Dr. Lori Husband

10/20/2025

Choose your hard. But do it from a place of personal power.

It might seem harmless to keep “hanging out” with your situationship, but time is the one thing you can’t get back. Every month you spend in limbo is energy you could invest in the future you actually want.

If you’re a woman in your 30s navigating dating, fertility, or whether to freeze your eggs, you can’t outsource that choice. If you don’t make a plan, your body’s biology or someone else’s indecision will make it for you.

That’s exactly what I teach inside my course,

Should I Freeze My Eggs or Download Tinder?

It’s a framework to help you make clear, confident, and informed decisions about your fertility and love life.

👉 Course link in bio 💕

10/15/2025

Here’s my hot take…it’s not bad advice

I recommend being discerning in dating, BEFORE you get too attached. Take your time, pace yourself.

Once you’ve chosen each other though, it’s time to shift to being accepting and supportive. Think of tending to the relationship, rather than “testing it.”

Ideally, we want to stop with the “auditioning” aspects of dating once we’re in a relationship so we can be truly known and seen.

What do you think about that ChatGPT advice to date like a scientist, but love like a poet? 💕

10/08/2025

Super exciting week, I was interviewed and quoted in this New York Times article on the pressures of dating when you're on a fertility deadline. This is a topic close to my heart and such an honor to be interviewed 🩷

Article Title: "The Pressure of Dating With a Fertility Deadline" by Catherine Pearson

For some single women in their 30s and 40s, their biological clocks add unwelcome stress to an already fraught process.

10/08/2025

I got quoted in The New York Times!!! 🖤

NYT Article: “The Pressure of Dating With a Fertility Deadline” by Catherine Pearson

It was a complete honor to be interviewed. AND what really moves me is the conversation it’s part of: the growing pressure women feel trying to align dating timelines with fertility timelines.

Here are 3 things women can do to cope with “dating on a deadline”:

1. Name the Scarcity Mindset:

Notice when urgency starts to hijack your thinking. Time pressure can make us rationalize red flags and activate a stress response that narrows perspective and weakens logical reasoning. Naming the scarcity mindset helps you slow down and stay discerning.

2. Take a Micro-Action to Increase Agency:

Book that OB-GYN consult, explore egg freezing, pause the apps, or talk to a therapist. Take one clear, empowered step

3. Set Self-Defined Timeline Markers:

Try statements like:
“If I’m still single in a year, I’ll consider solo parenting,”

OR

“If this relationship isn’t progressing by X, I’ll reevaluate.”

If this hits close to home, check out my course “Should I Freeze My Eggs or Download Tinder?” It’s everything I wish more women knew about dating, fertility, and agency in modern love.

Link in bio 💫

09/24/2025

Confession time 👀

I did ALL the things to ‘call in’ my person when I was dating in my 30s

My (honestly iconic) list:

➤Read the book “Calling in the One” twice!

➤Started a single girl book club where we read books on dating

➤Set up a matching lamp + nightstand on my future husband’s side (ya know, to create energetic space)

➤ Spoke affirmations into a heart-shaped gem

➤ Did a bowl-burning to release “negative energy”

Keep your crystals (I kept mine 😉) just pair them with a plan.

What’s the wildest or most woo woo thing you’ve tried to manifest love?

09/11/2025

I created “Should I Freeze My Eggs or Download Tinder?” because I was YOU 💕

In my 30s, I was stuck between wanting real love + motherhood and feeling like the options were either:

✨settle in a “meh” relationship (or worse, a toxic one)

✨throw myself into my career

✨ or download Tinder and *hope* for the best

I remember how isolating and scary that felt. I wish I had a guide back then, something that gave me clarity instead of panic. That’s why this course is SO personally meaningful to me. 💌

Inside, I share the exact framework I wish I’d had:
a way to understand your fertility options, set unapologetic dating standards, and make decisions from self-worth (not fear).

✨ To celebrate the launch, I’m giving you $30 off with the code WELCOME30.

Here’s the link:https://drlorihusband.systeme.io/32224554

Stop settling. Stop panicking. Start creating the future you actually want, with confidence and zero apologies 💕

09/10/2025

Bless her heart

If only she knew that being on the dating apps is the longest UNPAID job you’ve ever had …

What’s the WORST dating advice you’ve ever received?

datingadviceforwomen

09/03/2025

I’ve been keeping a secret. There’s something I’ve been building behind the scenes that will help you make empowered decisions about dating, love, and motherhood.

It’s the thing I wish I had years ago.
And tomorrow, it’s yours.

Tomorrow, I finally get to share it with you!

And I can’t wait. 💌 🎉🥳