SHE CLT, NC

12/17/2022

03/16/2022

😎 B**M: something most of us are familiar with in one way or another.
By definition, B**M stands for Bo***ge and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadochism and Masochism.
🤷🏻But what does it all mean? Personally, I am one to love nasty and disrespectful s*x but then be in a loving and accepting relationship.
Others may want something COMPLETELY different. And that’s OK! 💗
I use collars, hand cuffs and leashes, while others may use ball gags and whips.
🔥Whatever you use, however you use it, make sure you and your partner(s) have a safe word. Or if you’re the type to get nonverbal when triggered (like me) then you and your partner(s) must come up with a non-verbal way of signaling to eachother that it’s gotten to be too much. 👋🏼
Kink is all about consent and safety; yes, have your fun, but make sure it is what is TRULY desired and not something you THINK you’re doing right by them when they clearly had other ideas. 💡
❌Never pressure someone into doing something that they don’t feel safe to do.
🤙🏼But whether you like whips and ball gags, or latex play, kink on my friends. Kink on. For we all deserve a safe space to explore our s*xuality and our s*xual potential. 💗

08/08/2020

🍒Let’s talk about CONSENT🍆
By definition, consent is: (noun)- permission for something to happen or agreement to do something, (verb)- give permission for something to happen & agree to do something.
💫Many times when we think of consent, we think of s*x; which makes total sense! That is probably the BIGGEST times when consent is MANDATORY!!!
👄But let’s not forget about all consent; which can boil down to sending nudes, physical touch (in a s*xual or non-s*xual way), and more.
🤭Some believe that consent through pressure is still consent.... WRONG!!!
By making someone SO uncomfortable and fearful that they are MADE to say “yes” IS NOT CONSENT.💦
It also is NOT consent if they say “yes” but then change their mind a bit later and ask you to stop, but you decide it is still time to go. ❌
Consent can be said many different ways such as, “Yes”, “I give you permission”, “Please continue”, etc. There is no wrong time to say enough or stop, and you should always feel safe to do so.
If not, I advise you to maybe take a self-defense course for your safety. 💖
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08/07/2020

Welcome to S.H.E. CLT, NC!!!
S.H.E. stands for:
🍆Sexual
🍒Health
🍑Educator
I resign in the Charlotte, NC area as well!
Here I will be discussing and informing you loves about s*xual health and wellness, what you can do to get there, where to start, and the benefits of touch.
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•Why did I start S.H.E. CLT, NC?

🍒Simple: to educate those who may not have a way of learning about s*xual wellness and/or s*xual precautions that one can take. I also have had many s*xual traumas in my lifetime, and have found that there ARE ways to heal and work through those traumas; with yourself alone or with someone you deeply trust. I am not a professional (yet) but am working my way to getting there!
My intent with S.H.E CLT, NC is to empower those who are unaware of their s*xual potential and freedom. 💦
I openly invite you all into my group, no matter your age, gender identity, s*xual orientation, color, etc.
EVERYONE deserves s*x education!!!! 💖

08/07/2020

💦 The health benefits of ma********on is know to very little, but let’s just name a few....
1️⃣it can relive built-up stress
2️⃣it can help you sleep better as the after effects can make you relaxed
3️⃣it can boost your mood
4️⃣it has been known to relive cramps during the menstrual cycle
5️⃣it can relieve s*xual tension
But my favorite one out of the many health benefits of ma********ng is this:
🍆It can help you have better s*x! 🍒
When I say that, I mean that by practicing with yourself and getting to know what YOU like and dislike, it will easier to communicate those things with your partner ahead of time so you both aren’t there feeling awkward 🤪
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08/07/2020

GR8 MESSAGE 💖💖💖
Keep it classy mates!!!!

08/07/2020

Make sure you all fall in love with yourselves BEFORE anyone else! Because at the end of the day.... you are stuck with you no matter the difficulty.... so learn to accept and love yourself fully. 🍑 No matter your size, height, orientation, color, etc. AND ENJOY THE PLEASURES IN LIFE 🍆🍒💖💖💖
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