03/31/2026
For Trans Day of Visibility, we wanted to share our clinicians' stories about their experiences with transness. We honor and celebrate our trans community members, clients, families, and friends today and every day.
Peri Drury writes:
"My journey with gender has been a long and confusing road. Being socialized as a woman, I always felt like my relationship with my gender was different from my peers, constantly feeling like I had to check boxes and perform gender for some sort of evaluation, but I was missing out on some secret shared knowledge everyone else got about what it means to be a girl. When I started accepting and embracing my q***rness, that also opened up questions about my gender, and I learned about being agender as a part of the non-binary and trans umbrella. This has opened up my world to see that my experience with gender could also mean that internally I experience no gender at all, and can free myself from the performance I was constantly doing. Realizing I'm agender has really helped me come home to my body and understand who I am without trying to contort myself to gender norms, and through body modification, style exploration, and more, my trans journey has led me to being more myself than I ever could have imagined. I still have the experiences with sexism and misogyny that our heteropatriarchal society violently forces upon us, but for me, my gender no longer inherently feels linked to the violence of its existence, but instead to a deeper understanding and embracing of self. For me specifically, being trans feels less transformative and more restorative, as if I'm connecting to my very own nature for the first time instead of contorting to the controlling systems we all experience in a racist, settler-colonial, hetero-patriarchal society. My found understanding of self has helped me to develop my practice as a therapist to be trauma-informed, LGBTQIA+ inclusive, and in the never-ending practice of decolonizing therapy. Being trans has helped me open up my life and myself in ways I once thought unimaginable, and I find it to be the greatest privlege that as a part of my work I get to help other trans folks explore their gender and find what transness means to them."