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Most arguments aren’t really about the dishes or the schedule; they’re about deeper needs like feeling unseen, unheard o...
04/22/2026

Most arguments aren’t really about the dishes or the schedule; they’re about deeper needs like feeling unseen, unheard or undervalued. When we push to prove our point, we often trigger the demand‑withdraw pattern—one partner pushes, the other pulls away—which research links with lower relationship satisfaction. A healthier approach begins with pausing to regulate your emotions and naming the softer feeling underneath (hurt, fear, sadness). Speak from your own experience, and ask, “What feels threatened in me? What do I need my partner to understand?” Conflict isn’t about winning; it’s about understanding and repair. If you and your partner feel stuck in the same conflict cycle, counseling can help. Call 704‑364‑9176 or visit rodgerscc.com to learn more.

04/20/2026

You can win a lot of arguments and still lose ground in your relationship.

When conflict becomes about winning, proving a point, or being right, couples often miss the deeper issue underneath the disagreement. The goal in a healthy relationship is not just to win the moment. It is to understand what is really happening and move toward healing.

A better question to ask is, “What are we really fighting about?” Often there is more underneath the conflict than the surface issue. Hurt, fear, feeling misunderstood, old wounds, and unhealthy patterns can all show up in the middle of an argument.

Learning to slow down, listen, and seek understanding can change the direction of a relationship.

If you and your spouse feel stuck in the same conflict cycle, counseling can help. Call 704-364-9176 or visit rodgerscc.com to learn more and schedule.

04/15/2026

Anger is not always just about what is happening in the moment.

Sometimes the reaction is bigger because something deeper has been touched.

A current situation can stir up an old wound, and when that happens, we often give the moment more energy than it deserves. That can show up in marriage, parenting, conflict, and everyday relationships.

If you find yourself getting triggered quickly, reacting more strongly than you want to, or struggling to calm down once anger rises, it may be worth asking:
What is this really connected to?

Healing is not just about controlling behavior. It is about understanding the source, addressing the wound, and learning healthier ways to respond.

If this resonates with you, Rodgers Christian Counseling is here to help.

Call our office at 704-364-9176 or visit rodgerscc.com to learn more.

We’re proud to highlight Angela Fisher, LCMHC, who will be speaking at the FCA Greater Charlotte All Abilities Camp.FCA’...
04/13/2026

We’re proud to highlight Angela Fisher, LCMHC, who will be speaking at the FCA Greater Charlotte All Abilities Camp.

FCA’s All Abilities Camp is more than just a day camp. It’s a faith-based, inclusive event created to provide a fun, safe, and supportive experience for individuals with disabilities through sports, community, encouragement, and a spiritual message.

Angela’s breakout session, Caring for the Caregiver: Finding Strength, Balance, and Support as a Special Needs Parent, will provide encouragement and practical tips for caregivers facing burnout, anxiety, and depression, with a focus on compassionate approaches like self-care and building emotional resilience.

If this sounds like a good fit for your family, registration is still open. There are also volunteer spots available for those who would like to be part of this meaningful day.

Swipe for event details, registration, and volunteer information or visit their website here:
https://www.fcagreatercharlotteallabilities.org/allabilitiescamp2026

Only 12 days left to register for our live parent webinar, Big Feelings, Hard Behavior.If your child’s anxiety comes out...
04/10/2026

Only 12 days left to register for our live parent webinar, Big Feelings, Hard Behavior.

If your child’s anxiety comes out as anger, meltdowns, shutdowns, defiance, or emotional outbursts, this webinar was created for you.

Many parents are doing everything they know to do and still feel overwhelmed, discouraged, and unsure how to help. You are not alone, and there is another way to understand what may be happening underneath the behavior.

Join Amanda Cumbo, LCMHC, and Rachel Cunningham, LCMHC, for a live webinar for parents of kids and teens ages 4–18.

You’ll learn:
• how anxiety and anger can show up in children and teens
• what may be driving the behavior underneath the surface
• practical tools to help you respond without escalating the moment

April 22 | 5:30–7:00 PM ET
Live Q&A included

Dysregulation is not disrespect.

Register here: https://www.soulhealinglove.com/april-webinar

04/08/2026

In many relationships, one person tends to pursue and the other tends to pull away.

One partner may push for closeness, conversation, and resolution. The other may shut down, distance, or avoid conflict altogether. Over time, that cycle can create more hurt, frustration, and disconnection for both people.

Often, these patterns are not random. They can be rooted in deeper fears, old wounds, and the ways we learned to cope with conflict long before this relationship.

If you find yourself stuck in the same arguments, the same silence, or the same emotional distance, there may be a deeper reason why.

Counseling can help you understand the pattern, get to the root of it, and begin relating to each other in a healthier way.

Ready to work on the deeper issues underneath the conflict? Schedule with our team by calling our office at 704-364-9176 or visiting our website.

Many parents do not need more encouragement. They need more actual help.Kind words matter. But they do not reduce the lo...
04/04/2026

Many parents do not need more encouragement. They need more actual help.

Kind words matter. But they do not reduce the load. They do not make dinner, handle bedtime, take pickup, or give a parent an hour to breathe.

That is part of why so many parents still feel alone even when people care about them. About 1 in 4 U.S. adults report not having social and emotional support, and strong social connection helps people manage stress and protect mental health.

Real support is usually more specific than “Let me know if you need anything.” It sounds more like:
“I can bring dinner Thursday.”
“I can take pickup.”
“I can sit with the kids for two hours Saturday.”

If you are carrying too much, you do not have to keep carrying it alone.

You can schedule with Rodgers Christian Counseling for more personalized care, or join us for:

Big Feelings, Hard Behavior
A Parent Webinar for Anxiety, Anger, and Emotional Outbursts (Kids + Teens)
Hosted by Amanda Cumbo, LCMHC and Rachel Cunningham, LCMHC + ADHD Specialist
April 22 | 5:30–7:00 PM ET | Zoom

Register here:
https://soulhealinglove.mykajabi.com/april-webinar

A lot of parents are not just parenting. They are parenting under constant pressure.Not just behavior.Not just routines....
04/02/2026

A lot of parents are not just parenting. They are parenting under constant pressure.

Not just behavior.
Not just routines.
But the pressure to respond well, choose well, protect well, and somehow not get too much wrong.

That helps explain why so many parents feel mentally exhausted. Parents report higher stress than other adults, and 48% say that on most days their stress feels completely overwhelming.

For many parents, the hardest part is not just the visible work. It is the invisible load: thinking ahead, researching, second-guessing, replaying decisions, and trying to stay on top of everything at once.

If that feels familiar, you do not have to keep carrying it alone.

You can schedule with Rodgers Christian Counseling for more individualized support, or join us for:

Big Feelings, Hard Behavior
A Parent Webinar for Anxiety, Anger, and Emotional Outbursts (Kids + Teens)
Hosted by Amanda Cumbo and Rachel Cunningham
April 22 | 5:30–7:00 PM ET | Zoom

Register here:
https://soulhealinglove.mykajabi.com/april-webinar

03/31/2026

Big announcement for parents.

We are excited to host a live parent webinar, Big Feelings, Hard Behavior, on April 22 from 5:30–7:00 PM ET.

This webinar is designed for parents of kids and teens who are struggling with anxiety, anger, and emotional outbursts. Rachel Cunningham, LCMHC, ADHD Specialist, and Amanda Rodgers-Cumbo, LCMHC, will be sharing practical tools and insights through a neuroscience and nervous system lens to help parents better understand what may be happening beneath the behavior.

If your child has been overwhelmed, reactive, shut down, or hard to read, this webinar will help you better understand those patterns and respond with greater clarity.

Register here: https://www.soulhealinglove.com/april-webinar

We would love to have you join us.

03/28/2026

Some school battles are not simply about “not wanting to go.”

When a child has repeated stomachaches, panic, tears, clinginess, or intense distress before school, anxiety may be part of the picture. One reason this is so confusing is that the symptoms may improve quickly once staying home becomes possible.

If mornings in your home have become a cycle of physical complaints, panic, or escalating conflict, this webinar is designed to help.

Big Feelings, Hard Behavior
A Parent Webinar for Anxiety, Anger, and Emotional Outbursts (Kids + Teens)
Hosted by Amanda Cumbo and Rachel Cunningham
April 22 | 5:30–7:00 PM ET | Live Zoom Meeting

Register here:
https://soulhealinglove.mykajabi.com/april-webinar

Your child may not be lazy. They may be overwhelmed.Not every homework battle is a behavior problem. Sometimes the child...
03/26/2026

Your child may not be lazy. They may be overwhelmed.

Not every homework battle is a behavior problem. Sometimes the child who procrastinates, shuts down, gets irritable, or says “I don’t care” is not being careless or unmotivated. They may be dealing with fear of failure, perfectionism, or emotional overload.

This is one reason academic anxiety is easy to miss. It does not always look like obvious worry. Sometimes it comes out as avoidance, anger, tears, or conflict at home.

If school stress is affecting your child’s emotions or behavior, this webinar will help you better understand what may be driving it and how to respond more effectively.

Big Feelings, Hard Behavior
A Parent Webinar for Anxiety, Anger, and Emotional Outbursts (Kids + Teens)

Hosted by Amanda Cumbo and Rachel Cunningham of Rodgers Christian Counseling

Wednesday, April 22
5:30–7:00 PM ET
Live Zoom Meeting

Register here:
https://soulhealinglove.mykajabi.com/april-webinar

Why does everything seem to unravel when the electronics go off?For some kids and teens, screens are doing more than fil...
03/24/2026

Why does everything seem to unravel when the electronics go off?

For some kids and teens, screens are doing more than filling time. Phones, video games, tablets, and streaming can become a way to avoid boredom, escape stress, or push away uncomfortable emotions for a while. That is part of why the reaction can feel so intense when the screen ends.

This does not mean parents should avoid boundaries. It means that sometimes the outburst around electronics is pointing to something deeper than attitude or defiance.

If this pattern feels familiar in your home, our upcoming webinar is designed to help.

Big Feelings, Hard Behavior
A Parent Webinar for Anxiety, Anger, and Emotional Outbursts (Kids + Teens)

Hosted by Amanda Cumbo and Rachel Cunningham of Rodgers Christian Counseling

Wednesday, April 22
5:30–7:00 PM ET
Live Zoom Meeting

Register here:
https://soulhealinglove.mykajabi.com/april-webinar

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Welcome to Rodgers Christian Counseling

Are you or someone you love dealing with difficult life issues or relationship struggles? Does life seem hard and you wonder where God is? Our team of quality professional counselors and coaches want to help. With a gentle, loving hand we can guide you through life’s storms.

📷Quality professional counseling with a sensitive emphasis on Christian values and truths.

Together, Drs. Beverly and Tom Rodgers have developed the Soul Healing Love Model, coauthored 5 books and produced various CD’s and DVD’s.

We at RCCA are honored that you have chosen us and look forward to walking with you on your healing journey.