State of Mind Therapy

State of Mind Therapy Therapists specialized in treatment of anxiety disorders and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).

Anxious language fuels anxious feelings.You don’t have to “think positive” — just tweak your words a little.Words that f...
02/23/2026

Anxious language fuels anxious feelings.

You don’t have to “think positive” — just tweak your words a little.

Words that feed anxiety → “Should,” “Always,” “Can’t,” “Have to,” “What if…”

Words that shift anxiety → “Could,” “Sometimes,” “I’m learning,” “I choose to,” “Even if…”

The way you talk to yourself is part of your healing.

Our therapists teach skills like this every day — small language shifts that help calm your body and mind.

👉 Minnesota + South Dakota folks:

Schedule your free 15-minute consultation to start learning how to talk to yourself with more compassion.

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At our Navigating Flight Anxiety at MSP Airport Event, you will walk through security as a group, step inside the traine...
02/22/2026

At our Navigating Flight Anxiety at MSP Airport Event, you will walk through security as a group, step inside the trainer plane for guided mindfulness + open conversation, and then head to the observation deck to watch planes take off — with real-time coaching the whole way.

It’s the most real-life, hands-on way to learn about handling flight anxiety and start feeling more prepared for your next trip.

💬 Comment “MSP” below to grab your spot.

If you can’t seem to stop worrying before something even happens, your brain is doing exactly what it thinks it should—t...
02/20/2026

If you can’t seem to stop worrying before something even happens, your brain is doing exactly what it thinks it should—trying to warn you of a possible threat.

But don’t take the bait.

Instead of reacting to the worry, get curious about it.

✅ Notice your body. When do you feel your heart race, muscles tense, or stomach tighten?
✅ Watch your thoughts. What outcomes is your mind predicting or trying to prevent?
✅ Look for patterns. Which situations keep making you uneasy? There’s usually a theme—like uncertainty, responsibility, or fear of losing control.

When you start paying attention this way, you take power back from anxiety.
You begin to understand it, instead of letting it run the show.

👉 If you want help learning how to quiet the mental noise, we can help. Schedule a free 15-minute consultation with one of our therapists. (Link in bio)

02/19/2026

“I feel very positive that it is possible for me to overcome my fear. Before I really didn’t think I was going to be able to overcome this. Going through the security process, took out a lot of the scary unknown for me and now I feel it’s really a simple thing that I can do and I think I could do it by myself.”

At Navigating Flight Anxiety at MSP Airport, you’ll:

✅ Go through airport security (without needing a plane ticket)
✅ Sit inside a real aircraft and practice a calming mindfulness exercise
✅ Join a supportive conversation with others who understand (led by 2 therapists)
✅ Visit the observation deck to see planes take off and land

Event Date: March 21st, Satruday
Location: MSP International Airport

👉Comment “MSP” below and I’ll send you the link to enroll — come see how different flying can feel when you’ve got the right guidance.

Feel like you’re playing whack-a-mole with your worries?Just when one thought quiets down, another pops up. It’s exhaust...
02/19/2026

Feel like you’re playing whack-a-mole with your worries?

Just when one thought quiets down, another pops up. It’s exhausting—and it can start to feel like there’s no way out.
The good news is, you don’t have to keep playing the game.

Here are a few ways to step out of the cycle:

1️⃣ Notice the theme.
Most worries follow the same storyline. Try to identify the pattern—what fear or “what if” keeps showing up beneath the details?

2️⃣ Name it when it returns.
When that familiar worry reappears, gently remind yourself, “I’ve seen this before.” It’s just another version of the same story.

3️⃣ Remember your choice.
You can engage with the story—or choose to let it pass. It’s not easy, but every time you step back, you teach your brain that you don’t need to follow every anxious thought.

If you’re ready to stop playing mental whack-a-mole and start finding real calm, schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation with one of our therapists.
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Turbulence isn’t dangerous...but your brain doesn’t always get that memo. Lets change that.1️⃣ Learn how turbulence real...
02/18/2026

Turbulence isn’t dangerous...but your brain doesn’t always get that memo. Lets change that.

1️⃣ Learn how turbulence really works.
If you’ve never seen it, Google “turbulence and jello.” It’s a great visual that shows how smoothly planes move through bumpy air—not against it.

2️⃣ Expect the bumps.
Hoping for a perfectly smooth flight actually sets you up for more anxiety. When you expect a few bumps as part of the ride, your brain doesn’t interpret them as danger.

3️⃣ Skip the turbulence apps.
They’re rarely accurate and can actually increase anxiety. Pilots know how to handle turbulence better than any app ever could—trust their experience.

4️⃣ Try lifting your feet.
Some flyers swear that lifting their feet off the floor reduces how much movement they feel. It might sound small, but sometimes the smallest tweaks help the most.

5️⃣ Don’t let fear make the decisions.
Avoiding certain times, seats, or routes to “escape” turbulence only reinforces fear. Plan trips based on what matters to you, not your anxiety.

6️⃣ Remember the pilot’s perspective.
Pilots fly through turbulence for efficiency, not because it’s unsafe. They’re trained for it—it’s just part of the job.

7️⃣ Keep flying.
Avoidance feeds fear. Every time you fly, you teach your brain that turbulence isn’t dangerous—it’s just uncomfortable. Over time, that repetition builds real confidence.

If you want more strategies like these, comment TOOLS and I’ll DM you my Flight Anxiety Audio Series—three short lessons with 12 evidence-based tools for flying with less fear.

02/18/2026

When someone you love has anxiety, it’s natural to protect them from triggers. But reassurance, avoidance, and “rescuing” can accidentally reinforce the fear. Learn the difference between support and accommodation—and how to help your loved one build real confidence through discomfort.

March enrollment is open. Comment the word “MSP” and I’ll DM you the link to grab your spot — only 25 available.Feeling ...
02/17/2026

March enrollment is open. Comment the word “MSP” and I’ll DM you the link to grab your spot — only 25 available.

Feeling anxious about flying? We get it.

Between the what-ifs and stomach flips, it can feel like your brain never gets a break.

That’s why we created a one-of-a-kind experience at MSP Airport.

I know what it’s like to white-knuckle my way through flights and dread the days leading up to them.

And my husband, Justin, has both lived through panic himself and spent years behind the scenes in aviation, from flying to fixing to keeping planes in the air safely.

Together, we help fearful flyers take that next step toward calmer, more confident travel — and now we’re inviting you to join us inside the airport to learn how.

✅ Walk through the airport without the pressure of taking a flight
✅ Sit inside a real aircraft (trainer plane)
✅ Learn therapist-approved strategies for managing anxiety
✅ Ask us your biggest questions about flying

Event Date: March 21st, 2026
Location: MSP International Airport, Terminal 1

✈️ Comment “MSP” below and I’ll send you the link to enroll — come see how different flying can feel when you’ve got the right tools (and the right guides).

02/17/2026

Reflect on your progress with anxiety or OCD in 2024 and set goals for 2025. This blog helps you acknowledge small victories, learn from challenges, and create actionable steps for the year ahead. Discover why setbacks don’t erase growth and how reflection can guide your journey. Start celebrating...

Getting started with us is simple — here’s how it works1️⃣ Schedule your free phone consultationHop onto our online cale...
02/16/2026

Getting started with us is simple — here’s how it works

1️⃣ Schedule your free phone consultation
Hop onto our online calendar and choose a time that works for you. It’s quick, easy, and gives you a chance to see what therapy might look like before you commit.

2️⃣ Talk with one of our therapists
In your 15-minute call, we’ll get to know what’s been going on and what kind of support you’re looking for. We’ll help match you with the therapist who’s the best fit for your goals.

3️⃣ Book your first session
When you’re ready, you can schedule your intake right online. From there, your therapist will start building a plan that fits you—your life, your goals, your pace.

If you’ve been thinking about starting therapy, this is a great place to begin.
Schedule your free phone consultation today. (Link in comments)

These are the top 5 mistakes I see people make when trying to manage panic attacks — and what actually helps instead.1. ...
02/13/2026

These are the top 5 mistakes I see people make when trying to manage panic attacks — and what actually helps instead.

1. Avoiding anything that feels triggering
It’s so understandable to want to stay far, far away from the things that set off your panic. But avoidance teaches your brain that those sensations are dangerous. Gentle, gradual exposure helps your brain relearn that discomfort isn’t the same as danger.

2. Trying to push the anxiety down
Most people try to “calm down” or fight the symptoms the second they show up. The problem? That usually makes everything louder. Allowing the wave of anxiety to rise and fall (instead of gripping tightly against it) is one of the most powerful skills you can build.

3. Misreading physical sensations
A racing heart, sweaty hands, dizziness… these feel terrifying in the moment. Once a medical provider has cleared you, the work becomes shifting how you interpret these sensations — from “something is wrong” to “this is anxiety, and I can ride it out.”

4. Only using short-term fixes
There’s nothing wrong with quick tools to get you through a tough moment. But lasting change comes from learning how to work with your thoughts, sensations, and behaviors — approaches like CBT and ACT make a huge difference over time.

5. Trying to deal with it alone
Panic can feel isolating, but you don’t have to white-knuckle your way through it. Therapy, support, and honest conversations with the people in your life can be game-changing. No silent suffering required.

You can recover from panic. And understanding these common mistakes is a solid first step toward feeling more capable, grounded, and in control.

Feeling anxious and need something that works in the moment?Try the 5–4–3–2–1 grounding technique.It’s a simple way to b...
02/12/2026

Feeling anxious and need something that works in the moment?

Try the 5–4–3–2–1 grounding technique.
It’s a simple way to bring your mind back to the present when anxiety pulls you into “what ifs.”

5 – Notice five things you can see
4 – Four things you can touch
3 – Three things you can hear
2 – Two things you can smell
1 – One thing you can taste

This quick exercise helps you anchor in the here and now, giving your body a chance to calm and your mind a break from spiraling thoughts.
You can use it anywhere—at work, at home, or even mid-flight.

If you want more simple, therapist-backed tools like this, download our free Live More, Worry Less Guide.
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7831 East Bush Lake Road, Suite 200H
Bloomington, MN
55439

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