Judy Guess, PhD

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Judy Guess, PhD

Through counseling I help people who feel overwhelmed with daily life to navigate toward their own d Judy Guess is a Clinical Psychologist in Bryan Ohio.

01/05/2026

Your phone buzzes. Someone needs help moving. You could do it—you're good at that. But something in your chest tightens.

If you recognize that feeling, this is for you.

I just published a piece about why the fear of losing people keeps us saying yes to everything. And why the people who actually love you will respect your boundaries.

Read: "You're Allowed to Say No (Even to People You Love)"

https://judyguessphd.com/allowed-to-say-no/

12/01/2025

Ever catch yourself becoming the “low-effort version” of you in random moments, even when nothing dramatic is happening?
Not because you’re upset… just because your nervous system quietly decided, “Let’s keep this simple so we can get through the day.”

My newest post looks at those micro-adjustments we make without noticing—how your tone softens, your answers get shorter, or your enthusiasm drops a gear for reasons you can’t fully name in the moment.

It’s not people-pleasing. It’s not drama. It’s your system being efficient… sometimes too efficient.

If you’ve ever wondered why you feel oddly tired after a conversation that should’ve been fine, this one might land.

Read it here:
https://judyguessphd.com/the-quiet-self-edits/

10/21/2025

I took this photo on a quiet fall hike — one of those afternoons where the water is still but your mind isn’t.

Somewhere between the crunch of leaves and the reflection on the lake, I found myself thinking about Camus, absurdism, and how much energy we spend trying to make life make sense.

Sometimes peace doesn’t come from answers, but from the moment we stop wrestling with the questions.

I wrote about that tension — what it means to find steadiness when nothing adds up — in this week’s post:

👉 Absurd Calm: When the World Refuses to Make Sense
https://judyguessphd.com/absurd-calm-when-the-world-refuses-to-make-sense

Maybe calm isn’t something we find. Maybe it’s something we allow.

10/08/2025

There comes a point when you realize the game ended a long time ago,
but your mind is still out there on the court —
keeping stats no one’s watching, hustling for points that don’t count anymore.

Maybe it started as faith, or family expectations, or just wanting to make someone proud.
Somewhere along the way, the scoreboard turned inward.
Now every mistake, every hesitation, every “not enough” gets tallied before you even notice.

The truth is, no one’s keeping score anymore.
You can set the ball down.
You can walk off the court.
You still get to be you — even without the stats.

I wrote recently about what it means to stop measuring worth by old rules and start making peace with early faith.

If that idea hits home, the full post might too.
www.judyguessphd.com/making-peace-with-early-faith/

10/06/2025

Ever find yourself hearing old church lessons in your head at the worst possible moments?
Like when you finally say no to something and suddenly feel like you’ve disappointed an entire congregation — one that exists only in your imagination.

You’re not alone. Many of us carry early faith lessons that shaped who we are — for better and for harder.
My latest blog post explores what happens when those early teachings still influence how we see ourselves, our worth, and even our boundaries.

It’s not about rejecting faith. It’s about keeping what still feels true and healing what doesn’t.

You can read it here:
👉 https://judyguessphd.com/making-peace-with-early-faith/

09/19/2025

Sometimes Friday just feels like the end of a long push.

Not a celebration. Not a deep breath. Just… done.

When your week has been all output — decisions, deadlines, other people’s needs — switching gears isn’t automatic.

Your body may still be braced, even if the calendar says “rest.”

That’s not failure. It’s your nervous system doing what it’s been trained to do: stay ready.

But it doesn’t have to stay that way.

Start small:
☕ Drink the coffee while it’s still warm.
📵 Let one thing wait.
🌱 Step outside before you respond.

These aren’t fixes. They’re signals — that you’re allowed to step back.

If it’s hard to come down from “always on,” I offer private, online therapy for adults across Ohio.

Calm. Focused. No pressure to perform.
judyguessphd.com

09/17/2025

Your nervous system wasn’t built for doomscrolling.

If you’re waking up tired and going to bed overstimulated, your nervous system isn’t broken — it’s just stuck in overdrive.

🛑 Less 2 AM news binges.
🧘 More moments like this one.

I work with overwhelmed professionals across Ohio to calm the noise, find clarity, and build a pace that works.

📍 Want a steady space to downshift?
Private, online therapy: judyguessphd.com

Your phone gets a recharge every night. You should, too.

09/12/2025

Weekends are supposed to feel lighter. But when your phone keeps buzzing, it’s easy to slip back into “work mode” without even noticing.

Maybe you tell yourself, “I’ll just check this one message.” Next thing you know, Saturday feels a lot like Monday — only without the coffee budget.

Here’s the reminder: rest isn’t laziness. It’s what helps you return with clarity and patience. Protect a small pocket of time this weekend. Put the phone away for dinner. Go for a walk without checking messages. Let yourself actually enjoy being off duty.

Your peace is worth more than any notification.

👉 Read the full blog here: The Hidden Cost of Always Being “On”

09/11/2025

Today we pause to honor the lives lost on September 11, 2001, and the families and communities forever changed.

Grief has no timetable, and for many, the echoes of that day still surface in quiet moments. As we remember, may we also reflect on the importance of presence—being here, fully, with those we love.

Taking even a small pause for remembrance can remind us that healing and resilience are built one intentional moment at a time.

09/10/2025

Ever try to relax… only to find yourself side-eyeing your phone, wondering if you should answer that email right now?

You tell yourself: “I’ll just check real quick.” Suddenly, your quiet moment is gone, and the guilt sets in — guilty if you answer, guilty if you don’t.

The truth is, boundaries aren’t selfish. They’re what let you show up rested, clear, and actually present. Nobody’s handing out medals for fastest email reply at 10pm (though if they did, half of us would have gold shelves by now).

If you’ve been stuck in the cycle of guilt every time you try to unplug, you’re not alone. This week’s blog looks at why it’s so hard to step back — and why your well-being depends on it.

👉 Read more: The Hidden Cost of Always Being “On” www.judyguess.com/blog

09/08/2025

Do you ever feel like your phone is running your life?
Even half-asleep, your hand reaches for it. An email here, a text there. Before you know it, you’re on high alert all day long.

At first, it feels like dedication. People praise your quick responses. But over time, the constant readiness chips away at rest, clarity, and even your closest relationships.

If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. The good news? Small, intentional steps can help you reclaim balance without abandoning your responsibilities.

👉 Read more in my latest blog: The Hidden Cost of Always Being “On” www.judyguessphd.com/blog

09/05/2025

🌿 Friday Check-In: Feeling the Shift? 🌿

As the week winds down, are you noticing something shifting in your life — a career change, a relationship transition, or even a subtle inner nudge?

Change can feel like the ground is moving beneath you, especially when the future isn't quite clear. But here's a gentle reminder: you don’t have to have it all figured out to start moving forward. 💛

In my latest blog post, I share 5 compassionate, practical steps to help you process life’s transitions without pressure. From creating small daily touchstones to giving your emotions space to breathe, these are tools that can help you feel grounded — even when life feels anything but.

✨ Whether this week brought challenges or clarity, take a moment today to breathe, reflect, and remember: progress often comes in small, quiet steps.

📝 Read the full post here: https://judyguessphd.com/embrace-the-shift-5-steps-to-process-lifes-changes/
📍 And if you're in Ohio and feeling stuck, I offer flexible online therapy to support you through life’s pivots.

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