03/04/2026
For many people going through IVF, one of the most difficult moments is the phone call when results come back negative.
From the outside, it may seem like just a short conversation with the clinic. But emotionally, that moment can stay with patients long after the call ends.
In this video, I share some of what many people experience in that moment - the shock, the wave of feelings, and why it can feel so overwhelming even when someone is trying to stay strong.
If you or someone you love is going through fertility treatment, I hope this perspective helps you feel a little less alone.
And if you work in fertility care, I hope it offers a window into the emotional side of this journey.
Many fertility clinics have to make this call regularly — the call that an IVF result is negative.But what often happens for patients after the call ends is ...