09/19/2021
As a general life rule I like to remind myself that it takes way more energy to be against things than for them.
I also happen to be a lactation consultant that is not “against” pacifiers.
When families ask, I try to make two points:
1. Studies do tell us that babies who receive a pacifier are feeding on average one less time per 24 hours. Is this okay? Maybe. Depends on your specific baby and what the big (feeding) picture looks like for your family. Could this be a problem? Sure can.
2. If you hold that pacifier up and think “dang! I would not want my ni**le to look like that after it came out of my baby’s mouth” 👉 do not use that pacifier unless breastfeeding is very well established. “Flat Nipple” is not the pacifier shape you are looking for when pacifier shopping. In fact, of your human ni**le is flattened after a breastfeed you should call your friendly neighborhood IBCLC!
TLDR: Pacifiers are not the enemy. Flat ni**les might be.