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At Bill Merritt Funeral Service, a funeral home in Bethany, Oklahoma, we draw inspiration from life to create personalized memorial celebrations that best reflect an individual.

“Exceptional care and compassion during an incredibly difficult time.”When a family entrusts us with a loved one’s servi...
01/14/2026

“Exceptional care and compassion during an incredibly difficult time.”

When a family entrusts us with a loved one’s service, we don’t take that responsibility lightly. We walk beside them—quietly, respectfully, and with care in every detail.

Angela recently shared: “The staff was professional, patient, and attentive, ensuring every detail was handled with dignity and respect. Their guidance and support brought comfort and peace to our family.”

These words mean so much, because they reflect what we strive to offer every family we serve.

To Angela and so many others—we’re truly grateful for your trust. We’re here when you need us, always with compassion.

“What we have once enjoyed deeply, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.” — Helen KellerAs a ...
01/09/2026

“What we have once enjoyed deeply, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.” — Helen Keller

As a new year begins, it’s okay to carry both hope and heartache. The love we’ve known doesn’t disappear with time—it stays with us, shaping how we grow, how we remember, and how we begin again.

If you’re stepping into the new year with grief, know this: beginnings and remembrance can exist side by side. You’re allowed to honor the past while still gently moving forward.

Surviving the New Year Is EnoughAs the world rushes into resolutions and fresh starts, you may find yourself just trying...
01/06/2026

Surviving the New Year Is Enough

As the world rushes into resolutions and fresh starts, you may find yourself just trying to breathe. If you’re grieving, you don’t need a list of goals. You don’t need to move on. You don’t need to be “better.”

You’re already doing something brave—carrying love, loss, and memory into another year. That’s more than enough.

However you show up this season—with tears, quiet strength, or one deep breath at a time—you’re not alone. We see you, and we think you’re doing great.

🕊️ Not Every Goal Needs to Be Exciting—Some Can Just Bring PeaceAs we step into a new year, many people are thinking abo...
01/02/2026

🕊️ Not Every Goal Needs to Be Exciting—Some Can Just Bring Peace

As we step into a new year, many people are thinking about what matters most. And we think that should include: family, legacy, and easing the future burdens for those we love.

Estate and end-of-life planning isn’t exciting, but it can bring peace. It isn’t about expecting the worst, but about offering clarity, comfort, and a lasting act of love. If planning is on your heart - and on your 2026 Goals list - this year, here’s a gentle place to begin:

✅ Write down your wishes for your final arrangements.

✅ Create or review your will and/or living trust.

✅ Choose a healthcare proxy and power of attorney.

✅ Organize important documents (titles, accounts, passwords).

✅ Have a conversation with someone you trust.

✅ Consider pre-planning your service or memorial preferences.

✅ Share where your documents are kept.

You don’t have to do it all at once—just one step at a time, maybe just one month at a time. And, if you’d like a guide to help, we’re always here.

A New Year, A Gentle Step ForwardNew Year’s Eve can stir up so much—memories of those we miss, gratitude for those still...
12/31/2025

A New Year, A Gentle Step Forward

New Year’s Eve can stir up so much—memories of those we miss, gratitude for those still near, and hope for what’s yet to come. So, it’s okay if you’re entering the new year carrying both joy and sorrow.

Grief doesn’t follow the calendar, but neither does love. It lives in the stories we tell, the traditions we keep, and the quiet moments that remind us: they are still with us.

However you’re ending 2025, we hope you feel surrounded by care, comfort, and the courage to begin again—one gentle step at a time.

🎄 May Your Christmas Be Filled With Light, Love, and Gentle MemoriesFor many, Christmas is a time of warmth and together...
12/25/2025

🎄 May Your Christmas Be Filled With Light, Love, and Gentle Memories

For many, Christmas is a time of warmth and togetherness—but it can also hold quiet moments of missing someone who should be here.

Whether your day is filled with laughter, reflection, or something in between, we hope you feel surrounded by love—the kind that lingers in memories, traditions, and the people who walk beside you.

From all of us at Dignity Memorial, we wish you peace, comfort, and a meaningful Christmas.

📖 A Legacy Is More Than a Plan – It’s a StoryWhen people think about end-of-life planning, they often picture paperwork ...
12/23/2025

📖 A Legacy Is More Than a Plan – It’s a Story

When people think about end-of-life planning, they often picture paperwork and decisions. But your legacy is so much more than that—it’s your story. The music that moved you, the meals you loved, the people you held close.

Planning ahead means you get to help shape how you’ll be remembered. It’s a chance to share your values, your memories, and the parts of your life you want your loved ones to carry forward.

Taking time to reflect on your story can be a meaningful gift to yourself and those who love you. A Legacy Journal is one way you can do it. You can start with one simple question:

“What do I hope my family remembers most about me?”

Your words don’t have to be perfect. They just have to be yours. If you’ve ever thought about preserving your story, we’re here to help guide you—gently and without pressure.

Even the Longest Night Leads to LightThe upcoming Winter Solstice reminds us that even in the darkest seasons, light slo...
12/19/2025

Even the Longest Night Leads to Light

The upcoming Winter Solstice reminds us that even in the darkest seasons, light slowly returns. It’s a quiet turning point – one that mirrors the cycles of life, love, and loss.

Grief, like winter, asks us to slow down. To sit with what’s heavy. But it also reminds us that healing doesn’t happen all at once. It comes in small, gentle shifts, just like the return of the sun.

If you’re moving through a season of sorrow, may today bring a little peace, a little warmth, and the hope of brighter days ahead.

Grief Can Look Different This Time of YearGrief doesn’t follow a calendar, and it doesn’t always show up the same way. D...
12/16/2025

Grief Can Look Different This Time of Year

Grief doesn’t follow a calendar, and it doesn’t always show up the same way. During the holidays, it may appear as sadness – or it might show up as exhaustion, quietness, irritability, or even unexpected laughter that’s followed by tears.

There’s no right or wrong way to grieve. You might need space. Or you might need closeness. You might feel joy and sorrow in the very same moment. However it shows up, it’s valid.

If you’re carrying heartache into this season, be gentle with yourself. You’re doing the best you can –and that is more than enough.

💛 A Meaningful Place to Honor a LegacyWhen families choose cremation, many also want a permanent place where memories ca...
12/12/2025

💛 A Meaningful Place to Honor a Legacy

When families choose cremation, many also want a permanent place where memories can be visited, shared, and cherished for generations. A Private Pedestal offers exactly that.

Thoughtfully designed and beautifully crafted, this cored pedestal holds up to four placements, creating a shared space where loved ones can remain together. It’s a meaningful option for couples, siblings, or families who want their stories to continue side by side.

Set within a peaceful cemetery setting, a Private Pedestal becomes more than a memorial. It becomes a gathering place — a spot for reflection, quiet conversations, and moments of connection that keep a legacy alive.

If you're planning ahead or exploring options for your family, a Private Pedestal offers a timeless and personal way to create a lasting tribute.

🌿 To learn more about cremation memorial choices across our Dignity Memorial cemeteries in the Oklahoma City metro area, give us a call. Our caring teams are here to help guide you every step of the way.

Gentle Ways To Support The Grieving This SeasonThe holidays can be beautiful—and bittersweet. For someone who’s grieving...
12/09/2025

Gentle Ways To Support The Grieving This Season

The holidays can be beautiful—and bittersweet. For someone who’s grieving, this season might feel a little heavier, a little quieter. You may not know what to say, but your presence alone can mean so much.

Here are a few simple ways to support someone who’s grieving this season:

Send a handwritten card with a favorite memory

Offer to run an errand or drop off a meal

Invite them to attend a holiday gathering or outing, but give them the freedom to say no

Say their loved one’s name

Check in on milestone days (anniversaries, birthdays, holidays)

Just listen without trying to fix anything

You don’t have to have the right words. Just showing up with kindness can be a lifeline. Grief is heavy, but no one should carry it alone.

🎁 The Gift No One Thinks OfNot every meaningful gift comes wrapped in a box. Some are felt in quiet moments, like when y...
12/06/2025

🎁 The Gift No One Thinks Of

Not every meaningful gift comes wrapped in a box. Some are felt in quiet moments, like when your family is confident about your wishes, and there’s no need to wonder what you would’ve wanted, or carry the burden of planning during a time of grief.

Preplanning isn’t about expecting the worst. It’s about offering your loved ones peace of mind when they’ll need it most. It’s one of the most thoughtful, lasting gifts you can give… a way of saying “I love you enough to make this easier.”

This time of year - with so much focus on presents and giving - is the perfect opportunity to prepare your final gift for those you love.

If this is something that’s been on your heart, we’re always here to help, no pressure, just care.

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6201 Northwest 39th Expressway
Bethany, OK
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