04/20/2026
Dr. Katharine Rogers shares one of her favorite quotes and how she uses it with clients: "I frequently refer to this quote when addressing anxiety, OCD, perfectionism, and even everyday relationship dynamics. The “stimulus” might be an anxious feeling, intrusive thought, or urge to fix, check, or get it just right. Anxiety tells us the response is automatic, however in therapy we discover and expand the space in between. Even a brief pause allows us to choose a response based on our values rather than fear or other uncomfortable emotions. That space is where growth happens, as we realize that difficult thoughts or feelings no longer have to dictate our behavior."