02/13/2026
Tomorrow is Valentineās Day, and if youāre feeling some type of way about it, we get it. š
Whether youāre single and tired of the reminders, in a relationship that doesnāt look like the movies, healing from heartbreak, or just not into performative love⦠this space is for you.
Letās normalize this: Valentineās Day isnāt just about romance.
Love isnāt limited to relationships, and self-care isnāt gendered. This season can be about choosing care that honors you, exactly where you are.
Maybe youāre not in your ālove era.ā
Maybe youāre in your healing era. Your growth era. Your figuring-it-out era. Your learning-to-love-yourself-first era, and thatās more than enough.
Real self-love looks like:
š¤ Caring for your mindāslowing down, unplugging, praying, journaling, or sitting in silence
š¤ Caring for your bodyāresting, moving gently, and nourishing yourself without punishment
š¤ Caring for your heartāchecking in with your emotions and setting boundaries where love feels draining
You donāt need a partner to be whole.
You donāt need roses to be worthy.
You donāt need a Valentine to validate your existence.
You are enough, right now, as you are.
What era are you in this Valentineās season? Tell us below. šš¾