌱 Supplements (with professional guidance)
Magnesium
Vitamin D
Omega-3s
CoQ10
Melatonin
SAMe
Acetyl-L-carnitine
🌼 Herbal Supports
Turmeric (curcumin)
Boswellia
White willow bark
Devil’s claw
Ginger
Adaptogens like Ashwagandha
💆♀️ Complementary Therapies
Massage therapy
Acupuncture
Red light therapy
Hydrotherapy
TENS units
🧠 Mind-Body Approaches
Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)
Mindfulness & guided imagery
Stress reduction practices
Fibromyalgia requires a whole-body, whole-life healing approach, not a one-size-fits-all solution.
💜 The Mental Health Connection
Living with fibro can be emotionally exhausting. Many patients also experience:
Depression
Anxiety
OCD tendencies
PTSD symptoms
Social isolation
This is not a coincidence — the brain chemicals involved in fibromyalgia overlap with mood regulation. When your nervous system is overwhelmed, your mind and body feel that together.
You are not alone. You are not “too sensitive.”
Your pain is valid. Your feelings are valid.
💪 StrongHer Message
If you’re living with fibromyalgia, here’s what I want you to remember:
✨ You are not weak — you are surviving the unimaginable.
✨ Your pain is real — even when others can’t see it.
✨ Healing is not linear — and that’s okay.
✨ You deserve answers, support, and compassion.
✨ And you are StrongHer than this moment.
November is Fibromyalgia Awareness Month — but your strength is year-round.