12/30/2025
Pain with breastfeeding is common, but it is not normal, and it should never be ignored.
Pain is one of the earliest signs that something in the feeding relationship needs support. Breastfeeding should feel comfortable after the initial learning period. Persistent pain is your body’s feedback system, not a rite of passage. Ignoring it can lead to worsening ni**le trauma, decreased milk transfer, supply concerns, and early weaning. None of which are inevitable when the root cause is addressed early.
Common causes of ni**le pain usually fall into a few key categories.
The most frequent is a shallow latch, often related to positioning or baby’s oral mechanics. Babies with tension, a high palate, or oral restrictions (like tongue or lip ties) may compress the ni**le rather than draw it deeply into the mouth, leading to cracking, blanching, or lipstick-shaped ni**les. Vasospasm can cause sharp, burning pain and color changes after feeds, while friction injuries may occur with incorrect pump fl**ge sizing or excess too much suction. Less commonly—but still important—yeast, bacterial infections, or dermatitis can mimic latch pain and require targeted treatment.
The good news: pain is usually fixable when addressed promptly.
Remediation starts with observing a full feeding—looking at positioning, latch depth, baby’s suck pattern, and milk transfer. Small adjustments, like changing angles, improving body alignment, or supporting baby’s jaw, can make a significant difference. If oral function is contributing, referrals for bodywork or further oral evaluation may be appropriate. For pump-related pain, correct fl**ge sizing and gentler settings are essential. When infection or vasospasm is suspected, individualized care and medical collaboration matter. Bottom line: pain is a signal, not a sacrifice. Getting skilled lactation support early protects both your comfort and your breastfeeding goals.