04/23/2026
The Unexpected Visit
The joys of having a private family practice in a small town are numerous. I have been privileged to own my practice for over 23 years. Over this time, my patients have taught me many life lessons. I have grown older with them and their families. I would like to think that I have become a better, more seasoned doctor who has become more than the person who writes their prescriptions. I am often a member of the family. Often, I have treated four generations of a family. I have grown to know and love each of my patients, and become especially close to those who have opened their very private lives to me. Some have shared very intimate thoughts and experiences with me during my more than 20 years making hospital rounds. I may have helped make very hard decisions with them. People sometimes give me privilege to the struggles they are going through each day and when I walk into the room, it is the Unexpected Visit that cannot be shortened into a 20 minute slot. They may need to talk about the divorce they are going through, the drug addiction their spouse or child is living, the end of life decisions they are facing with their parent or even the su***de they themselves are contemplating. So if I am late getting into to your room, I hope you understand. I hope you think about the person in front of you that might be struggling with a loss, a life battle that may be a critical crossroad in their life. Try not to be quick to anger. Please be understanding. It may be you that needs that extra time in the future. Reschedule if you need to. Getting angry because of an Unexpected Visit is not the answer. The doctor is more than just writing a prescription and following up on blood pressure to many folk in this office. I love you all and please know that I am always humbled by those who open their hearts to me. May God continue to Bless me with all of the many wonderful patients that I have! Thank You All very MUCH for being in my life.