11/02/2025
I’m going to the library!
In 1923, she wrote about an older woman reclaiming her s*xuality—and America lost its mind. Her name was Gertrude Atherton, and by the time she published Black Oxen, she'd already spent thirty years shocking readers with stories about women who wanted more than marriage and motherhood. But Black Oxen was different. This time, she'd crossed a line that polite society couldn't forgive. The novel's heroine was a 58-year-old woman who undergoes an experimental rejuvenation treatment—based on a real procedure—and emerges looking thirty. Not to trap a husband. Not to please others. But to reclaim her vitality, her power, and yes, her s*xuality .She doesn't apologize for wanting to be beautiful again. She doesn't seek redemption for desiring pleasure. She simply lives—boldly, sensually, on her own terms. The book became a massive bestseller. It also became a scandal. Critics were horrified. How dare a woman write about older women wanting s*x? How dare she suggest that female desire doesn't die at forty? How dare she give a woman power without punishing her for it? But Gertrude Atherton had never cared what critics thought. She'd been scandalizing readers since 1888, and she wasn't about to stop at age 66.Let's back up to understand just how radical she really was. Born in San Francisco in 1857, Gertrude grew up in a world that had very specific plans for women: marry young, have children, devote yourself to family, and disappear quietly into domesticity. She married at nineteen—to George Atherton, a man her family approved of but she didn't particularly love. It was an unhappy marriage. She was restless, ambitious, hungry for something more than managing a household. Then in 1887, her husband died suddenly at sea. Society expected her to mourn decorously, probably remarry, and settle into respectable widowhood. Instead, Gertrude felt... liberated. She had a small inheritance, a sharp mind, and a burning need to write. So she moved to New York, then to Europe, and threw herself into literary and intellectual circles that were scandalized by a woman who wrote so frankly about female desire and ambition. Her early novels featured women who wanted careers, who chafed at marriage, who sought pleasure and power. In 1898, The Californians portrayed California society with brutal honesty—showing women trapped by social expectations but fighting for autonomy anyway. Critics called her work "unwomanly." They said she wrote like a man (as if that was an insult). They accused her of being vulgar, shocking, inappropriate. She kept writing. Novel after novel, Gertrude Atherton created women who:
Wanted s*x and didn't pretend otherwise
Pursued ambition unapologetically
Refused to be tamed by marriage or motherhood
Fought for political power
Aged without becoming invisible
These weren't nice women. They weren't always likable. They were complicated, flawed, hungry—exactly like real women, but nothing like the passive angels Victorian literature expected. And then came Black Oxen in 1923.The novel tapped into something powerful: the terror and rage women felt as they aged in a society that discarded them the moment they were no longer young. The experimental treatment in the book—the Steinach procedure—was real. Dr. Eugen Steinach had developed a glandular treatment that supposedly restored youth and vitality. Wealthy people (including Sigmund Freud) actually underwent versions of it. Atherton took this real medical phenomenon and asked: what if a woman used it not to please others, but to reclaim herself? The result was explosive. Black Oxen became a bestseller, was adapted into a silent film, and sparked fierce debate. Some women wrote to Atherton thanking her for acknowledging that they still felt desire, still wanted power, still existed after forty. Others were scandalized. One reviewer called it "dangerous" because it suggested older women might compete s*xually with younger women. Male critics were particularly disturbed—how dare older women refuse to fade gracefully? But here's what made Atherton's work truly revolutionary: she didn't just write about individual women seeking freedom. She dissected the systems that tried to control them. Her novels showed how society weaponized "respectability" to constrain women. How marriage was often a trap disguised as security. How women's ambition was labeled unfeminine. How aging was used to render women powerless. She wrote about women navigating these systems—sometimes winning, sometimes losing, but always fighting. And she lived the audacity she wrote about. After her husband's death, Gertrude never remarried. She traveled constantly—Europe, New York, California. She moved in literary circles with Mark Twain, Ambrose Bierce, and European intellectuals. She wrote over fifty novels, dozens of short stories, essays, memoirs. She supported women's suffrage. She advocated for women's education. She lived independently, wrote fearlessly, and refused to soften her edges to please anyone. When she was in her eighties, still writing, still sharp, a young interviewer asked her if she had any regrets. "Only that I didn't write more," she said. Gertrude Atherton died in 1948 at age ninety-one, having published her last novel just three years earlier. She worked until nearly the end, never losing her edge, never becoming the respectable old lady society wanted her to be. But here's what frustrates me: despite her enormous output, despite being a bestseller in her time, despite influencing generations of women writers—Gertrude Atherton is largely forgotten today. Literary history tends to remember the men of her era—Jack London, Frank Norris, Ambrose Bierce. They're taught in schools, their books remain in print, their legacies secure. Atherton? She's a footnote. Occasionally mentioned in feminist literary studies. Rarely read. And that's exactly the erasure she spent her career fighting against. Because Gertrude Atherton proved something that makes people uncomfortable even now: that women have always wanted more than they were allowed to want. That female desire—s*xual, professional, political—has always existed, even when literature pretended it didn't. She wrote women who were angry, ambitious, s*xual, powerful, flawed. She wrote them at a time when women were supposed to be pure, passive, self-sacrificing angels. She wrote older women who refused to become invisible. Who claimed s*xuality and power long after society said they should disappear. And she did it all while living exactly the life she wanted—traveling, writing, refusing marriage, pursuing her art until she was nearly ninety. Black Oxen shocked America in 1923 because it suggested that a woman's life didn't end at forty. That desire, ambition, and vitality could belong to older women too. That rejuvenation wasn't about pleasing men but about reclaiming yourself. A century later, we're still having that conversation. Older women are still told to age gracefully (which means invisibly). Female s*xuality is still controversial. Women's ambition is still threatening. Gertrude Atherton saw all of this in 1890. And 1900. And 1920. And 1940.She wrote about it for sixty years, never softening, never compromising, never pretending women's desires were anything other than what they were: real, powerful, and worth fighting for. She married young because that's what women did. She was widowed early and realized freedom felt better than propriety. She wrote fifty novels that shocked, provoked, and challenged readers to see women as full human beings. And then history mostly forgot her—which is exactly the kind of erasure she spent her career exposing. So here's what I propose: we remember her now. We remember the woman who wrote about female desire when it was scandalous .We remember the writer who gave older women their s*xuality back when society wanted them invisible. We remember the novelist who refused to write "nice" women because real women aren't always nice—they're complicated, ambitious, s*xual, angry, powerful. In 1923, she wrote about an older woman reclaiming her s*xuality, and America lost its mind. Maybe it's time we found it again—and recognized that Gertrude Atherton was right all along. Women have always wanted more. And there's never been anything wrong with that. Gertrude Atherton (1857-1948): The scandalous novelist who refused to let women disappear.