09/25/2020
As a new mom, you are often told to “get back to yourself after baby” or “find some ‘me time’ for yourself” or “go enjoy some self care!”
Well, as a new mom, myself, I don’t even know what that means?! I honestly don’t know who I am, post baby. I can barely remember who I was pre baby and the parts I do remember, I know I can’t do now (sleeping in past 7am... those were the days!) Not to mention, any sense of normalcy has been thrown out the window, thanks to ... It’s not like I can easily and freely go out and have a romantic date night at a restaurant with my partner or go shopping with my friends.
Honestly, I think it’s okay to not know who we are in this season of life. I think it’s important to lean into this unknown. I know that if I can build tolerance to the discomfort of this unknown, I can discover a deeper part of me that I may never have found otherwise.