La Dimora

02/23/2026

Does anyone else suffer from Time Blindness?

02/21/2026

🔥🤍 Holy Fire® Reiki Level Two is Here 🤍🔥

Your next step is calling.

On Saturday, March 21 | 9:00 AM – 3:00 PM, La Dimora will be holding Holy Fire® Reiki Level Two — a powerful expansion into deeper healing, intuitive clarity, and strengthened energetic connection.

Level Two is where Reiki becomes more embodied.
Where symbols begin to speak.
Where distance healing opens.
Where confidence deepens.

This training is for those who are ready to move beyond introduction and into integration.

✨ Investment: $275
✨ Date: Saturday, March 21
✨ Time: 9 AM – 3 PM
✨ Location: La Dimora

Prerequisite: You must have completed Holy Fire® Reiki Level One to participate.
If you did not complete Level One with La Dimora, proof of certification will be required prior to registration.

This is not just a class.
It is a commitment to your own growth — and to the integrity of the work.

If you are feeling the nudge, trust it.

Message to reserve your space or reach out with questions.

Grief • Growth • Healing
La Dimora 🤍

02/17/2026

02/17/2026

🌑🔥🐎

The Ring of Fire
A Free Virtual Guided Meditation & Reiki Gathering

February 17, 2026 | 6:00 PM

As the eclipse energy settles and we step into the Year of the Horse, many of us can feel something shifting — emotionally, mentally, energetically.

This free virtual gathering is being offered as community support.

We will begin with a guided meditation to gently sit with the transition, followed by distance Reiki to help calm the nervous system, soften what feels heavy, and anchor steadiness during this new season.

No pressure.
No expectation.
Just support.

If you’ve been feeling restless, reflective, activated, or simply aware of change — you are welcome here.

La Dimora
Grief • Growth • Healing 🤍

02/16/2026

Is it a coincidence that an eclipse, a new moon, and the Year of the Horse fall at the same time?

Astronomically? Yes.
Energetically? It can feel like something much bigger.

A new moon is quiet beginnings. Seeds planted beneath the soil.
An eclipse reveals what has been hidden and accelerates what has already been in motion.
The Horse symbolizes momentum, independence, and forward movement.

When all of that symbolism overlaps, it doesn’t necessarily mean fate.

But it does create a powerful mirror.

For those of us who have been healing for decades — not months, not years — but decades — this doesn’t feel like a fresh start.

It feels like a threshold.

You are not unraveling.
You are integrating.

You may feel:

• Restless
• Clear in a way that feels unfamiliar
• Done explaining yourself
• Done over-processing
• A little tired… but also ready

This isn’t regression.
This is recalibration.

Sometimes the eclipse illuminates the final mask.
The new moon asks you to plant differently.
And the Horse says, “You’ve done enough circling. Move.”

For the sensitive ones — the ones who have done the therapy, the grief work, the trauma integration, the spiritual excavation — this season may not be about more healing.

It may be about living beyond the wound.

That can feel terrifying.
And liberating.

Maybe the question isn’t whether this is cosmic timing.

Maybe the question is:

Are you ready to stop identifying as the one who is healing…
and start being the one who is whole?

Grief • Growth • Healing 🤍

02/14/2026

Last night I was stuck. I almost cancelled an event I had looked forward to, planned for and worked hard to create for weeks.
The fear of not being good enough and not perfect crept in like the fog - slow at first then building until I couldn’t see through it. Even as I got in my car I sent a message to a dear friend “ maybe I just need to cancel - maybe this isn’t what I’m supposed to be doing. “
Maybe it’s time to put aside my notion of purpose and go back to the career I had before , where I didn’t have to worry about money, bills and if I was actually doing anything good for the world. The words swirled in my mind, tugged at my heart and sank deep into my spirit. The self doubt and fear I’ve been keeping at bay for months was screaming through the car almost to the point I couldn’t hear the one quiet whispering from down within my soul. The gentle voice that came through saying “ it is what it is supposed to be - the ones who need to find you will always find you”. So with that I put the car in drive and went to the event space ( special thanks to my daughter for allowing me the use of it)
Spending an evening with the women who showed up not just for the event but also for themselves was beautiful to watch.
We had a wonderful experience with Alex as our sound bowl singer. THANK YOU Alex💕 . We found ways that we could be real and honest about who we were without pretending to be what we have been told to be, without the need to filter what folks see. There were tears, smiles and lots more love than I could have imagined.
I discovered this about myself - the path I chose to take was never meant to be easy. I swim upstream everyday and while some may find easier ways to navigate life I choose to go the lesser traveled path. I also discovered that while it’s easy to say I will leave this untruth of me behind that is easier said than done.
Last night I realized that one part of me that is untrue is the fact that I am responsible for things outside of my control. I carried guilt with me as it was my job. When I tried to leave it behind I was nauseated and felt stuck. I stood on the threshold holding in the feeling of sickness and wondering if shedding that was right. Then I stepped forward and left it behind - one step was all it took and the sensation was gone.
How long had I carried the burden of guilt? When did it become my duty to make things ok for others while struggling to keep from drowning myself. When did the pain of others carry more weight than the pain I kept tucked away in a box? Whose debt I was I paying off?
Last night was a pivotal moment for me - after decades of suffering in quiet I finally realized I had made the decision once upon a time that the happiness and peace of others was my responsibility. I took that on as a young child. Keeping peace and ensuring others needs were met. And the guilt of not being the same person to myself wasn’t going to be tolerated any longer.
So this is me- I’m going to be more self aware of my own being. I’m going to tell others it’s not for me to monitor how they feel. It’s not for me to step in and help make you happy. I will forever and always create a safe loving space for you to do that yourself. I will never stop being open and accepting of others - however I will not allow others to make me feel badly because of choices they make or don’t make.
I want to share this - I’ve contemplated closing the cottage. Hanging up my hat and stepping away from all I hold dear. I’ve struggled with the same financial burdens we all have- my groceries cost the same as yours. I have spent hours, days and nights weighing the options, the should vs the shouldn’t. I’ve battled my own self worth and esteem. I’ve Listened to much to the voices of my past telling me more lies than truths. I realized I hadn’t been honest with myself or you.

BUT
Last night changed all that. Seeing how these people showed up for themselves showed me to do the same. Their shift reflected back to me what I hadn’t seen.

Those of us who step into this role of guiding light- we understand emotions,growth and pain, we accept the responsibility of being heart centered beings. It does ask alot of us at times and it does require we swim against the current. It can drain us till we can’t seem to breathe and it’s imperative we allow ourselves the chance to cling to a log once in a while, but we will keep swimming.

I can’t always be who you need me to be but I can be who I have always been. Caring, gentle, soft, safe and open to hold grief,growth and healing. I am a person with a deep sense of purpose and even greater sense of empathy. I feel the world needs more honest beings who aren’t afraid to spread love instead of hate, allow others space where they can be themselves without fear or guilt. I don’t need to be loud about what I do. I don’t have to be perfect, I don’t have to be an expert. I do have to be real and myself.

I struggle, I cry, I fail, I get lonely and tired- but the one thing I don’t do is quit. Like the salmon that swims upstream with a single goal so do I. Leaving this world a better place than I found it. Even if that impacts only a few - I’ve fulfilled my purpose

I hope to see you in the cottage or virtually when and if your ready for more than what you allow yourself now.

With great love and even more gratitude
Becki

Alex Martell🥰🥰🥰🥰thank you

02/13/2026

✨ The Rise of Me — Tonight at 6 PM ✨

Tonight is an invitation to come home to yourself.
To soften the noise.
To release the masks.
To remember who you are beneath the expectations.

The Rise of Me isn’t about becoming someone new —
it’s about seeing yourself differently… with compassion, clarity, and permission.

As the evening unfolds, you’ll be gently guided through reflection, nervous-system support, and a sound bowl experience designed to help your body release what your words may not yet have language for. The vibration of the bowls moves through tension, stored emotion, and self-doubt — creating space for grounding, insight, and deep rest.

✨ You may leave feeling:
• More rooted in who you are
• More at ease in your body
• More willing to choose yourself — without apology

If you’ve been feeling the quiet pull to pause, reset, and reconnect…
this is that moment.

🕯 Tonight | 6:00 PM
📍 In person | Brandon
💗 Includes sound bowls + sacred self-reflection

You don’t need to arrive healed.
You just need to arrive

02/10/2026

Friday night 6 pm 💕.

Are you willing to support yourself?

Show yourself some serious love

02/02/2026

The Rise of Me — Choose You, Without Apologies

A Valentine’s Season Return to Self

✨ In-Person Experience

There comes a moment when “becoming someone new” no longer fits — when the invitation is not to reinvent yourself, but to finally be yourself.

The Rise of Me is a heart-centered, in-person gathering designed to help you step out of expectation, release the masks you’ve worn to survive, and reconnect with who you’ve always been underneath it all.

This experience is for anyone who feels called to:
• Stop abandoning themselves to keep the peace
• Reclaim their voice, boundaries, and inner permission
• Gently regulate the nervous system and release emotional weight
• Choose self-love without guilt, justification, or apology

Through guided reflection, grounding practices, energetic support, and a deeply restorative sound bath, you’ll be held in a safe, supportive space where nothing needs to be fixed — only witnessed and honored.

This is not about becoming “better.”
It’s about coming home.

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✨ In-Person Experience | Brandon, VT

📅 Friday, February 13, 2026
🕕 6:00 – 8:00 PM
📍 Brandon, Vermont
💲 $75
🎁 Includes a Rose Quartz self-love crystal

What Makes This Experience Special
• Live, guided reflection and group connection
• Gentle nervous-system grounding practices
• Restorative Sound Bath for deep relaxation and emotional release
• Energetic recalibration and integration
• Space to soften, breathe, and simply be

The sound bath supports the body in releasing what words cannot — allowing the nervous system to settle and the heart to open.

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💗 Early Registration Bonus

Save $10 when you register by February 7, 2026

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What’s Included
• Guided self-reflection and journaling
• Nervous-system support and grounding
• Energetic release and recalibration
• Boundary and self-permission exploration
• Rose Quartz crystal to anchor self-love beyond the event

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Who This Is For

This space is for you if you are:
• Tired of shrinking, performing, or over-explaining
• Ready to soften instead of push
• Craving a deeper relationship with yourself
• Longing for connection without expectation

You don’t need to be healed.
You don’t need to be ready.
You just need to arrive.

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Facilitated by Becki | La Dimora

Reiki Master • National Board Certified Health & Wellness Coach • End-of-Life Doula

La Dimora is a sanctuary for grief, growth, and healing — where you are met exactly as you are.

02/01/2026

The world could use all the reiki we can share.

I hope to see you tonight- you can join from anywhere you are. Come as you are, take what you need and leave the rest.