12/22/2025
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Boundaries feel impossible until you remember this: you donât owe anyone access to your body, your choices, your trauma, or your energy. Especially during the holidays when everyone suddenly has opinions about everything youâre doing. These scripts arenât rude - theyâre self-preservation.
You can say them politely. You can say them firmly. You can say them and then change the subject. You can say them and leave the room. You can say them and not explain further because you donât owe anyone a dissertation on your boundaries. The people who truly care about you will respect them. The people who donât? That tells you everything you need to know about them.
Your boundaries are not up for negotiation. Your mental health is not up for debate. Your recovery is not a family discussion topic. Your body is not public property. Protect your peace like your life depends on it, because honestly, sometimes it kind of does.
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