Go Beyond Talk Therapy Therapist Phil DeLuca
psychotherapy disruptor
relationship healer
author
speaker
guinea pig
When you’re booking your first session with a therapist you probably don’t expect he’ll ask you to bring a pair of sunglasses. Unless of course, that therapist is Phil DeLuca, the UnTalk TM therapist. Why Go Beyond Talk Therapy? If you’ve tried traditional relationship therapy you probably remember being asked to sit on a pricey, comfortable couch and follow your impulse to “talk out” all that anger, frustration, and irritation with your partner, spouse, child or parent. Phil DeLuca wants you to stop talking in order to communicate better and heal their relationship(s). That advice may sound counterintuitive, but it’s coming from a man who has saved thousands of relationships from what he calls the “Dead Zone,” that post-prickly, numbed-out point in a relationship when you simply stop caring about your loved one. Many people are pushed there in part by stale, unscientific “express yourself” communication approaches. So 1970s. As a young counsellor Phil studied and employed traditional talk therapy in his own relationships, until … he became his own guinea pig. Enter science. After filling his wall with degrees that espoused traditional “talk it all out” therapy Phil started to rebel, and gradually developed the revolutionary love science – a holistic body/brain chemistry-based communication model which he employs during his Go Beyond Talk therapy. With Phil, expect the unexpected – both in your session and in your results. Climbing out of “The Dead Zone” together
The relationship Dead Zone is a dangerous place. It needs to be navigated wisely and gingerly. Before you decide on a therapist who’ll es**rt you and your loved one out of your Dead Zone Phil wants you to know that 3 out of 4 marriages end after traditional talk therapy. That’s because expressing yourself while in the wrong state of mind can actually cause you to slide deeper into the Dead Zone. But if you understand the workings of your body and brain chemistry before you begin the climb, your chances of escaping the Dead Zone improve exponentially. Love ScienceTM: not a class you want to ditch
If you want to build a house that will withstand a tornado you need quality tools and a solid construction plan. Love Science TM is your toolbox; UnTherapy TM the construction plan for building a robust, resilient relationship that can withstand emotional climate change. He won’t make you take notes, but expect Phil to teach you:
How to identify the body and brain changes that incite your angry blow ups and how to immediately end those blowups
How to stop your partner from provoking arguments
When avoiding conflict and not communicating heals a relationship
How and why conventional communication approaches increase conflict
How your diet/health affects how you communicate to your love ones and how to improve both. Is it safe to trust a rebel? Phil has been his own guinea pig. It’s only after employing Go Beyond Talk Therapy tactics to save his own relationships from The Dead Zone (and improve his health), that he began to apply it to the thousands of clients who describe their success on his testimonial page. Visit www.lesstalkmorelove.com
http://lesstalkmorelove.com/corebrain/
