01/10/2026
Are you looking for a sign?
You are not the only one!
🤣-Is this YOU?
Do you ever find yourself waiting for a “sign-ier sign”?
Maybe a bolt of lightning, a clap of thunder, or a full-body apparition—just to be absolutely sure the signs your Loved One in the Afterlife is sending are really signs?
As a psychic medium for over 35 years, I often hear this, spoken through very real grief:
“I get ZERO signs from my Loved One since they passed.”
And I understand why that feeling can be so painful.
Here’s one example.
I wrote about this client’s experience in my book. She came to her session deeply worried that her deceased son might be angry with her. He had been gone for over a year, and she felt she had received no signs from him at all.
When I connected with him, there was no hesitation—he was eager to show her he was right there. He gave me details so specific, including showing me the exact pair and type of boots he wore. He even let me know he was aware she sometimes slipped them on just to feel close to him again.
If that isn’t a sign… 😅💙
Her response was honest and heartfelt:
“Well… yes. But I guess I expected a different kind of sign.”
And in that moment, I didn’t laugh at her—I smiled in recognition.
Because grief often comes with expectations. We hope signs will arrive in a certain way, look a certain way, or feel unmistakable. And sometimes, when they arrive differently, we miss just how lovingly present our Loved Ones already are.
So why share this with a smile?
Because sometimes, if we didn’t find moments of lightness, we’d cry from the weight of missing someone so deeply. A sense of humor can help us breathe through grief rather than be consumed by it.
Souls in the Afterlife do retain their sense of humor… and often use it lovingly.
And so must we!
Case in point:
My little brother transitioned a little over ten years ago. He was a notorious prankster and lived for a good laugh. Recently, a new client shared that items in her apartment kept being moved and she was hearing strange noises—almost like someone was playfully messing with her. She wanted to know what might be going on.
I asked where she lived, the general area of her apartment, and to my astonishment it turned out to be the exact same building and apartment number my little brother once rented.
No joke. 😳💫
And to make it even more meaningful—I had been asking my brother for a sign that week because it was the week of his birthday. 🎂🎂🎂 Not the type of sign I was expecting but….
That felt less like mischief… and more like lil bro saying, “I’m still here.”
So I’ll ask you now—
What kinds of signs have YOUR Loved Ones sent you?
Bonus points if they brought a smile or
giggle 🤣🤣🤣
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