12/22/2025
You're using problem-solving skills when presence is required. ✨
If you're a high achiever, this might feel uncomfortable to hear because you're really good at fixing things. You see a problem, you analyze it, and you offer a solution. This mindset has served you well in business.
But marriage doesn't heal through efficiency. It heals through presence. ❤️
Most couples aren't stuck because they don't care. They're stuck because they keep applying problem-solving skills to emotional moments that require connection.
So when your spouse shares something and you jump in with logic, when you defend instead of slowing down, when you try to move on before they feel understood...it does not mean your marriage is failing. It means you're leading with the wrong tool. 🔑
Connection isn't built by being right. It's built by being with someone. Curiosity over correction. Listening over fixing. Presence before progress.
The shift can change the tone of your conversations, the safety in your relationship, and the way conflict actually resolves. 🌱
If you're ready to start healing your marriage, click the link in the bio to join my free workshop. 👉