07/07/2021
I remember the first time I ever experienced anxiety
What now seems like a seemingly small event when I was 5, was the first time I scripted a narrative “ I’m not enough”
Did I not study enough for the test?
Am I not attractive enough to date him?
To my breaking point:
Why wasn’t I ENOUGH to keep my sister alive?
90 percent of anxiety is physical.
When you claim "I FEEL so scared", you're not kidding.
What is causing your body to experience such debilitating symptoms? Your thoughts? But if you know your thoughts are exaggeratedly irrational, then why are you still feeling afraid?
The answer lies in the .
What are you really reacting to? At a high level, we can say that the amygdala reacts to threats in the environment. When its triggered, it sends immediate rapid fire signals to your brain and body.
To do what?
To make your body ready to fight or flight the situation.
Adrenaline rises. Muscles tense. More sweating. Lungs take in more O2. And many, many more reactions.
The good news is your amygdala is malleable and moldable:
•A sensitive amygdala does not automatically equate to anxiety. So what else can influence your current position? Environment, conditioning, & if neither has been supportive, your own choices and free will.
•The amygdala can be trained. Diaphragm breathing. Mantra. Mindful meditation. It works.
•But these positive memories cannot be built without ACTION. You need to start somewhere. Where?
Behavior.
•Behavior is guided by thinking. If your old thinking was faulty, don't use it. Use new thinking. But don't force old thoughts to go away. Watch those thoughts from a distance instead of merging with them.
•Limit your "creative" google research to find something that's more wrong with you. That would be a distorted behavior. Want to overcome your anxiety? Question why reading this post is not enough for you.
Question how all possible good news is never enough.
Question why you are so vested in finding bad news.
Question why you can't sit with good news.
•Sure, I’ve made a few detours in life. But I am no longer emotionally weighed down by them because I’m learning to respond with the art of the pause.
You can too.