12/02/2025
Carmen Ann (Patterson) Kennedy of Boonville, Missouri, passed away peacefully on November 28th, 2025, at the age of 72.
Mother, Grammie, curator of beauty, collector of books, autumn enthusiast, homemade bread baker, fisher woman, and educator. In her lifetime, Carmen was passionate about making everything around her beautiful. Her home, Carmen's Cottage, was her happy place that she filled with her favorite books, paintings, and flowers, complemented by the sound of her pet songbirds. She was an avid reader and loved to share books with others; many hands browsed her Little Free Library she kept lovingly overflowing with books for all ages. Carmen was a renowned seamstress who loved to decorate. She worked at Ricmar Decorating in Boonville for 31 years, creating one-of-a-kind bedding and custom window treatments for homes across the Midwest, including the Governor's Mansion. Carmen received her Bachelor of Science Degree in May 1977 from the School of the Ozarks in Point Lookout, MO.
In true Carmen fashion, we share her words here:
I am a woman who hands out book prescriptions to others to ease their pain.
I am a woman who taught hundreds of children how to read and love books.
I am a woman who asks why someone does what they do to understand them and find the seeds of compassion.
I am a woman who for years, spent every Saturday and Sunday walking roofs and building homes for the families of Habitat For Humanity.
I am a woman whose hands have soothed babies, baked breads and pies and made fabric confections fit for Kings and Queens.
I am a woman whose hands stripped, sanded, painted, papered, tiled and made period window treatments for two historic homes.
I am a woman who has read many thousands of books and who loves nothing better than to sink into the world of a good story.
I am a woman who did the best that I could with the knowledge and resources I had and when I learned better, I did better.
I am a woman that butterflies follow.
I am a woman who draws peace and energy from moon glow, sunsets, wind, fire, ocean waves, and ferny woods.
Carmen is survived by former spouse, Cary Kennedy; three daughters, Melissa Kennedy, Amelia Kennedy (Andrew Schell), and Jennifer Kennedy; two grandchildren, Jules and Smith; great-grandson, Becket; siblings, Pat Patterson (Debbie), Andy Patterson (Donna), Harley Patterson, Irma Patterson (Ed), and half-siblings Pete and Lita Patterson. The Potts family was a second family to her. She is preceded in death by her parents, Ned R. and Carmen J. Patterson.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Sunday, December 14th, from 1-5pm at her home in Boonville.
In lieu of flowers, we invite you to honor Carmen's love of libraries with a donation to your local library in her name.
Arrangements are under the direction of Howard-Millard Funeral Home, 1397 Ashley Rd., Boonville, Mo 65233 (660) 882-3381. Condolences may be shared with the family at www.howardfh.com.