Dr. Michelle Harris

12/24/2025

I truly enjoyed this conversation with Gertrude Matshe. 💛

Even with a few technical hiccups along the way, the conversation itself was rich, thoughtful, and deeply meaningful. Sometimes the most important discussions aren’t perfect; they’re real.

Connecting with her from Melbourne, Australia reminded me how universal these topics are for women everywhere: strength, leadership, faith, capacity, and the quiet weight so many carry behind the scenes.

I’m grateful for the space she created and the heart she brings to her work.

👇 You can click below to listen to the full episode.

Dr Michelle Harris: You Can Be Successful and Still Be Breaking 🔥 Why “strong women” are the most silently exhausted among usThere’s a lie many high-achievi...

12/23/2025

Take me back to this moment.

A room full of women who finally exhaled.
Who stopped performing.
Who allowed themselves to just be —not strong for everyone else, not put together, not “on.”

Just present.
Just open.
Just held.

This is why the Pajama Day Party exists.
Not for the pajamas.
Not for the agenda.
But for the permission.

Permission to worship freely.
Permission to rest without guilt.
Permission to reconnect with God — and with yourself.

Watching women soften, breathe, laugh, cry, and worship together
never gets old for me.
It’s holy ground every single time.

✨ And we’re doing it again.
The Pajama Day Party returns April 11, 2026.

🔥 Special registration opens in ONE WEEK.
If you’ve been longing for a space where you can be you, this is your invitation.

Stay close. 🤍

12/22/2025

How to Lead with Wisdom in Demanding Seasons
If this season feels heavy, you don’t need to push harder.
You need space to breathe.

Here’s how to lead with wisdom when life feels full:

✨ Create space before responding.
Everything doesn’t need an immediate answer.

✨ Pay attention to what feels misaligned.
That quiet discomfort is information, not failure.

✨ Honor your limits without judgment.
Having limits doesn’t mean you lack faith or strength.

✨ Protect margin where you can.
Even small pockets of rest restore clarity.

✨ Lead in a way you can sustain.
You were never meant to run on empty.

Take a deep breath.
You’re allowed to begin again — right here, right now — with intention. 🌿

💛 If this spoke to you, save it for later or share it with someone who needs permission to slow down.

12/18/2025

We rush through our days as if clarity will somehow rise out of the chaos.

But clarity doesn’t come from speed.
It doesn’t come from overworking or outthinking ourselves.
Clarity comes when we create even the smallest moment of presence; a pause long enough to hear what’s actually true.

That pause is where direction returns.
Where peace resets.
Where purpose sharpens.

This is the heart of The Clarity Code Effect...learning to lead, live, and decide from a clearer, grounded place.

Clarity isn’t earned through hustle.
It’s accessed through intention.

Start with a pause. Click below to begin today:

https://claritycodeblueprint.theclarityeffect.org/

12/16/2025

To the woman everyone turns to at work, at church, and in every crisis…
You can pour from an empty spirit...but it will cost you far more than anyone realizes.

You hold so much.
You give so much.
You steady so much that no one even sees the weight you carry.

But here’s the truth:
Your peace matters.
Your rest matters.
Your boundaries matter.
Your well-being is part of your calling —
not a distraction from it.

You don’t have to break to be effective.
You don’t have to deplete yourself to be faithful.
You don’t have to sacrifice your spirit just to show up for others.

It’s time to protect the place where God restores you.
That is where your real strength comes from.

If this spoke to you, the Sacred Boundaries Capacity Audit™
will help you see what God never asked you to carry —
and how to reclaim the peace that belongs to you.

https://sacredboundary.theclarityeffect.org

12/15/2025

This year taught me something I know someone needs to hear too:

✨ You can love God and still have areas that need attention.
✨ You can be purposeful and still benefit from rest.
✨ You can be walking in your calling and still need room to breathe.

For a long time, I kept waiting on the “right moment” to pause, reflect, and realign.
But here’s the truth I had to accept:
There is no perfect moment. There’s only now.

And maybe that’s true for you too.

Purpose is beautiful, but it grows best in a grounded, peaceful, cared-for spirit.

So as we close out this year, here’s my heart:

If you’ve been sensing a pull toward more clarity…
If you feel the desire for a healthier rhythm…
If you know God is inviting you into a more spacious version of yourself…

Start now.
Not when life calms down.
Not when everything lines up.
Now.

And if you want support discerning what to release, what to keep, and what’s actually yours to carry, the Sacred Boundaries Capacity Audit™ will walk you through it step by step.

👉🏽 Protect your peace. Strengthen your purpose. Begin with clarity.

https://sacredboundary.theclarityeffect.org

12/11/2025

Let’s be honest...money makes life easier.
But peace?
Peace makes life worth living.

Because the truth is:
You can’t swipe your way out of anxiety.
You can’t Amazon Prime your way out of overthinking.
You can’t Uber Eats your way out of emotional exhaustion.
You can’t out-earn chaos if chaos is living inside you.

But when you have peace?

You sleep better.
You breathe deeper.
You make clearer decisions.
You walk away faster.
You don’t argue with confusion.
And you don’t negotiate your worth.

Peace is the richest thing I own.

And I protect it like my life depends on it…
because in many ways, it does.

12/10/2025

Let’s be clear:

Capacity fatigue isn’t happening because you’re not strong enough.

It’s happening because everyone keeps expecting you to operate beyond human limits ....and you keep trying.

You can’t lead teams, hold emotions, run meetings, solve problems, AND support everyone else… without eventually hitting capacity fatigue.

This isn’t weakness.

It’s the cost of being “the strong one” in spaces that depend on your stability more than your wellbeing.

So here are 5 capacity-building habits every high-performing woman needs BEFORE her body, mind, or spirit forces her to slow down.

If you are ready to reset, click below to begin a new 48-hour jumpstart:

https://48recovery.theclarityeffect.org/v3