EMDR Associates

04/11/2026

https://www.emdrassociates.com/post/grief-trauma-and-substance-abuse
Grief, trauma, and substance abuse often overlap.

Grief, trauma, and substance abuse are deeply connected experiences that often overlap and reinforce each other. That was the case for Howard and Greta. Howard began drinking heavily after experiencing a traumatic loss. His brother, to whom he was very close, suicided. It happened suddenly with no w...

03/25/2026

https://www.emdrassociates.com/post/family-estrangement-when-families-stop-talking-over-politics-or-moral-differences

Ginger and her husband Stan haven’t spoken to their son Paul in 18 months. They desperately want to see him, but he doesn’t respond to their communications. They are among an increasing number of clients we’re seeing who are experiencing the agony of family estrangement.Ginger reports that Pau...

03/18/2026

https://www.emdrassociates.com/post/p**n-addiction-and-your-brain

Using po*******hy can affect the brain in powerful ways. Depending on how often you view p**n, your age, your mental health status and other factors, p**n can be highly addictive. Like addictive substances such as alcohol and drugs, it works through the reward system, which involves chemicals like d...

08/22/2025

Discover what to expect in an EMDR therapy session. Learn how trauma reprocessing works and how EMDR Associates in Bluffton, SCsupports healing through evidence-based care.

If you’re exploring trauma therapy options in Bluffton, SC, you may have come across EMDR therapy. Known for its effectiveness in treating PTSD, anxiety, and emotional wounds, EMDR is gaining recognition as a transformative healing modality. But what actually happens in an EMDR session? What shoul...

08/02/2025

https://www.emdrassociates.com/post/grieving-the-loss-of-a-pet

Has your heart ever been broken by the loss of a beloved pet? In this week's blog we explore why that heartbreak happens.

EMDR Associates offers compassionate EMDR therapy in South Carolina for trauma, PTSD, addiction, and relationship issues. Online counseling available.

08/01/2025

https://www.emdrassociates.com/post/grieving-the-loss-of-a-pet

Several weeks ago, I lost my dog Kai, a 14.5-year-old standard poodle. I found myself overwhelmed by grief to such an extent that life has taken on a completely surreal aspect. Everything feels strange. So I’m writing about this topic in the hope that something in my experience will be helpful to ...

07/07/2025

Alcohol use can make your relationship issues worse. That's because even a small amount of alcohol can get in the way of clear communication.

A couple came to me for counseling recently. They were deadlocked on the issues that had arisen in their relationship and could not even agree whether it was worth trying to save the marriage. When I asked about substance use, here’s what the wife told me:“I only drink 2 to 4 glasses of wine 3 o...

06/09/2025

Stop Chronic Fighting
Are you in a place in your relationship where it seems that all you do is fight? If so, chances are good that you're both stuck in a defense/attack mode that will never be productive. Our latest blog explains why and list things you can do to open up communication.

Five tips to help you break the cycle of chronic fighting.

05/22/2025

Are you distressed by your partner's po*******hy use? Does your partner try to hide their use or indulge in more use than feels comfortable for you? Partners of those with a po*******hy habit often feel that they've actually been cheated on and may develop symptoms of trauma. The issue is more common than you might think. Read about how to survive a partner's p**n habit in our latest blog.

Finding out that your partner actively uses po*******hy can be a painful shock to your system. Your partner's interest in p**n might make you think that he or she is not attracted to you and so is looking for stimulation outside of your relationship. It might make you fear that your partner has actu...

05/06/2025

Defensiveness can do lasting damage to your relationship.IN our latest blog, discover the sources of defensiveness, its impact, and five tips to reduce or prevent getting defensive.

Repair Your Relationship, Part 2Bonnie and Peter were having a conversation about what happened at dinner last night. Peter brought up the fact that he felt hurt when Bonnie took a phone call, got up from the table, and was gone for 15 minutes. Bonnie's response was: “I couldn’t help it. My sist...

05/06/2025

Defensiveness can do lasting damage to your relationship. In our latest blog, discover the sources of defensiveness, its impact, and five tips to reduce or prevent getting defensive.

Repair Your Relationship, Part 2Bonnie and Peter were having a conversation about what happened at dinner last night. Peter brought up the fact that he felt hurt when Bonnie took a phone call, got up from the table, and was gone for 15 minutes. Bonnie's response was: “I couldn’t help it. My sist...

05/02/2025

Tip of the Week: Is Your Relationship Set on Repeat ?

Sitting at your computer all day, doing the same motions over and over can injure your wrist or your back. That’s known as a repetitive stress injury and it can be quite painful and debilitating. Similarly, if your relationship routine is the same stuff over and over – going to work, coming home and taking care of dinner, kids, and laundry and then falling into bed exhausted – your relationship may suffer from a repetitive stress injury as well. Partners in this situation often feel like the relationship has run out of steam and just getting through is the best they can hope for.

So what can you do to reinvigorate your relationship?
1) Schedule in time for yourselves to have fun as a couple. Whether its physical intimacy, going to a movie, taking a walk in nature, or visiting with friends, having fun together brings new energy and reminds you of what you value in your partnership.

2) Make sure you are talking to each other about your feelings and needs. This promotes increased understanding of each other and is an antidote to responding to each other based on your own assumptions which are too often wrong.

3) Break the routine from time to time. Switch roles so that you’re doing the tasks you partner usually does and your partner is doing the things you typically do. Organize an outing that you know your partner would love and that you would not typically initiate. These sorts of activities allow for spontaneity and freshness while helping you ‘get’ your partner.