03/20/2022
About Andrew Waters
Licensed Mental Health Therapist
Now accepting new clients in Florida. In person or online.
Would you believe that I almost went to law school?
Being drawn to intelligence, I try to surround myself with inspiring people. It’s allowed me to emulate a lot of their skills and make them my own. I remember being a high-school student, struggling with life, enmeshed with unhealthy friends, my priorities got rearranged and I considered my education a nuisance. I was blessed with a brilliant tutor, a bit older than me, who was becoming a doctor. He inspired my passion for writing and education. This happened through his modeling of the art and his thinking out loud. Later, in college, I’d catch myself using his “word-smithing” techniques and from there, I realized the value of being exposed to gifted teachers. Talent and skill are contagious!
As a curious and persistent “truth seeker,” law was a natural interest, and if I’m being honest, legal dramas on TV in my younger years also got my attention. Learning and understanding the world gave me a sense of security and confidence in myself that didn’t exist before.
Philosophically, the idea that laws, essentially words on a piece of paper, command order from chaos, sufficient to establish and maintain society is fascinating to me.
That, despite huge differences of opinion, somehow the principles have prevented a fall into complete tyranny.
So… why did I become a therapist?
I gave the law an honest shot. I decided to complete a Paralegal program – at this time, living in Toronto, Canada, where Paralegals can practice without the supervision of a lawyer, appear in small claims court, agencies, tribunals and boards. I still maintain the license as I can’t bear giving it up. The certificate is just too nice!
I did work in the field and was planning to attend law school after getting my BA. But, I realized through practicing that I wasn’t happy with some of the ethical conundrums – sometimes, finding myself on the wrong side of my conscience. Confident that I didn’t want the challenge that the profession posed to my character, I decided to change course.
I decided that being a therapist was a good fit. My passion was more than just the law, it was understanding people.
Law and psychology share the ability to animate ideas with life. Lawmakers bring bills to life, whereas the human mind turns ideas into self-fulfilling prophesies. Acknowledging the danger that harmful thoughts pose to health, I realized that I needed to help people put their thoughts on trial!
I feel I have a deep comprehension of pain.
I had my own issues growing up including, impulsivity, anxiety, substances and social challenges, resulting in a fair share of painful lessons. After many false starts, I was able to sustain momentum in recovery since 21 years old. Immaturity and low self-esteem led me to seek validation from unhealthy kids. I confused the present moment with permanent reality. I had no idea that I was going through “growing pains” and that the parts of myself that I hated were ultimately just un-developed aspects of my personality. Looking back, I think I had a hard time accepting that I wasn’t one of the “cool kids” and didn’t want to embrace my identity as a nerd. A profound life lesson here was that, failure to accept reality results in suffering. As much as I wanted to be like the people I classified as “cool”, it wouldn’t change me. Instead, every time reality re-asserted itself, I would be injured again. Recovery began when I started to take responsibility and accept myself as is.
My style is unique and creative.
I prefer to think outside the box and dive deep into understanding why things are as they are. As an example, I recently started working with a young man with addiction and a bevy of mental health diagnoses. He had been to treatment programs all over the country and hadn’t been able to get any momentum. I was the first professional to not advise further treatment, as there isn’t a program anywhere that would get him what he needed to succeed, a life. Therefore, I took on the case and assisted him in doing just that - he’s now in school, working, and managing to put together some sober time, all without any additional outrageously expensive programs – that may have actually delayed recovery.
In order to put up with the pains of change, building a compelling future is immensely important and needs to happen as soon as possible. One of the best relapse prevention strategies is to build a life that you would never give up.
Many claim that they offer individualized care, but very few follow through with helping meet the needs of the client. I make it a priority!
As a therapist, I try my best to identify the issues and then create meaningful interventions overcome them. Different things will work for different people. I work hard with my clients to find strategies and apply them.
Some of my education and experience…
I got my bachelor’s degree in Talmudic Studies (Jewish Religious Studies) in New York. The degree focused on the principles of Jewish thought and ethics. I was inspired by the learning, and favored texts on self-development derived from wisdom thousands of years old. The insight is without question still relevant to the modern person.
There really is “nothing new under the son.” ~ King Solomon A.K.A. The wisest person in the world.
I decided to move my family to Minnesota and complete my master’s degree in Addiction and Mental Health Counseling at the Hazelden Betty Ford Graduate School of Addiction Studies. After graduation, I worked at the Betty Ford Foundation Addiction Treatment Center (for teens and young adults) in Plymouth, where I spent 3.5 years working with adolescents.
In 2018, I joined the team at NUWAY Minneapolis, a community-based adult residential setting providing treatment to adult clients with severe mental health needs, chemical dependency, socioeconomic stressors, and complex legal concerns.
Recently, my wife and I agreed to relocate to Florida with our three kids. We had considered NY for a long time, being that I’m from Toronto and my wife is from Brooklyn. However, things kept on getting in the way, and it never worked out. We decided that if we are going to be away from our families, we should at least be somewhere that they’d want to visit us. Naturally, Florida came to mind and has proven to be a good choice. After all, who doesn’t take a vacation to Florida?
When I’m not doing therapy…
When I’m not doing my work as a therapist, I can be found at home with my wife and three boys. Sometimes building lego sets, and others playing with our dog, Blue (an Australian Shepherd).
Let’s work together and end this cycle of misery!
Asking for help can be the most challenging part. There are a lot of unknowns and uncertainty about taking this step. I hope this page allowed you to gain more insight into who I am. I love what I do and have been privileged to help a lot of people live more fulfilling lives. I extend the same offer to you! If you feel that we might be a good fit, please contact me. Consultations are always free and there’s no obligation to make a commitment. Take a healthy risk! Call today…
Phone 561-717-3227
andrew@wcounseling.org
Therapist in Boca Raton - Specializing in adolescents and adults struggling with mental health, substance use disorders, relapse, anxiety, depression, PTSD, Personality Disorders, and relationship issues. Reach out today for a free consultation.