West Breedlove, LPC, MHSP, NCC

West Breedlove, LPC, MHSP, NCC Couples stuck in the same fight. OCD running your life. Men lacking discipline. I fix the patterns driving it. Licensed Professional Counselor.

Direct, practical, results-focused. Change your relationship—and yourself. Start here: www.westbreedlove.com

04/28/2026

Men don’t need more content.
They need other men.

Not surface-level talk. Not advice.
Real conversations where you’re known—and challenged.

I’m starting an 8-week men’s group in Chattanooga.
If you’re tired of doing life alone, this is your move.

DM me ‘GROUP’ and I’ll send details.





04/26/2026

Most men are carrying things they don’t talk about—and it’s costing them more than they realize.

You weren’t built to do this alone.

I’m starting an 8-week men’s group for guys who are done staying stuck and ready to change.

If it’s not helpful, you can walk away.

8 weeks.

We’re only as sick as our secrets.

DM me “GROUP” and I’ll send the details

**naddiction

04/25/2026

Heal your marriage. Become the man you need to be.

04/24/2026

Men’s group
Tuesday night @ 7p
243 Signal Mountain Road Suite 131 Chattanooga, TN 37405
423-930-9030
You in?!
DM for details
**naddiction

I’m starting two small therapy groups in the next few weeks. One is for men who feel stuck in compulsive sexual behavior...
04/24/2026

I’m starting two small therapy groups in the next few weeks.

One is for men who feel stuck in compulsive sexual behaviors (p**n, affairs) and want to rebuild trust, self-control, and connection in their relationships.

The other is for adults dealing with OCD—intrusive thoughts and compulsive patterns that don’t go away just by trying harder.

These aren’t just support groups. They’re structured, focused, and designed to help you actually change the patterns that keep showing up in your life.

Groups are small (6–8 people) and will fill quickly.

Comment “GROUP” or DM me and I’ll send you the details.

Groups begin the first week of May—limited spots.





04/24/2026

Women, listen to your gut. Your intuition is not infallible, but it’s reliable. It’s trustworthy enough.

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04/22/2026

“War is not exceptional; peace is. Worry is not exceptional; trust is. Decay is not exceptional; restoration is. Anger is not exceptional; gratitude is. Selfishness is not exceptional; sacrifice is. Defensiveness is not exceptional; love is. And judgmentalism is not exceptional . . . But grace is.”

— Unoffendable: How Just One Change Can Make All of Life Better (updated with two new chapters) by Brant Hansen

Most couples don’t have a communication problem.They have a pattern problem.Same argument.Different day.Nothing actually...
04/20/2026

Most couples don’t have a communication problem.

They have a pattern problem.

Same argument.
Different day.
Nothing actually gets resolved.

One of you pushes…
The other shuts down…
And before you know it, you’re both saying things you regret.

Here’s the truth:
You’re not incompatible.
You’re stuck in a cycle neither of you knows how to stop.

That’s exactly why I created this:

“Fix Your Next Fight” — a free, step-by-step guide

Inside, I’ll show you:

* Why your arguments escalate so fast
* The exact moment things go wrong
* What to say instead (so it doesn’t blow up again)

No fluff. No vague advice.
Just practical tools that actually work.

If you’re tired of having the same fight on repeat…

Download it now and handle your next argument differently.
☝️Link in bio

A while back, my dear father-in-law shared with me an article from the The New York Times by Jancee Dunn. It was a very ...
04/13/2026

A while back, my dear father-in-law shared with me an article from the The New York Times by Jancee Dunn. It was a very helpful article which has helped me succinctly summarize what couples are looking for in communication: The three H’s. So you want me to Hear you, Help you, or Hug you?

As dudes, we often jump into fix it Felix mode. She’s got a problem, I need to fix it.

But that’s not necessarily what she’s looking for.

She wants you to hear her. Period.

This is where mirroring and reflecting skills come in handy.

Guys, when your woman is opening up to you,
don’t be afraid to ask,
do you need me to hear you,
help you,
or hug you?

Serious question here: Why did you marry your spouse? (Alternatively for those who hope to get married, Why?) For me, I ...
04/11/2026

Serious question here: Why did you marry your spouse? (Alternatively for those who hope to get married, Why?)

For me, I got married at 24 after dating my precious Suzanne Breedlove for 5 years (one of which we were engaged.) And I simply could not imagine my life without her. She did tell me to fish or cut bait! And I finally went all in. I don’t believe anyone marries the “right” person. But I simply knew life without her was not a life I wanted to live. It still isn’t. Next month will be 28 years. And I swear, it only keeps getting better. What about you? Why did you get married (or want to)?

“Compatibility” is overrated.You don’t build a strong marriage by finding someone who matches you perfectly. You build i...
04/07/2026

“Compatibility” is overrated.

You don’t build a strong marriage by finding someone who matches you perfectly. You build it by how you handle the moments when you don’t.

Different values. Different needs. Different ways of communicating.

That’s where most couples break.

Not because they’re incompatible—but because they don’t know what to do with the tension.

Do you shut down?
Do you get defensive?
Do you try to win?

Or do you lean in, stay curious, and fight for understanding instead of control?

Every relationship hits friction. That’s not the problem.

The problem is whether you’ve built the skill to move through it without tearing each other apart.

Leo Tolstoy was right:
It’s not about compatibility.

It’s about maturity.

Happy Resurrection Sunday!“Happy Easters” - Nacho Libre
04/05/2026

Happy Resurrection Sunday!

“Happy Easters”
- Nacho Libre

Address

243 Signal Mountain Road
Chattanooga, TN
37405

Opening Hours

Monday 7am - 6pm
Tuesday 7am - 6pm
Wednesday 7am - 6pm
Thursday 7am - 6pm
Friday 9am - 3pm

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