11/18/2025
The highest form of love, from a marriage/relationship therapist:
Consideration.
🔆You consider your partner before saying “yes” or “no”-
🔆You think before you speak-
🔆You move with awareness on how your actions affect their peace-
🔆You care about what makes them feel safe-
🔆You don’t prioritize what makes you feel good if it costs your partner their security-
🔆You offer reassurance and validation with no tit-for-tat mentality-
Anybody can say I love you, but not everybody can love unconditionally.
If you’re in a marriage or relationship that’s struggling with consideration… it doesn’t have to be a done deal, but it does have to be worked on in order to find happiness. You deserve to be treated with respect and unconditional love-always.