02/24/2026
Self Care
It’s a buzz word for sure. Everyone knows it’s important to fill your own cup. Especially this time of year with busy schedules, work, school, sports, icy roads and freezing temperatures it feels like life is so busy if you don’t take the time to do something for yourself, you’ll lose your mind. But who has time for that? It’s easy to talk ourselves out of it for sure. We think that self-care means pampering ourselves with massages or bubble baths, and if that’s the expectation of course we’re going to skip it. But the secret not enough of us know is that self-care is actually just about meeting your basic needs. It’s about recognizing what your body is lacking and filling that need. That might be that you’re dehydrated and need some electrolytes. It might be that you’re a little hungry and grab a Snickers, it might be that you’re forgetting to breathe and need to take a couple of deep breaths. For me, I need a clean kitchen, so if all is wrong in the world, if I wash off the counters and tidy up a little, all feels right again. The important thing is for you to take inventory or what you’re missing and fill that need. Here are a few simple ideas that might help. But whatever you decide to do, do something! You can’t take care of everyone else if you aren’t taking care of yourself.
Listen to your favorite song
Take 5 deep breaths
Call a friend – not text
Smile in the mirror
Put your face in the sunlight
Connect with someone
Pray or meditate
Walk around the block
Eat something fresh
Do a small task you’ve been putting off
Make a good financial decision
Laugh out loud
Build a memory
Send a funny meme
Clean one small area of your house