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04/03/2026

This is it. The step everything has been leading to.

“It is in dying that we are born to eternal life.”

Every problem has a spiritual solution—but it’s found here: in surrender. Not fixing, not forcing… letting the old self fall away.

Good Friday quietly reminds us of this truth through the example of Jesus Christ—that surrender is not the end, it’s the doorway. When something is laid down, something greater can rise.

This is your moment:
Let it go.
Let it die.
Rise anew. 🦋

Try This:👇
What needs to die?
What do you need to surrender?
💬 Comment below, tag a friend, or share this as a reminder to step into new life.

04/02/2026

“It is in giving that we receive.” ✨
Here was one of those moments for me with my friend Sandra. We put together a wellness day for the unhoused community in Charlotte including yoga and Healing Touch sessions. We definitely felt like we received more than we gave that day.🙌🏻

Day 9 of our spiritual solution challenge hits differently —especially on Holy Thursday. It’s the day Jesus washed feet and showed us that true power is in serving, not being served.

Dr. Wayne Dyer reminds us: when we stop asking “what do I get?” and start living “what can I give?”—everything shifts.

Give without expectation today… and watch what comes back in ways you didn’t expect. 💫

👇 What’s one small way you can serve someone today?

04/01/2026

🙌🏻 So proud of these murals that the 8th graders at my IB school created! They are inspired by each other‘s differences in cultures, beliefs, and ideas, and they want to persuade others to take time to understand each other more deeply.

The girls who created the second mural said they were inspired by the Michelangelo painting of the two fingers meeting together because they think it’s about reaching out to each other. These students perfectly modeled the next step in our challenge.

✨Step 8 in our spiritual solution challenge is the ego-check: “Grant that I may not so much seek to be understood, as to understand.”

When you stop defending your “I,” the conflict usually evaporates. 🛑

⭐️Poll: In your last argument, were you trying to Win or Understand? Be honest! 👇

03/31/2026

Day 7 of our Spiritual Solution Challenge 🌿✨

Sadness is real—but even in sorrow, we can find purpose and light. Mary, the Queen of Sorrows, carried joy in her heart, showing that love and compassion can shine through the darkest moments.

Saint Francis’ prayer reminds us: “Where there is sadness, joy.” Joy isn’t tied to circumstances—it’s everywhere, waiting to be shared. 💛

💡 Post a word, emoji, or picture in the comments that represents joy in the midst of sadness. Let’s fill this space with light! ✨👇

03/30/2026

Day 6 – Spiritual Solution Challenge ✨

What if hate isn’t the opposite of love… but love going in the wrong direction?

People who project hate often feel unloved. And when we react with anger, we step into that same energy.

But there’s another way.

✨ “Where there is hatred, let me sow love.”

Pause. Don’t take the bait.
Send love—and if needed, walk away with peace.

You’re not here to absorb hate.
You’re here to transform it—starting within yourself.

Forgive your past. Release self-judgment. Return to love.
Love never fails.

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✨ Try this today

When you feel triggered, ask:
👉 “What would love do here?”

Then share one moment below where you chose love 💛

03/29/2026

Step 5 in our challenge:
“Where there is despair, hope.”

That line from the Prayer of Saint Francis has been running in my head lately.

It doesn’t say hope will just happen.
It says hope exists even in the middle of it.

Wayne Dyer puts it perfectly in There’s a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem — sometimes the shift we need isn’t out there… it’s in how we choose to see and bring hope into a moment.

That’s exactly what’s happening here in Charlotte with the Threads of Hope / Bridges Project.

People come together to weave threads on looms — each one a message, a story, a spark of encouragement. Those threads link up to build bridges — literal and metaphorical — that show the whole community that even in despair, hope is real, present, and growing. It’s about inspiring others, educating the community, and reminding anyone struggling (especially with su***de or deep pain) that they matter.

Hope isn’t a quiet wish.
Hope is a movement.

💛Drop a 🧵 or share one small way you’ve seen hope show up (or brought it yourself). Even the smallest thread matters.

03/28/2026

🔥It only takes the smallest spark of a fire to light up the entire night sky.

That’s how change really begins.

Step 4 in our spiritual challenge is all about frequency:
“Where there is darkness, bring light.✨” When you lean into higher-energy thoughts and feelings —love, joy, even the smallest sense of hope—you’re not just “thinking positive”… you’re shifting the energy. And little by little, the heaviness starts to dissolve.

💡What’s one “bright” thought or memory you can ignite right now to outshine a worry?

03/27/2026

“Where there is injury, pardon.” ☮️— Step 3 in our there’s a spiritual solution every problem…..forgiveness.

Holding onto anything—pain, guilt, old stories—drains the energy you need to think clearly, grow, and move forward. Sometimes those wounds aren’t even yours… they’ve been carried for generations.

Forgiveness isn’t about excusing it. It’s about releasing it—so you can see differently, respond differently, and live more freely.

Forgive others. Forgive yourself.
Free your energy for clarity, peace, and a new perspective. 🔓

👉Tag a friend who radiates “peaceful vibes” ✨to say thanks for their energy.

03/26/2026

On my birthday trip, the mountains were wrapped in fog—quiet, still, and unsure of themselves, just like I’ve felt lately. Work had been testing me in ways I didn’t expect, planting small seeds of doubt that slowly grew louder than my confidence.

But standing there, looking out at what I couldn’t fully see, I realized something: the path didn’t disappear just because the view did.

⛰️Feeling stuck? That’s just doubt wearing a fancy hat. Step 2 is shifting from “I don’t see a way” to “Where there is doubt, faith.” You don’t need the whole map; you just need to be willing to take the next step. 🗺️

Try this: 👇
Fill in the blank: “I am having faith that __________ is working out for my highest good.” Post it in the comments below.😊

03/25/2026

⭐️Still can’t believe this birthday gift from last year…my sister somehow got me an autographed vibraslap from CAKE 🥹

Out of all instruments, a vibraslap is already such a quirky, unexpected thing—this rattling, shimmering sound that you feel as much as you hear. And now this one carries a whole extra layer of energy, history, and intention behind it. I think it is perfect symbol of the unique instruments we each are.

✨ For the next 10 days, I’m diving into key shifts from the book “There’s a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem” and turning them into a simple, real-life challenge you can actually practice.

A lot of the book’s wisdom is rooted in the Prayer of Saint Francis— starting with this line:
“Lord, make me an instrument of Thy peace.”

That’s the foundation. Not controlling, fixing, or forcing… but allowing yourself to be used for something higher. 🎻

What if the goal today isn’t fixing everything—but tuning yourself?

When you remember you’re the instrument, the pressure drops… and the peace flows. ✨

So today—what are you? A calming flute or a bold electric guitar? (I’m definitely that vibraslap!)👇

03/24/2026

Life has a funny way of sending you the right book just when you need it. Have you ever had that experience? You’re walking through a store or browsing a shelf, and a title practically jumps into your hands with the exact answer you’ve been looking for.

A Review of There’s a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem by: Wayne W. Dyer Link to Amazon Life has a funny way of sending you the right book just when you need it. Have you ever had that experienc…

03/18/2026

St. Jude Sent Me a Birthday Gift: It Might Be Just What You Need As Well

Have you ever received a message from the beyond? Maybe it was a nudge from a passed loved one or a whisper from an angel. This year, for my birthday, mine arrived via the U.S. Postal Service. The front of the card read: "May you trust God that you are exactly where you are meant to be." It was exactly what I needed to hear, but to understand why, I have to rewind a bit....

Have you ever received a message from the beyond? Maybe it was a nudge from a passed loved one or a whisper from an angel. This year, for my birthday, mine arrived via the U.S. Postal Service. The …