02/20/2026
Dear dancers,
This week began with a call from my daughter, Lilliah. “The headaches continue,” she said. “I need to stop pretending I’m okay.”
Her doctor has prescribed another MRI, another MRV, and we’re again facing the possibility of another surgery.
What I noticed — even before fear — was how quickly my separate self decided a story: She’s okay now. We’re through this. We have more time. And how easily that story slid into numbing — not from lack of love, but from trying to protect myself from feeling fully.
And then… correction.
Love rides close to grief. An open heart carries both.
This is the practice: staying.
So I want to ask you:
What are the stories that harden you?
Numb you?
Pull you away from presence — from your body, from one another, from what’s here?
Because this life is not only sorrow. We touch the hem of joy. We bask in it. We feel the oneness of open hearts moving together. This, too, comes with presence.
The joy of being together is not to be missed.
This remembering — this awakening — is needed for our lives.
Friday night, we practice letting go — not of what matters, but of the stories that pull us away from love. We arrive. We commune. We remember what we are.
After all — we are just love.
That’s what we are.
You don’t need to be okay to come.
Just bring yourself.
With love,
Ann
PS: a few spots still available next weekend — dancing at the ocean. Join us? annkite.com/tranquility