03/11/2026
Just wanted to let you know that if you look for my faults, you’re gonna find them. It probably won’t even take you that long.
They’re there. Loud and clear. Sometimes I do a pretty decent job of stifling them, but other times, they’re the drunk guy at the party.
They’re just THERE, ya know?
In fact, don’t even waste your time looking. Time is precious. We’re all pretty busy. If you want to know what my faults are, just ask. I’ll tell you.
I talk too much.
I run late.
I can be needy.
I hate leaving my house sometimes. I don’t really hate leaving my house, so much as I just hate getting dressed, and have social anxiety.
I get in these moods, where I don’t even know.
I’m passive aggressive.
There is more, but that should cover it for now.
If you look for my faults, you’re gonna find them.
But if you’ll put that on pause for a hot minute and look for the good stuff, I like to think you’re gonna find it too.
I’m messy, and I’m scattered, and I’m definitely not the coolest, but I’ll be there in a heartbeat if you need me. I’ll swing by your house and drop off coffee. I’ll stop and pick you up and we can cruise around for a little bit if you want. Just move the Goldfish wrappers, the dirty baseball cleats, and the package of baby wipes, and we can turn on your favorite music and jam, or I’ll listen to you air your frustrations without any judgement, cause heaven knows, I’ve got my stuff too.
I’ll cheer for you. I’ll be your biggest fan, and I’ll sing your praises when you forget how great you are. I’ll be really loud about it too, cause sometimes having a mouth like this comes in real handy.
I’ll pick your kids up in a pinch. I’ll drop off dinner when everything is crazy. I’ll listen to whatever you have to say. Heaven knows, I’m gonna order the queso without you even having to ask. (But you know what? If you’re on a diet, I’m all about supporting that too.
I’m quick to apologize. I know I’m not perfect, and I really do always want to make things right with you whenever I can.
If you look for my faults, you’re gonna find them.
But if you’ll make a promise to me, I’ll make the same promise to you:
To hold off on all that.
To stop with the judging, of going straight to believing the worst. To hold grace close. To laugh at the trivial mess. To give you the benefit of the doubt and to remember all the times you’ve been loyal and earned my trust.
And, of course, to do my best to always find the best in you.
Love,
Amy