07/31/2025
Bear with me...this is gonna be a story...promise there is a point!
I have never really thought of myself as an athlete in the traditional sense. When I was younger none of the sports really appealed to me. If you can believe it, I had done a brief stint on the Jr High Cross Country Team (not fun). Was often told that I was "thick" or "very solid" when I was younger. Tried my hand at Badminton(yeah that was a thing & also not the best at it)in High School, and definitely realized that there was a competitive streak present!
Shortly after High School I was married a military man and had my daughter by 20. Suffered from what I know now as PostPartum Depression. Three years and three days later my oldest son was born, and divorced a few years later. That is when I started my Massage Therapy journey. I LOVED learning about the body and was bit by the education bug! But I was not physically fit and still struggled with body image.
I started my college journey as a single mom, added my 2nd son, who struggled his first year of life and ultimately was diagnosed with being on the Spectrum and a couple other diagnosis. A few years later, loads of college credits later, I started post-grad at Palmer...found myself still not the healthiest form/body, totally in survival mode...a friend invited me to join her "and a few friends at the field later. It will be fun and best part you don't need any experience!". Yeah that was my introduction to playing rugby! LOL! In the five seasons I played (not super well, but I tried), there was practice for a couple hours a couple times a week and knowing I was not the strongest link I worked out 2-3 times a week, and then there were games...besides doing a reduced load of curriculum and being a single parent. I was still a fluffy nugget and could not understand why. What was wild though, was that rugby was so affirming and validating that any woman at any size or shape could be an athlete! The last season I played I got a knee injury, earned my 2nd knee surgery, and did not return to the gym or any sports. Did get married to another military man...and not terribly long after he returned from deployment I had my last son at the ripe age of 40. I had blossomed to what was my heaviest weight of 285lbs. and was not happy.
Again, I was invited to do "The Murph" (a tribute CrossFit workout) with a group of friends at a New City gym. NO clue what CrossFit was or entailed, but knew I had to do something different because every day I hurt and had to keep up with the kids. Shortly after the event I signed up at the gym, and every time I went to class I was so stupidly uncomfortable! I scaled pretty much every movement. What I realized was...I LOVED to move heavy things (aka lift weights) and the community.
David Goggins has said that something is worth it if you are uncomfortable. You do the uncomfortable things to change and improve (super paraphrasing). You just keep showing up. A few years later I changed gyms to 1031 Fitness (God bless Austin Teele's patience). Not long after being there I told my now best friend that I was going to be her partner for forever and that my name was Kim. Shortly after that I totally sold her on doing what is to this day her first and only CrossFit competition...but I caught the bug of doing competitions (Festivus, Spartan Deka, Tugfest, Last Gorilla Standing, Push Pull Pancakes, there was a strongman comp in there too)!
It was not long after that I met my buddy, Marissa McCune (who also is a Nurse Practitioner), and had shared with her that it was SO frustrating that despite all the working out, not eating like crap, and intermittent fasting that I did I was not losing weight. That is when I started my journey with doing GLP-1 and hormone replacement therapy. WHAT a game changer! Definitely did not lose weight like everyone else on GLP-1, but I felt like a whole new human being!
The beginning of last year, I ended up with my 3rd knee surgery and a separation. Started back at therapy and found myself on a medication to help with my anxious/ADD brain, found out that I should have never been eating gluten (was already avoiding yeast, and dairy) and pretty bad adrenal fatigue. I had to take a break from the gym and competitions...that was so hard to accept. Wildly enough I did not balloon back in weight. I accepted the invitation to do a photoshoot with my good friend, Kelly of Cadenza Photography. You could not have prepared my brain for what my eyes saw. Thru her lens (pun intended) I finally saw me and my body. Something that I had spent years not wanting to look at, and had for years been judged for how my body looked.
At the beginning of this year I went back to the gym solely focusing on lifting and divorce was finalized. Slight tweak of GLP-1 type and hormone amounts...I have now competed in my first Powerlifting competition, am scheduled to do another in December, have competed for fun in the Push-Pull Pancakes competition, doing the Last Gorilla Standing competition(there is still time to sign up by the way & it's held at Jeben's gym) in September, doing the Tugfest again this year...and I weigh as much as I did before I had my 3rd kiddo, but I am so much more healthy than what I was then and will be turning 50 this Fall.
All of this I share because I can relate to a lot of different circumstances/experiences, because I have been a military spouse, know what chronic pain feels like, been body shamed in several settings, adopted, done without a lot, experienced some mental health issues, had surgeries, had kids, lost family members and friends, thought I was going to lose last kiddo in utero, divorce, competed, been injured, moved more times than I care to admit, done so much education, and more. I still struggle with where my body is at and sometimes how it shows up for me. But I have been blessed beyond measure with this gloriously amazing circle of friends, family, providers, amazing gym communities, educators/mentors, and clientele.
Know that I strive every day to provide an environment that is judgement free and safe for each of my clients. Will always meet you and your body wherever you are at that day in that time of your life to help get you closer to the goals you have for your body. I will always happily share the resources and referrals that will aid in that journey as well.
with all the gratitude,
Kim Stumpf, LMT