Conscious Polyamory: A Path to Unconditional Love

05/19/2025

⚠️Boulder/Denver, CO, local singles and couples: If you are curious about opening your relationship and/or doing polyamory in your next relationship, I'm excited to answer your beginner questions. I'm gathering a handful of folks in Boulder in the next week or so for this Poly Q&A test-run. DM or comment here for details! 😄✨️

05/19/2025

⚠️Boulder/Denver, Colorado local singles and couples: If you are curious about opening your relationship and/or doing polyamory in your next relationship, I'd be thrilled to answer your beginner poly questions. I'm gathering a handful of folks in Boulder in the next week or so for this Poly Q&A test-run event. DM or comment below for details! 😄✨️

10/01/2021

When you consistently know, speak, and enforce your boundaries, you become liberated to love the way all humans want to love... fiercely, freely, and unconditionally.

08/10/2021

I'm creating a Poly Quiz and my partner was helping me think up clever website names for it last night. He was super-creative and came up with way more names than I did, which I am grateful for. I think we decided on something!

The first quiz is for people to assess if they are monogamous or non-monogamous. And I joked with my partner that I'd love him to take it so he can test if the mono part of the quiz is working properly (since we both agree, he is sooo mono). 😅🙃 I thought that was hilarious!

Website coming soon. I'll share the link with you once ready!

05/24/2020

...More people than ever now are reaching out inquiring about polyamory and swinging. (I've gotten several inquiries in the last several weeks; I usually don't get that many in a year!) I take this as a sign the world is changing. I know this pandemic is awful in so many ways. And I also know something this big, also, cannot help but open us to new possibilities and to a more-evolved humanity and world in our future...I've witnessed a whole spectrum of relating over the years, ranging from beautiful relationships all the way to bad/toxic/controlling relationships between people... that includes between lovers, parents and children, friends, bosses and employees. I've, sadly, seen a lot of control and co-dependence. I've had my own struggles and breakthroughs with co-dependence and control. And my breakthroughs, eventually, led me into a whole new style of relating called "Polyamory"...Polyamory is not for the faint of heart. It is stepping into a new way of relating, a new, more transparent way of being in the world. When done unconsciously, polyamory and swinging is a place where s*x addiction and narcissism can run rampant (unconsciously-practiced or controlling monogamy lends itself to the same). On the other hand, practiced consciously, with compassion and an open heart, polyamory (or monogamy, for that matter) has us opening even more and letting love in on levels and to magnitudes we never knew possible.
💥If you are curious about polyamory or need guidance in your current polyamorous relationship, please email me, Alyah Fox, at behigherlove@gmail.com and we'll go from there!
💛Much love in your relating, whatever it looks like,
Alyah Fox

11/23/2019

Wow, this is amazing. The US Supreme Court will do this at some point🤞, I suspect.. that is, officially rule that anti-polygamy laws don't apply to unformalized polyamorous households – clarifying that polyamory, as it is typically practiced in the US, is legal and not a criminal act.

November 23rd is Polyamory Day. On that day in 2011, BC’s Supreme Court ruled that Canada’s so called “anti-polygamy law” does not apply to unformalized polyamorous households – clarifying that polyamory, as it is typically practiced in Canada, is legal and not a criminal act.

Prior to November, 23, 2011, it was questionable if polyamory was legal in Canada.

If you agree that people who are polyamorous are entitled to the same same rights, privileges, and governmental accommodation that others have, please circulate this image to others on your blogs, in email, and on social media such as Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.

Polyamory is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved.

Thank you from the CPAA (Canadian Polyamory Advocacy Association).

03/02/2017

Poly... when the rubber hits the road, things can get messy, but it can also be AN ADVENTURE! Comment below about one of your poly experiences that didn't turn out quite as envisioned and how you dealt with it.

06/16/2016

This is the mantra of anyone who has great, loving relationships and who lives powerfully...

06/16/2016

Here's Alyah Fox, the face behind "Conscious Poly"! (For those who wondered. :D )

Alyah is a poly coach who is gifted at:
*Holding a non-judgmental and safe space for clients around relationships and s*xuality. Offering different, creative perspectives on their situation such that they can identify and break through unhealthy patterns to transform their relationships.
Specialties:
*Helping men and women re-enter the dating world with confidence and ease.
*Helping people get in touch with the opposite s*x on all levels to have the most satisfying relationships, love, and s*x of their lives!
I offer:
*Compassionate listening that allows people to feel truly heard and understood.
*Grounded perspectives that flow out of a broad range of experiences in my own personal relationships.
*Practical tips and specific phrases to get you communicating more effectively with everyone you know, customized for your unique situation.
*An ability to see through situations to get to the root cause of suffering in relationship and s*x to get everyone on the same page again, loving and laughing together!
*Sessions are $60/hour and can be done by phone, skype, text, or in person. Individual or group sessions are available. Contact me at (415) 952-5924 or behigherlove@gmail.com for questions or to schedule your free 20-minute intro session. I look forward to working with you!