04/18/2026
Burnout can happen in several ways whether it's related to the way you perceive reality, or in the translating of reality into our bodies through our individual emotional filters. When information comes into our brain, if the amygdala senses that information to be a threat or danger to survival it activates the sympathetic fight or flight response. Pupils dilate, veins construct, sweat glands activate. However the amygdala has additional filters it puts on from traumatizing emotions, (i.e. if you were assaulted in a blue car, even though the blue car was not harmful your body may experience a trauma response at the sight of a blue car). If you get enough filters going, or find yourself in situations your brain senses as dangerous, you can easily reach a state of constant fight or flight. Human bodies aren't set up for continual performance, they strive toward homeostasis, if you aren't able to activate the opposite vagul (rest and digest) system, it will forcefully do so. This could result in things like thriving in a stressful job, yet crashing down so hard you seem depressed or angry to those around you. It can even happen when we keep forcing ourselfs to do things we have no motivation or see no value in. Your brain might start to force relaxation by dissociating, which can become dangerous for obvious reasons. The longer-term effects are that connection is not even possible when in fight or flight, so by the time we are able to calm down and relate, we find the connections we once had have been weakened by our inability to attend to them. This rapidly spirals you down further by isolating you, making you feel like there is no one who will reach for you if you are falling, which creates more fear and less ability to connect.
Fantastic. But what can be done? This next series of posts will be to explore tactics to deal with or prevent burnout as well as understanding the mechanisms behind it all. Those mechanisms are the most important part of this, because the over arching truth is that not everyone will present the same symptoms or even feelings of burnout.....but like a muscle, we rip apart before we grow.