Obert Associates

05/16/2024

Too often, we think disharmony spells the end of a relationship.

But love takes work.

I always say intimacy isn't something you have, it's something you do.

And there will be times when your partner triggers you. That's where repair comes in. That's where you utilize the relational skills I teach in my books and courses. Repair is the road back to connection.

To learn how to move into repair with your partner, I recommend reading my latest book "Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship" [link in my bio for more info]

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Good people can ruin marriage, too.

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Winifred Reilly sees couples giving these issues too much air time ... and thinks we'd all be happier if we'd quit letting them dictate our behavior.

10/01/2022

Bryan Reeves wants to do you a favor and shatter your illusions about love.

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