01/17/2025
The Extinction Burst: When OCD Treatment Seems to Make Things Worse
Parents often ask, "We’re doing everything right, so why does it feel like our child’s OCD is getting worse?"
The answer often lies in a behavioral phenomenon known as the extinction burst—a natural yet challenging part of the therapeutic journey.
✨ What is an extinction burst?
When a child’s OCD-related behaviors stop being reinforced (e.g., parents no longer providing constant reassurance), those behaviors might intensify before they eventually subside. This temporary surge is the brain’s way of scrambling to regain control.
🤔 Why does this happen?
Imagine flipping a light switch that no longer works. Frustrated, you keep trying, hoping it will eventually respond. For children, the "light switch" is parental accommodations or rituals that previously eased their discomfort. The extinction burst is their brain’s last-ditch effort to get the old response.
💡 How parents can weather the storm:
>Stay neutral: Avoid inadvertently reinforcing the behavior, even with negative attention.
>Hold firm: Consistency is key in signaling that the old tactics no longer work.
>Be patient: Remember, this burst is temporary—it’s the brain learning a new, healthier pattern.
🌈 A path to resilience
Each time you ride out an extinction burst, your child learns that change, though uncomfortable, is manageable. By holding steady, you model patience, adaptability, and the enduring strength of love.
Behavioral change isn’t about quick fixes—it’s about navigating this journey together. The storm will pass, and calmer, healthier patterns will take root.
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