Lisa Salcedo, LCSW

03/22/2026

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Break the habits that may speed up aging. Learn how changing daily routines like sleep, stress, movement and diet can help support healthy aging.

03/21/2026

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03/21/2026

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03/21/2026

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Our kids may not remember every rule, every correction, or every lesson we try to teach, but they will remember how they felt with us…

They remember the way we responded when they were overwhelmed, the way we spoke to them when they made mistakes, and the way we showed up when things felt hard. In those moments, we are not just addressing behavior, we are shaping how they learn to experience emotions, relationships, and themselves.

When a child is met with dismissal, they do not suddenly learn to regulate or “do better.” What they often learn instead is that their feelings are too much, or that they have to handle them on their own. Over time, that can create distance, not growth.

But when a child is met with presence, even imperfect presence, something different begins to happen. They feel safer, and that sense of safety allows their nervous system to settle. When that happens, their brain becomes more open, and that is when they can actually listen, process, and learn.

This is why connection matters so much, not because it is soft, but because it is effective.

At the same time, this is the part that can feel hardest in real life, especially because many of us are trying to give our children something we did not consistently receive ourselves. We are learning to stay calm in moments that trigger us, to respond differently than what was modeled to us, and to hold space for emotions that we may still be learning to process within ourselves.

That takes awareness, intention, and practice, and it also requires a lot of grace.

You are not going to get it right every time, but the moments that matter most are not the perfect ones. They are the small, everyday moments where you pause, soften, and choose to connect instead of react.

Those are the moments your child carries with them, not because they were flawless, but because they felt different.

Over time, those experiences shape how your child learns to handle their emotions, how they relate to others, and how they see themselves.

You are not just raising your child, you are shaping what “safe,” “loved,” and “understood” feels like for them, and that matters more than you think. 🩷🩷

03/21/2026

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03/21/2026

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03/21/2026

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You bet trauma survivors get attached to our little routines, rituals, & places. Our lives have been chaos. We value stability where & when we can find it— & when we can find it— which means we're often attached to little things & seemingly "random" places.

It makes sense. You're not weird.

03/21/2026

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Not everything deserves a place in your mind.

Noise will always be loud. Opinions will always come. Energy will always flow toward you.
But growth depends on what you allow to stay.

Clarity is not about avoiding the world.
It’s about choosing what enters your inner space.

Filter what is false.
Filter what is heavy.
Filter what is not aligned.

Keep only what builds you.

03/21/2026

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Stopping impulsive reactions isn't easy, in fact it can feel like you're working backwards. But your awareness of those impulses is powerful, and a practice...

03/21/2026

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03/21/2026

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Sometimes the simplest practices can have the biggest impact.

Placing your hand on your heart while taking slow, deep breaths can calm your nervous system, release oxytocin (the love hormone), and signal to your brain that you are safe and supported.

Try this the next time you’re feeling stressed or overwhelmed — it only takes a minute, and the effects can be profound.