Passion Provokers

03/12/2023

Did you know that Jami and I are in a movie📽??! Yep, it's a documentary about the coaching profession called LEAP--THE COACHING MOVIE (2015 filmed and released in 2018) and we're in it for a whopping total of...🥁drumroll, please🥁...less than 1 minute! But, we're in a MOVIE... 😯

And you can just watch👀 the first 10 minutes to find us if you don't want to watch it all😃 right here:

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5365066/

03/12/2023

An added couples retreat—are you ready to level up your coupleship? 🤔❤️💯

Participants report getting years of relationship counseling in just a few days. 😯💗‼️

See you there!
Marla (and Jami)

DM or comment below for deets…

03/11/2023

Excited to hear from top leaders in their fields! Thank you, Megan, for creating more magic in the Treasure Valley. And Sondra, Jami and I know you’re going to kill!!! 💗🙏🏻🤗

03/11/2023

What a great time sharing who Jami and I are and what we do with the amazing Breezie of Dance Your Truth—feeling grateful, excited, and energetic! 💗🙏🏻🤗

03/05/2023

Couples👩🏼‍❤️‍👨🏻 who use humor😁 to cope with stressful or challenging situations tend to report higher levels of relationship satisfaction💞 and are more likely to feel connected to each other❤️‍🔥.

Most of the time*, humor can serve as a way to reduce tension🤲🏻, diffuse conflicts, and increase positive emotions, such as joy🤩 and happiness😃.

In fact, a study found that the use of positive humor was associated with better relationship outcomes, such as lower levels of depression☺️ and greater overall life satisfaction🎉.

So, if you want to strengthen💪🏻 your relationship, try using humor to lighten the mood🎈 and create a more positive💗 and connected💞 atmosphere!

*Hostile humor is n e v e r okay, and will erode connection and potentially damage the coupleship as badly as an affair.

03/04/2023

On the menu: 1st chicken and waffles with Queen Marys, 2nd It’s a secret… 🤫💗 ❤️ ❤️

03/03/2023

Did you know that less than 1% of people truly know an all-over body❤️‍🔥, mind-blowing💥, consciousness-resetting orgasm🫦?

Jami and I are super excited to be a part of that 1%! 💗

Without the emotional connection🧡, people are just getting off😲, and in turn, they are squelching the potential energetic bonding 💞between their two hearts.

And it’s basically just glorified masturbation🫢.

If you’d like this, what do you do first? Hmm…🤔

As blah as it sounds, get your hormones checked!💛

This made a massive😄difference for both Jami and I and we thought that we were already super connected ❤️ and intimate💓, but with our hormones, it was like—💥 —that was real, because guess what?

It’s what’s between your ears!🎧

If your hormones are great, then the next step is 🥁🥁🥁 emotional connection!

And it’s all about speaking to each other in the heart ❤️ language.

So be a part of the 1%. 😉

You can do it! 👏🏻

If Jami and I can do it, anybody can do it, I promise. 👊🏻💗

02/22/2023

Couples Retreats are EPIC🔥 & RELATIONSHIP TRANSFORMING ⚡️ and there’s only ONE SPOT LEFT for each of our upcoming Mexico retreats so get on it and book TODAY! 💻❤️‍🔥 (Andddddd it's a great gift! 🤫💝)

Our retreats are a fantastic opportunity to level up your coupleship while having a unique romantic getaway without the hustle and bustle of your daily life. 💓😍❤️‍🔥

Why? Because you will...

⚡️Learn practical and effective communication skills that deepen your connection and intimacy as a couple. 💞🥰🔥
⚡️Resolve conflict that has been getting in your way with one another. 💔❤️‍🩹❤️‍🔥
⚡️Remember why you got together in the first place. ❤️‍🔥❣️🔥

Don't let life keep stealing your coupleship joy 💓--follow the link in my bio to book today!

02/21/2023

Couples who travel together✈️ tend to report higher levels of relationship satisfaction❤️‍🔥 and are more likely to feel connected💞 and in love❤️ with each other according to research (and imagine what traveling together to MEXICO🏖 for a couple’s retreat* with us might do?! ❣️Hint, hint…Wink, wink❣️ Only 3 spots left so click on the link below to reserve yours!).

Traveling together⛵️ creates new experiences🏄‍♀️ and memories🌝, fosters learning and growing together, and strengthens your emotional bond💗!

Also, traveling together can provide an opportunity for you to practice important relationship skills, such as communication💟, compromise, and problem-solving, as you navigate unfamiliar places and situations🎢.

So, if you're looking to enhance your intimacy and connection💘, consider planning a trip with your partner (to MEXICO in MAY with us🌮🍹🏖)!

Comment “Retreat” below for all the deets or click on the link below!💯

PS We only have 3 spots left👀 so don’t miss out and register TODAY❣❣

Spicin' It Up: Sayulita, Mexico (just north of Puerto Vallarta--April 14-19
https://www.jamiandmarla.love/spicinrsquo-it-up-couplersquos-retreats.html
Advanced: Sayulita, Mexico--April 23-30 or May 3-7
https://www.jamiandmarla.love/advanced-retreats.html

We are super excited to offer our fun and refreshing Couple’s Retreats! It’s a perfect gift for your love. We also offer Intensives for couples in crisis (limited to one couple at a time).

02/18/2023

Would you rather be RIGHT❗️ over being emotionally and physically INTIMATE💞 with your partner?

You do realize that is the choice you’re making when you insist😤 that your way is the “right” and only way, and then you get pissed😡 when they don’t jump to comply.

Learning to prioritize my relationship with Jami over always being right was a game-changer for deeper intimacy between us. ❤️‍🔥

What does this look like?👀

It takes a willingness to set aside your ego💯 and truly listen👂🏻 to your partner with empathy and understanding. 💗

When you do this, you create a safe space🐝 for your partner to express themselves without fear of judgment or rejection.

By choosing your relationship over your need to be right, you can strengthen your connection and build a deeper intimacy with your partner.💯🔥❤️‍🩹

It's a powerful shift that can transform your relationship and bring you closer together!💞

I know because I’m here now…🤔

02/17/2023

Are you jumping out of bed🛌 and jumping on your phone📱 to avoid your partner? Been there…💔

If you’re looking to go from despair😩 to desire❤️‍🔥 in your relationship you’re going to want to keep reading.

In 1999 I felt hopeless🥺 and heartbroken💔 because of my Jami’s betrayal. Crushed and alone I figured the only way out of this pain was divorce📑.

We were lost, broken, and hopeless after traditional counseling left us feeling emptier and more lonely than ever.😢

And then something amazing happened! 🤩

I learned from all the books and research I had consumed🤓 after D(isastor)-day that the secret to being visible and heard in our relationship was releasing my fear of being abandoned.🤯

Jami and I had discovered a process that WORKS❣️ and we created a framework so that no other couple would have to experience pain.

After creating our magic process🦄, we were not only able to have a completely connected relationship and teach others to do the same, but also I have been able to stop feeling lonely😔, invisible😬, and unheard😑 because I now have the tools to express my needs and desires in a way that creates satisfaction for both of us.🐝

And beyond this, Jami was able to intentionally listen to my needs and desires without feeling blamed and began communicating his needs and desires in a way that I can be present🐝 and hear him leaving him feeling valued💎 and loved💗.

I now know that I am worthy, beautiful🦋, and more than enough💯.

Jami and I are living the life we have always dreamed of!❤️‍🔥

Andddd here are the steps we took…
💯We learned to connect in a new and powerful way where we both ended up feeling heard and understood through having heart-to-heart conversations with r e a l feeling words.💞
💯We discovered a practice of forgiveness that transformed our pain into passion.🔥
💯We created daily habits that give us the ability to manage any tensions in our coupleship right in the moment.🤗
💯And we have our very own ❣️Intimacy Mentor❣️ who has guided us through the rough waters for over 23 years!

Is it time for an Intimacy Mentor in your life?🤔❤️‍🩹

02/16/2023

The initial signs of distance📱 in a relationship can cast dark clouds⛈ over the future of your coupleship.

What is the #1 sign of a brewing distance🆘?

Your partner is more interested in their device📱 than connecting with you💔 and with this, you are experiencing a decline〽️ in your physical intimacy🥺…

At the beginning of a relationship physical intimacy seems effortless.❤️‍🔥 Your passion is ON FIRE🔥 and you can’t imagine it waning💦.

And then you begin to notice that your easy intimacy is slowly fading to a trickle💧, and you feel disappointment😒 more often than not.

Sh**balls.☠️ What do you do now?

Here’s the short answer…

It's crucial to focus on rebuilding e m o t i o n a l intimacy❤️.

Intentionally devote quality time⏰ for your partner, have heart-to-heart💞 conversations that include r e a l feeling language, and actively show affection💗 and appreciation😘.

Don’t wait--take care of this asap📵 before it goes any further!

You’ve got this.💯❤️‍🩹