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At Bill Merritt Funeral Service, a funeral home in Bethany, Oklahoma, we draw inspiration from life to create personalized memorial celebrations that best reflect an individual.

02/17/2026

What Do You Want to Be Remembered For?

On Presidents’ Day, we often reflect on leadership, legacy, and the values that endure long after a person is gone. But legacy isn’t reserved for public figures—it’s something we all create, one small act at a time.

The way you love your family. The kindness you offer. The way you treat others. The stories you share. These are the things that shape how you’ll be remembered—not just by many, but by the people who matter most.

Today is a quiet invitation to reflect: What do you hope lives on in your name?

02/13/2026

💗 Grief and Love Often Live Side by Side

Valentine’s Day can feel bittersweet when someone you love is no longer here. The flowers and cards may look different, but the love you carry—that deep, enduring love—never fades.

And grief is just the echo of that love. It shows up in memories, in quiet moments, and in the ache of missing someone who meant the world to you. Even in the sorrow, love remains—still present, still powerful, still yours.

However you’re honoring that love today, may you feel held by memory and surrounded by care.

02/11/2026

Choosing Cremation Doesn’t Mean Choosing Uncertainty

For many families, one of the biggest questions after choosing cremation is simple and honest:
What do we do next?

The good news is this — you no longer have to worry about what to do with someone’s ashes. Today, there are more meaningful, permanent memorial options than ever before.

Cremation can include a lasting place of remembrance in a cemetery, just like traditional burial. Families may choose a columbarium niche, a private pedestal, a granite tablet, a companion marker, a cremation bench near a peaceful fountain, or a private columbarium with a vase for fresh flowers. Some families select community placements, while others create more personal spaces designed for shared remembrance.

Each option offers something deeply important:
A place to visit.
A place to gather.
A place to say, “We remember.”

Cremation does not mean giving up permanence. It simply opens the door to flexibility, personalization, and beautiful ways to honor a life well lived.

If you’re exploring options for yourself or someone you love, we’re here to answer your questions and help you find a solution that feels right — thoughtfully, respectfully, and at your pace. 💛

02/10/2026

Grief Can Feel Isolating—But Love Has a Way of Finding Us

When someone is grieving, they may feel like the world is moving on without them. Small, thoughtful gestures can be a powerful reminder that they’re still seen, still valued, and still deeply loved.

Here are a few ways to gently show up for someone who’s grieving, especially during the month of Valentine’s:

Send a card with a favorite memory of their loved one.

Drop off a meal or warm drink without expecting conversation.

Invite them on a quiet walk or drive.

Text, “I’m thinking of you—no need to reply”.

Say their loved one’s name out loud.

Leave a flower, candle, or small token on their doorstep.

Include them without pressure—let them choose what feels right.

Sometimes, love sounds like “I’m here,” even if it’s said without words. However you reach out, know that it matters.

02/06/2026

Love Shows Up in Many Forms 💗

In a month filled with flowers, cards, and heartfelt moments, it’s worth remembering that some of the most meaningful expressions of love aren’t wrapped in ribbons—they’re found in the care we show for the people who matter most.

Planning ahead is one of those quiet acts of love. It lifts future worries from your family, ensures your wishes are honored, and gives those you cherish the gift of clarity and peace. It’s not about urgency—it’s about compassion, intention, and the love that continues long into the future.

There’s no rush — when you’re ready, we’re here to offer guidance, comfort, and support every step of the way.

02/04/2026

❤️ The Heart Has Room for Both Grief and Hope

During American Heart Month, we’re reminded that our emotional and physical well‑being are deeply connected. Grief can make the heart feel heavy—but it can also make space for tenderness, love, and quiet moments of hope.

Caring for your heart means caring for all of it—the sadness you carry, the memories you treasure, and the small steps you take toward healing. A walk outside, a deep breath, a moment of stillness, or speaking a loved one’s name can nourish both body and spirit.

Wherever you are in your grief, may your heart find room for both the ache and the light. You’re not alone on this journey.

01/30/2026

A Lasting Tribute, Crafted in Stone

For families who choose cremation and want a permanent place of remembrance, a Granite Tablet offers a simple, elegant, and enduring option.

Thoughtfully designed to include two interment rights, this memorial provides a shared space for loved ones to remain together. Its timeless granite surface creates a beautiful and lasting tribute — one that honors connection, legacy, and the stories that live on.

Placed within a peaceful cemetery setting, a Granite Tablet offers a place where family and friends can visit, reflect, and feel close to those they love. It’s a meaningful choice for families who want both permanence and simplicity.

If you’re planning ahead or exploring memorial options, a Granite Tablet may be a thoughtful way to create a tribute that stands the test of time. Our caring teams are here to help guide you every step of the way.

01/28/2026

When You’re Grieving a Parent

Whether your loss is recent or happened long ago, grieving a parent can stir deep, lasting emotions. It’s the kind of grief that may soften over time—but never fully disappears. It lives in the moments you wish you could call them, in the recipes they used to make, in the way you still catch yourself hearing their voice.

Losing a parent often reshapes how we see the world. It can feel like losing a piece of your foundation—your first home, your lifelong guide, your biggest cheerleader. That absence can feel especially heavy during life’s milestones, holidays, and special seasons.

There’s no “right” way to grieve, and no timeline for missing someone who shaped your life. However you’re carrying that love and loss today, know this: you are not alone. And your feelings are always welcome here.

01/23/2026

💛 Grief and Self-Care Can Coexist

When you’re grieving, even the simplest things can feel overwhelming. But self-care doesn’t have to be big or bold—it can be quiet, intentional, and deeply kind.

Taking care of your body and spirit while grieving isn’t about “moving on.” It’s about finding small ways to support yourself as you carry your loss. A few gentle ideas:

Take a slow walk without your phone.

Write in your journal.

Listen to music that soothes you.

Say no to things that feel too heavy.

Enjoy a favorite drink or snack.

Give yourself permission to rest, even if others don’t understand.

Grief is hard work. The way you care for yourself through it matters. You deserve gentleness in this season—whatever that looks like for you.

01/22/2026

Planning With Peace, Not Pressure

Preplanning isn’t about urgency—it’s about care. It’s a quiet way of saying, “I want to ease this burden for the people I love.” It’s not a checklist to rush through, but a meaningful way to reflect on your story, your values, and how you want to be remembered.

Taking even one step—writing down a wish, starting a conversation—can bring a deep sense of peace. Not just for the future, but for today.

Whenever you’re ready, we’re here to walk with you—gently and without pressure.

01/19/2026

“Only in the darkness can you see the stars.” – Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

On this important day of reflection, we remember the quiet strength of compassion, the power of peace, and the light that rises through loss and struggle.

Dr. King’s legacy reminds us that even in our hardest seasons, hope can shine through—and that love, dignity, and justice are things we carry forward not just in words, but in how we care for one another.

May today be a moment of gratitude, remembrance, and gentle inspiration.

01/16/2026

A Year of Firsts Can Feel Heavy Before It Even Begins

If you’ve recently lost someone, the year ahead may feel overwhelming. Birthdays, holidays, anniversaries—all those “firsts” without them can stir up deep, unexpected emotions.

While we can’t plan away grief, we can prepare for it with care. A few gentle ideas:

Mark important dates on your calendar with space for rest.

Ask a trusted friend to check in around tender milestones.

Create small rituals—like lighting a candle or writing a note.

Give yourself permission to say “no” when things feel too heavy.

You’re not alone in this year of firsts. We’re holding space for your heart, your healing, and your story.

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6201 Northwest 39th Expressway
Bethany, OK
73008

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