ButterMEssentials

ButterMEssentials We are a family-owned company. We make handmade Hair, Bath & Body products. Our products are 100% natural and made for women, men, and children.

ButterMEssentials was made out of desperation for the people who have traditionally been forgotten. For years people of color have been told by major retailers that their natural selves are not enough and that they need to conform to accepted beauty standards throughout the industry. The Beginning From a young age, I refused to believe that as true. Since age 16, I’ve been on a journey of embracing my own beauty by way of how I wore my hair. Although my own confidence internally blossomed, I knew that the work was not done, there were others who needed to feel the same way about themselves. It wasn’t until I had two daughters of my own that I realized just how powerful the way one wears their hair is to developing how they feel about themselves. I could not accept my daughters living a world where they didn’t feel comfortable enough to be their natural selves. So in 2009, I set off on a mission to give them the tools that would empower them to find value in their beauty. At that time, the market was filled with products that would damage their hair rather than enrich it. Most brands included ingredients such as mineral oil and petroleum, which made their hair much more difficult to manage, and left them crying instead of confident. By God’s grace, that’s when I experienced a breakthrough that changed it all for my girls and our family. At work, a coworker gave me a magazine that included an assortment of “natural products” that were meant to transform children’s natural hair. The raving reviews packed with before and after pictures enticed me to purchase a number of different items for my girls. As excited as we all were, we were let down very quickly, as all of our trials actually made their hair worse! Turns out, these “natural products”, had the same harmful chemicals that were present in the original products used. Left frustrated, I decided that it was time to take matters into my own hands. That’s when I had the dream… One night, I dreamt of a natural oils and butters that could be combined together to make a truly natural hair butter solution for my girls. When I woke up I frantically wrote down every ingredient I saw, and decided that I needed to turn this message and gift to God into a real product. With no background in chemistry, this was incredibly challenging, but I knew that this was a message from our father and that I had to bring to fruition. Praise God it worked! The very first attempt, this hair butter went right through my daughters hair without any fuss or crying, signifying their first step on fully embracing their natural beauty. Since this dream, others too have joined our journey. After giving our first product and signature butter away to friends and family, people came rushing back and asking for more! With increased demand I knew that it was time to turn this into something bigger, and that’s where ButterMEseentials was born. We’ve came a long way since that dream and handing out hair butters. Now as a registered black owned business based in Brooklyn, New York, we’ve built out full product lines with the purpose of empowering people of color to love their natural selves. Each and every product is made with family and community in mind. We only create and offer products that my girls can use too. Join us on this mission, as we spread love and empowerment to our communities. From Our Family to Yours, Negesti Pinnock Vayden Pinnock

Our Hearts and Prayers Are with Jamaica 🇯🇲💛
10/31/2025

Our Hearts and Prayers Are with Jamaica 🇯🇲💛

10/28/2025
10/28/2025

🎉✨ BIG ANNOUNCEMENT! ✨🎉

Hey Butter Lovers! 💕

Would you love to give your guests something truly unforgettable? 😍

💛 Introducing Custom ButterMEssentials Favors! 💛
Perfect for:
👶 Baby Showers
💍 Bridal Showers
💒 Weddings

Each favor is handcrafted with love and filled with nature’s best
🌿 Whipped Shea & Body Butters
🌸 Perfume Oils
🧼 Luxury Soaps
💎 Lotion Bars

We customize every detail scent, color theme, and label to match your special occasion. 🎀

✨ Give your guests something they’ll actually use and love!
Soft skin, sweet scents, and a memory that lasts. 💕

Ready to design your one-of-a-kind favors?
💌 Message us today to start planning your perfect shower or wedding gifts!

10/23/2025

✨ Yes, shedding is normal!
Your hair naturally releases 50–100 strands per day as part of the growth cycle. This makes room for new, healthy strands to grow in.

🌀 But here’s the difference:
✅ Normal Shedding:
• Strands have a small white bulb at the root.
• Usually long, full strands.
• Happens evenly throughout your head.

🚫 Breakage:
• Short, uneven pieces with no bulb.
• Caused by dryness, tension, or over-manipulation.
• Often happens at the ends or along the hairline.

💧 ButterME Tip:
Keep your strands moisturized and strong with our Leave-ME-N Detangling Spray, Treat-IT Leave-In Conditioner, or Hibiscus Follicle Conditioner.
These formulas help reduce breakage while nourishing your scalp and restoring natural elasticity.

👑 Remember: Healthy hair grows from a healthy scalp — shedding is natural, but breakage is preventable.

10/22/2025
🥥 The Truth About Coconut Oil 🌿Coconut oil isn’t the villain — it’s all about how you use it!✨ Here’s the truth: • It ca...
10/22/2025

🥥 The Truth About Coconut Oil 🌿
Coconut oil isn’t the villain — it’s all about how you use it!

✨ Here’s the truth:
• It can cause stiffness or dryness if your hair already has enough protein.
• It can clog the scalp if used too heavily.
• It can sit on top of low-porosity strands instead of absorbing.

But when used the right way, it’s a hair-care blessing:
💧 Use it as a pre-poo
🌿 Blend it with softer oils like jojoba or olive
🔥 Try it as a warm oil treatment
🚫 Avoid heavy scalp application

Balanced oils = balanced results ✨
That’s why our ButterMEssentials formulas combine coconut oil with nutrient-rich butters and herbal extracts — giving your hair moisture without the mess.

💛 Shop now at ButterMEssentials.com

🌿 The ButterMEssentials Bulk Order Guide is here! 🌿Families, salon owners, and beauty entrepreneurs — now you can stock ...
10/17/2025

🌿 The ButterMEssentials Bulk Order Guide is here! 🌿
Families, salon owners, and beauty entrepreneurs — now you can stock up and save on your favorite natural hair and body products! 💛
📞 Call us to place your order and get your exclusive discount.
💻 Visit www.ButterMEssentials.com

✨ Steam + ButterMEssentials = Curl Magic! ✨Steaming your natural hair isn’t just self-care, it’s curl care! 💆🏾‍♀️💨 When ...
08/15/2025

✨ Steam + ButterMEssentials = Curl Magic! ✨
Steaming your natural hair isn’t just self-care, it’s curl care! 💆🏾‍♀️💨 When you combine steam treatments with ButterMEssentials products, your hair gets the ultimate hydration boost it deserves.

Here’s why your curls will thank you:
💧 Boosts Moisture Retention – Steam opens your hair cuticles so our rich butters & oils pe*****te deeply.
💪 Improves Elasticity – Say goodbye to brittle strands and hello to bouncy, healthy curls.
🌬 Enhances Product Absorption – Every drop of ButterMEssentials goodness goes right where it’s needed.
💆🏾‍♀️ Promotes Scalp Circulation – Healthy scalp, healthy hair growth!
🌿 Perfect for Deep Conditioning – Get the maximum benefits from your treatments.

Pro Tip: Use our Fix It Deep Conditioner during your steam session for next-level softness, hydration, and shine.

🔥 Your wash day just became a spa day. Try it this week and let your curls glow from the inside out!

🚫 STOP Detangling While You Shampoo! 🚫Sis, let’s talk about one of the BIGGEST mistakes that’s secretly damaging your ha...
08/11/2025

🚫 STOP Detangling While You Shampoo! 🚫

Sis, let’s talk about one of the BIGGEST mistakes that’s secretly damaging your hair… trying to detangle while shampooing.

Here’s why it’s a no-no:
💦 Shampoo = Friction
When shampoo lathers, it opens the hair cuticle to remove dirt and buildup. At this stage, your strands are most fragile — tugging can cause excessive breakage.

🌀 Tangles Multiply
All that rubbing and scrubbing causes hair to wrap around itself. Instead of detangling, you’re creating MORE knots.

💔 Breakage Over Growth
Constant breakage keeps you from retaining length, no matter how much your hair grows.

✅ What to do instead:
1️⃣ Pre-detangle on damp hair with a detangling spray or conditioner before you shampoo.
2️⃣ Shampoo your scalp only — let the suds run down your hair.
3️⃣ Detangle AFTER shampooing, using a rich conditioner (like ButterMEssentials Fix It Deep Conditioner) to give slip and moisture.

Healthy hair starts with gentle care 💛
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✨ Reverse Traction Alopecia Naturally ✨💭 Sis, your edges can make a comeback!Traction alopecia happens when constant ten...
08/08/2025

✨ Reverse Traction Alopecia Naturally ✨

💭 Sis, your edges can make a comeback!
Traction alopecia happens when constant tension from tight hairstyles weakens and damages your hair follicles, but with the right care, you can help restore them.

Here’s How to Start Healing Your Scalp & Regrowing Your Hair:

1️⃣ Stop the Tension
• Avoid tight braids, ponytails, wigs glued to edges, or heavy extensions.
• Give your scalp breathing room with low-manipulation styles.

2️⃣ Nourish the Scalp
• Use ButterMEssentials Rejuvenator Hair Growth Serum daily to stimulate blood flow and strengthen follicles.
• Massage gently for 3–5 minutes to increase circulation.

3️⃣ Hydrate & Protect
• Keep your hair moisturized with Leave-ME-N Detangling Spray to prevent dryness and breakage.
• Sleep in a satin bonnet or on a silk pillowcase.

4️⃣ Feed Your Hair from the Inside
• Drink water, eat leafy greens, nuts, and seeds for vitamins that support growth.

5️⃣ Be Patient & Consistent
• Regrowth takes time, track your progress monthly.

💛 Your crown is worth the care. Start today, and watch your edges flourish again.

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OUR STORY

ButterMEssentials was made out of desperation for the people who have traditionally been forgotten.

For years people of color have been told by major retailers that their natural selves are not enough and that they need to conform to accepted beauty standards throughout the industry. From a young age, I refused to believe that as true. Since age 16, I’ve been on a journey of embracing my own beauty by way of how I wore my hair. Although my own confidence internally blossomed, I knew that the work was not done, there were others who needed to feel the same way about themselves.

It wasn’t until I had two daughters of my own that I realized just how powerful the way one wears their hair is to developing how they feel about themselves.

I could not accept my daughters living a world where they didn’t feel comfortable enough to be their natural selves. So in 2009, I set off on a mission to give them the tools that would empower them to find value in their beauty.At that time, the market was filled with products that would damage their hair rather than enrich it. Most brands included ingredients such as mineral oil and petroleum, which made their hair much more difficult to manage, and left them crying instead of confident.