MasonStrong Support Mason's Fight For His Life.

03/15/2026

Our family has been through so much lately, and I’m coming to you today with a very heavy, humbled heart to ask for help. This is not easy for me to write, but right now we truly don’t know where else to turn.

Mason is still healing from his recent surgery. We are incredibly grateful that he is making progress, but the road has not been easy. We had some very scary moments when his stitches broke and he experienced uncontrolled bleeding. Those days were terrifying for all of us. Thankfully things have started to stabilize, but we are still walking through a lot of uncertainty.

On the 12th, Mason saw his urologist and had a scan done of his urinary system. The results were somewhat encouraging, but the doctor did find a very narrow spot in his urethra that is causing concern. Because of this, Mason will have to continue living with a suprapubic catheter for now while doctors determine whether his urethra will function properly or if he will need yet another surgery. We are praying harder than ever that he will not have to face another operation right now.

The last few months have been incredibly hard on our family financially. Between Mason’s surgery, hospital stays, and the many medical appointments he has had, we have taken a devastating financial hit. Charde has had to miss a significant amount of work in order to care for Mason and get him to the appointments he cannot miss. At the same time, we are still waiting for Mason’s SSI review to be completed so his payments can start again. Until that happens, we barely have any income coming in at all.

Our monthly bills are over $2,000, and right now we simply cannot keep up. I’m terrified of falling behind and losing our utilities while we are just trying to keep Mason’s medical care going. Every single day I pray that God will carry us through this storm the same way He has carried us through so many others.

Emotionally, this has been incredibly hard on Mason as well. He is still waiting for his myoelectric hooks to be finished. Once he receives them, he will finally be able to begin vocational rehabilitation and start learning the skills he needs to eventually find a job that works for him. More than anything, Mason just wants the chance to move forward with his life and live as normally as possible.

His medical journey has already taken years of his life, and unfortunately we know there are still more surgeries, therapies, and treatments ahead of us.

Right now we are also facing another serious problem. The tires on our van are worn so badly that the metal is starting to show through. We simply do not have the money to replace them, and it honestly terrifies me every time we get on the road. Many of Mason’s upcoming medical appointments are two to three hours away, and I constantly worry about something happening while we are traveling.

I try every day to stay strong for my family and keep everything together, but if I’m being honest, some days I feel completely overwhelmed and defeated. We are trying so hard to rebuild any kind of financial stability, but it feels like every time we start to catch our breath, something else happens that drains what little we have left.

Asking for help is incredibly hard for us. We never imagined being in this position, but right now we truly have no other choice.

Mason also dreams of becoming more independent one day and hopes to eventually learn how to drive. In order for that to happen, he will need adaptive driving equipment for a vehicle that costs over $5,000, and unfortunately insurance does not cover any of it. So many of the things that would improve Mason’s quality of life are considered “not medically necessary,” which means the full cost falls on us.

Our greatest hope is simply to help Mason transition into adulthood and give him the chance to thrive despite everything he has been through. He dreams of going to college someday and possibly even entering the medical field, so he can help others who are facing life-changing illnesses the way he has.

If you feel led to donate, no matter how small the amount may seem, it would mean more to our family than words could ever express. And if you are not able to donate, we completely understand — we simply ask that you please continue to pray for Mason and for our family during this incredibly difficult time.

Your prayers, kindness, and support truly help carry us through the days when the weight of everything feels unbearable.

Please also keep me in your prayers, especially for my mental health as I try to navigate this season and hold our family together.

From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for the love, support, and prayers you have already shown our family. We will continue to share updates on Mason’s journey as things move forward. For now, we are just taking life one day at a time.

God bless you all. ❤️
The McMillan Family ❤️

❤️ GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/f5016811f

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03/07/2026

Our family has been through so much lately, and I’m reaching out with a very heavy and humble heart to ask for help.

Mason’s healing from his recent surgery is thankfully coming along, but it hasn’t been an easy road. We had a few scary setbacks with stitches breaking and some uncontrolled bleeding, but things have finally started to stabilize. Mason will return to see his urologist on the 12th, where they will also perform a VCUG scan to make sure his urinary system is working correctly and that his urine is no longer backing up into his body. We are praying so hard for good results.

Between the surgery, hospital stays, and the many appointments Mason has had recently, our family has taken a huge financial hit. Charde has had to miss a lot of work to care for Mason and get him to his appointments, and right now we are still waiting for Mason’s SSI review to be completed so his payments can start again. At this moment, we barely have any income coming in and it has put us in an incredibly stressful situation.

Our monthly bills are over $2,000 and we simply cannot keep up this month. We are terrified of falling behind and potentially losing utilities while we try to keep Mason’s medical care going. I pray every single day that God will guide us through this difficult time like He has before.

On top of everything, Mason has really been struggling mentally as he waits for his myoelectric hooks to be finished. Once he receives them, he will finally be able to begin vocational rehabilitation and start learning skills that will help him find a job suited for him. More than anything, Mason just wants the chance to live a normal life and move forward like everyone else.

His medical journey has taken years, and unfortunately we still have more surgeries, therapies, and treatments ahead. Right now we’re also facing another serious concern — the tires on our van are worn so badly that the metal is starting to show. We simply do not have the extra money to replace them, and it terrifies me every time we get on the road. Many of Mason’s upcoming appointments are 2–3 hours away, and I worry constantly about the risk of something happening while we travel.

I try every day to hold everything together for our family, but some days I feel completely defeated. We are trying so hard to rebuild our financial stability, but something always seems to happen that drains what little we have left. Asking for help is incredibly difficult for us. We just want to get back to a normal life, but right now we truly have no other choice.

Mason is also hoping to start driving one day and gain more independence, but he will need adaptive equipment for the car that will cost over $5,000 and unfortunately it is not covered by insurance. So many of the things that could improve Mason’s quality of life are considered “not medically necessary,” which means they come entirely out of our pockets.

Our greatest hope is to help Mason transition into adulthood and give him the opportunity to thrive. He dreams of going to college someday and possibly entering the medical field after everything he’s been through, so he can help others facing life-changing illnesses.

If you are able to donate in any way, no matter how small, it would mean more to our family than words could ever express. And if you can’t donate, we ask that you please continue to pray for Mason and for our family during this incredibly difficult time. Your prayers, support, and kindness truly help carry us through.

Please also keep me in your prayers as well, especially for my mental health as we try to navigate this season and find our way back to stability.

Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your continued love, support, and prayers. We will continue to update everyone on Mason’s journey as things move forward. For now, we are just taking things one day at a time.

God bless you all. ❤️

The McMillan Family ❤️

❤️GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/9add2d921

❤️PayPal: themomster88@gmail.com

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Hi, my name is Charde McMillan, and I’m fundraising for my son Maso… Charde McMillan needs your support for Help Mason recover after 4 amputations from sepsis

02/22/2026

Hey everyone,

We don’t usually like to ask for help like this, but right now we truly have no other option.

I am beyond exhausted being Mason’s main caretaker. I am not getting good sleep because of my anxiety and stress levels and I just feel absolutely exhausted day after day. I'm not just Mason's mom, I have three other kids relying on me too. My husband picks up my slack most days, but I'm the one who knows all of Mason's meds and schedules his appointments and the main person when it comes to Mason's care. That is because I was the one with Mason 24/7 in the hospital while my husband cared for our other children. I studied Mason's disease and all the correct medical terminology involved with it both inside and out everyday he was hospitalized and still continue to do so. It has made doctors appointments and handling his insurance and what not alot easier for me. When Mason was in the hospital we never imagined the level of care needed for a quadrilateral amputee son. It is absolutely a full-time, around-the-clock responsibility filled with appointments, surgeries, travel, therapies, and the everyday care he needs just to get through the day. I would do it all a thousand times over for him — but the weight of everything has caught up to us.

It feels like life keeps throwing hurdle after hurdle our way, and we never get a chance to get ahead. Things will go well for a little while, and then something else happens. Right now, Mason’s SSI is under review, and we’re not receiving payments during that process. We rely on that money, along with income from my job, to pay our bills. But I’ve missed so much work caring for Mason that my income has dropped to almost nothing, and I’m now on the verge of losing my job completely.

I’m still waiting — after a year and a half — to be approved and paid to stay home as Mason’s caretaker so I don’t have to keep risking my job every time he has an appointment, surgery, or needs extra care. Until that happens, we’re stuck in this constant cycle of falling behind.

We hate having to rely on support and donations when life gets hard, but we are at the point where we are running out of options. We are starting to fall seriously behind on bills. The stress is overwhelming — it literally makes me physically ill — and it makes it even harder to care for Mason, our other three children, and to keep our household together as a mom and wife.

Every dollar donated recently has gone directly toward Mason’s care — his myoelectric hooks, travel for appointments and surgeries, and the many things he needs to live day to day. Our bank accounts are empty, and the bills keep piling up. We just can’t catch up.

I pray every night that God will carry us through these hard times. Our faith is what keeps us moving forward through every storm we face.

Please continue to pray for Mason and our family. And if you’re able, please consider donating. Every single penny helps keep our family afloat, helps us keep the lights on, and makes sure Mason can get to the appointments — sometimes hours away — that he needs to survive and thrive.

We can never put into words how grateful we are for the love and support you’ve shown our family over the years. We truly would not have made it this far without you. Thank you for standing with us, for praying for us, and for helping us keep going.

God bless,
Charde McMillan ❤️

❤️ GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/1f51d4fc4

❤️ PayPal: themomster88@gmail.com

❤️Apple Cash/Zelle: 304-207-4121

02/18/2026

We wanted to share an update on Mason after his surgery last week. He had a procedure to repair his urethra and place a skin graft, and while he is doing mostly okay, recovery has been incredibly hard on him. The graft was taken from inside his lower lip, which has been very painful, and he currently has two catheters that we’re caring for around the clock. Those won’t be removed for another three weeks.

A few days after surgery, Mason had complications with bleeding that sent us back to the hospital for a couple of nights. It was scary and exhausting for all of us, and this entire process has taken a huge toll mentally, physically, and financially.

We’ve had to miss multiple days of work to care for him, and every single donation recently has gone straight toward his myoelectric hooks, surgery costs, and aftercare. We are struggling to keep up with our bills, and Charde is on the verge of losing her job because of the amount of time she’s had to miss while caring for Mason. His SSI payments are still on hold pending review, and right now our income is almost nonexistent.

Since Mason first got sick, we’ve been trying so hard to catch up financially and find some sense of stability again. But the reality is that his condition requires constant care and frequent doctor visits, and we are terrified of falling so far behind that we won’t be able to recover.

We hate having to ask again, and we know it’s been a while, but we truly need help right now. We are getting closer to being stable, but we’re not there yet, and this moment is critical for our family.

We’ll continue sharing updates as Mason heals and as we move forward with getting his myoelectric hooks. Please keep him in your prayers. If you’re able, please consider donating or sharing this page. Your support means everything to us and is helping keep our family afloat during the hardest time of our lives.

God bless,
The McMillan Family ❤️

❤️ GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/fcd026eee

❤️ CashApp: $chardizzle88

❤️PayPal: themomster88@gmail.com

❤️Apple Cash/ Zelle: 304-207-4121

02/07/2026

We wanted to share an update on Mason and say thank you from the bottom of our hearts to everyone who has donated and supported him. Because of your generosity, his myoelectric hooks are now officially in the works. The process to have him casted and the hooks made unfortunately takes several months, and the total cost is nearly $14,000. Our finances have been very tight, and we’re doing our best to stay afloat and keep up with bills.

Mason also has another major hurdle ahead. On February 11, he will undergo a 7–8 hour surgery to repair his urethra and place a skin graft so he can urinate normally again. He will need a short hospital stay afterward. This surgery adds more financial strain on our family, as I (his mom) will need to take time off work to be with him, and my husband will need to stay home with the other kids. Missing work means smaller paychecks, and it’s been very hard on us financially.

On top of that, Mason accidentally broke our downstairs toilet with his wheelchair, and we now need help replacing it. We’ve also been dealing with one ice storm after another, plus snowstorms that have kept us cooped up for weeks and the kids home from school, which has made things even more difficult.

We still need support as we move forward with Mason’s upcoming surgeries, therapies, and day-to-day needs. He is doing well overall, but adjusting to adulthood has been challenging. Things are harder for him not only because he does not have hands or feet, but also because his autism affects his social interactions, emotional regulation, and maturity level. He stays positive most days, but there are times when it all becomes overwhelming and he breaks down. We do have him in counseling and working with a social mentor to help him navigate these changes.

We humbly ask for continued prayers for Mason and our family, and if you are able, continued support through donations. We cannot thank you enough for the love and kindness you’ve shown. We count our blessings every day and continue to trust God to carry us through the toughest moments.

God bless,
The McMillan Family ❤️

❤️GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/c32eea7e1

❤️CashApp: $chardizzle88

❤️ PayPal: themomster88@gmail.com

❤️ Apple Cash/ Zelle: 304-207-4121

01/26/2026

Hi everyone,

I wish this update had better news, but I want to be honest about where things are right now. We’re still trying to raise a little over $6,000 so we can get Mason his new myoelectric hooks, which are essential for him to move forward with the Division of Rehabilitation and begin learning how to enter the workforce.

On top of everything else, we are currently snowed and iced in here in Charleston, WV. We put salt on our 53 steps, but it did absolutely nothing. My husband tried to shovel, but the shovel actually broke, and the stairs are so icy that it’s unsafe to go down them. For now, we’re just stuck.

Because of the amount of ice and snow we’ve had over the past three days, Mason’s surgery to repair his urethra and place additional skin grafting has been rescheduled again. The constant delays are exhausting and heartbreaking. Everything feels like a mess right now, and it’s hard not to feel overwhelmed.

We are struggling to get by while also trying to raise enough money to get Mason the prosthetics he needs. His autism delays many things for him, especially when it comes to emotional and social maturity, and that makes this transition into adulthood incredibly challenging—for him and for us as a family. We’re doing everything we can to navigate this road together, but some days are really, really hard.

We are asking, humbly, for any help you can give—whether that’s a donation, sharing this fundraiser, or simply keeping Mason and our family in your prayers. Every bit of support means more to us than we can put into words.

Thank you for standing with us during one of the hardest seasons of our lives. 💙

God bless,
The McMillan Family ❤️

❤️ GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/3fc2f5143

❤️ CashApp: $chardizzle88

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01/11/2026

Hey everyone!

We wanted to share an update on Mason and where we’re at right now.

The good news first: Mason has received his new leg prosthetics, and he is doing so well with them. Watching him adapt and push forward has been such a blessing and a reminder of how strong and determined he truly is. We are incredibly proud of him.

However, we are still waiting on his new myoelectric hooks, and this part of the journey has been heartbreaking and exhausting. We were originally told that if we could put $2,500 down, the company would finance the remainder of the cost. Now, because Mason is 18 and considered an adult, they are saying they may no longer help with financing, as their support typically only goes up to age 17.

Mason is discouraged. He has been anxiously waiting for these hooks so he can finally learn to drive, start looking into college, and explore job opportunities. These hooks represent independence and a future he’s been working so hard toward. Without help, the total cost is well into the $12,000 range, which is completely out of our realm of possibility.

We have tried everything we can think of — different prosthetic companies, organizations, and vocational rehabilitation — and so far, we’ve hit dead end after dead end.

On top of this, our family is struggling financially. I, Charde, am still not back to work after my surgery. I am not currently being paid by the state as Mason’s caretaker, and Mason’s SSI is still on hold pending review. Because of all of this, our finances are honestly in shambles. This year has started off incredibly hard, and it feels like we are constantly trying to catch our breath before another hurdle appears.

We are doing our best to stay optimistic and to lean on God, trusting that He will guide us through these hard times. But right now, we truly need help. Donations will help us stay afloat while we continue fighting for Mason to get the prosthetics he needs and while we work to stabilize our family financially.

We want so badly for this to be the year where things finally start falling into place — where we can be financially comfortable again and share our journey without having to set aside our pride and ask for help. But desperate times call for faith, and so we are turning to God and to our friends, family, and community who have supported us when we’ve had nowhere else to turn.

We don’t want to fail Mason or our other kids. We are trying with everything we have, even though not every struggle we face is shared publicly. Ever since Mason got sick — and then my own health took a turn — it has felt like one challenge after another, and we can’t ever quite get caught up before the next one hits.

Please continue to pray for Mason and our family. Prayers truly move mountains, and right now it feels like we are carrying one as we take things day by day.

We hope everyone is doing well, and we wish you all a Happy New Year. Thank you, from the bottom of our hearts, for standing with us. 💙

God bless,
The McMillan Family ❤️

❤️ GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/8df94a7ed

❤️PayPal: themomster88@gmail.com

❤️ CashApp: $chardizzle88

❤️Apple Cash/ Zelle: 304-207-4121

01/02/2026

Dear Friends and Community,

Happy New Year! I hope this update finds you in good health and spirits. I’m reaching out today with a heavy heart during what has been one of the most challenging periods for our family. As some of you may know, I recently underwent surgery and am currently in the midst of a slow and painful recovery process. Unfortunately, this means I am unable to return to work for the next few weeks.

Adding to our difficulties, Mason’s SSI payments have been temporarily suspended pending a review. This unforeseen delay has left us without any income, at a time when our financial obligations continue to mount. We find ourselves facing not only the physical and emotional toll of my recovery and Mason's daily needs, but also the deep stress of financial insecurity.

Our bills have started to pile up, and most pressingly, we are unable to meet our upcoming rent payment of $750.
The thought of potentially losing our house and having our utilities cut off is overwhelming and quite frankly, terrifying. In this moment of dire need, we turn to you, our community, for support.

We are asking for your help—any assistance you can provide would be a beacon of hope for us. Whether it’s a small financial contribution or sharing our story within your network, every bit of support counts and brings us closer to maintaining our home during these trying times.

Your help not only aids us financially but also lifts our spirits, knowing we are not alone in this fight.

From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for taking the time to read this update. We are endlessly grateful for your kindness and generosity during this period of immense personal struggle. Please continue to pray for Mason and our family and we promise to keep you informed as we navigate through recovery and towards a more stable future.

With all our gratitude,
Charde McMillan ❤️

❤️ GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/e7de54e11

❤️PayPal: themomster88@gmail.com

❤️ CashApp: $chardizzle88

❤️Apple Cash/ Zelle: 304-207-4122

01/01/2026

Dear Friends and Community,

Happy New Year! I hope this update finds you in good health and spirits. I’m reaching out today with a heavy heart during what has been one of the most challenging periods for our family. As some of you may know, I recently underwent surgery and am currently in the midst of a slow and painful recovery process. Unfortunately, this means I am unable to return to work for the next few weeks.

Adding to our difficulties, Mason’s SSI payments have been temporarily suspended pending a review. This unforeseen delay has left us without any income, at a time when our financial obligations continue to mount. We find ourselves facing not only the physical and emotional toll of my recovery and Mason's daily needs, but also the deep stress of financial insecurity.

Our bills have started to pile up, and most pressingly, we are unable to meet our upcoming rent payment of $750.
The thought of potentially losing our house and having our utilities cut off is overwhelming and quite frankly, terrifying. In this moment of dire need, we turn to you, our community, for support.

We are asking for your help—any assistance you can provide would be a beacon of hope for us. Whether it’s a small financial contribution or sharing our story within your network, every bit of support counts and brings us closer to maintaining our home during these trying times.

Your help not only aids us financially but also lifts our spirits, knowing we are not alone in this fight.

From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for taking the time to read this update. We are endlessly grateful for your kindness and generosity during this period of immense personal struggle. Please continue to pray for Mason and our family and we promise to keep you informed as we navigate through recovery and towards a more stable future.

With all our gratitude,
Charde McMillan ❤️

❤️ GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/6d66ec2d8

❤️ PayPal: themomster88@gmail.com

❤️ CashApp: $chardizzle88

❤️Apple Cash/Zelle: 304-207-4121

12/27/2025

Hey everyone, it's Charde. Merry Christmas!!
I'm really sorry I haven't updated everyone in a few weeks. My surgery was on December 15 and I'm still trying to recover. It's taken a huge toll on my body and recovery has been really hard for me. I still have a few weeks of recovery left. The pain I experienced after surgery and still has been the worst pain from any surgery I've ever had. It's a daily struggle for me right now. I'm exhausted and just feel absolutely horrible every day so far. My husband is holding the household down as best as he can but things are starting to get behind on us. I still have awhile before I can return to working and I'm scared bills are going to start piling up to the point that we won't be able to catch up. Mason has been struggling some with his mental health as he tries to understand and undertake more responsibility now that he's 18. His maturity is very behind due to his autism and things are really hard on him. He's just not mentally ready yet for driving or working and that has him feeling down some days. It's hard to watch him go through this but he just needs more time with us and learning how to be more independent. His urethra reconstruction surgery and skin grafting was scheduled for the same day as my surgery but my surgery was ruled more of an emergency so his surgery has been moved to January 26. It's a very extensive surgery, requiring 7-8 hours of surgery and a lengthy recovery time. He will also need to spend a day or two in hospital afterwards. This is the next step in his journey to being healthy again. He's excited but nervous of course. Please just continue to pray for us right now. Things are hard on us right now. Both financially and mentally as we face each challenge with Mason head on. Pray for his strength and mine. We could really use some help during all of this so we don't start drowning in bills again now that we've finally caught up some. Pray for Mason's mental health and help in understanding that things he wants will come in God's time. We hope everyone had a great Christmas. I know we did! If you're able help us out right now, it would mean the world to me as a mother to not have the added stress as I try to focus on my rest and recovery.

God bless,
Charde McMillan ❤️

❤️ GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/0d2a53f24

❤️Paypal: themomster88@gmail.com

❤️ CashApp: $chardizzle88

12/14/2025

Hey everyone, it's Charde! Tomorrow is my big surgery (hysterectomy) and I'm honestly a bit nervous. I had my last surgery at this hospital to remove one of my ovaries and didn't have the best experience really. This time is a longer surgery (2-3 hours), and will also require an overnight stay. It will be a total hysterectomy and we have high hopes this will fix a majority of my ongoing health problems. I'm definitely ready to get this over with and hopefully start feeling better soon after.
This will have me out of of work for 3-6 weeks and my husband will be doing his best to hold down the fort while I recover. This house needs me to run smoothly. 😂
It is putting a huge damper on our finances though. We rely on my paycheck to survive and also Mason's SSI to pay our rent. Both of which aren't coming in right now due to me being out of work for surgery and Mason's SSI is on hold due to a review since he turned 18. We could definitely use some help during this time and we are praying that God will bring us through yet another storm. Please pray my surgery goes perfectly and my pain is controlled well. I'm praying for a smooth operation and a quick recovery so I can get back to life. Thank you to everyone who has donated and bought Christmas presents for the kids this year. They are going to have a wonderful Christmas and we couldn't have done it without everyone. We are so grateful and can't wait to see their happy faces on Christmas morning. Please continue to pray for us, share our GoFundMe, or donate if you're able. I'll update everyone sometime tomorrow evening about how my surgery went and everything.

God bless,
The McMillan Family ❤️

❤️ GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/348d69def

❤️PayPal: themomster88@gmail.com

❤️ CashApp: $chardizzle88

❤️Zelle/ Apple Cash: 304-207-4121

Charde McMillan