12/19/2025
How would you view the stranger standing in line at Trident in front of you ☕️ or the human who snagged the open seat on the bus next to you 🚌 if you considered the humanity of their lived experience in terms their rites of passage?
We’ve each been through a lot in life. It’s unlikely that we have made it this far without pain, suffering, unhappiness, or loss. Likewise, each of us has experienced joy, tears, laughter and celebration. Rites of passage happen all of the time and at any age. They’re the journeys we’ve been on physically and mentally that have helped us arrive at our current state of being. They’re not always kind, graceful or easy.
These influential times are formative for each of us and they’re as unique as we are. What weaves a common thread through each is how tightly weaved the experiences are into the fabric of our lives.
Consider again the stranger nearby… Can you imagine all of the loss, grief, or heart-centered moments they have encountered? What about those yet to come? Consider next how your heart responds when reflecting on these imaginary scenarios. Do you feel more compassion for them? How about for yourself? While we can never truly know what another has experienced, we can humble ourselves by remembering that we all share common humanity.