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02/18/2026

02/16/2026

🚨Happening next Tuesday evening 🚨
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Join Justin Edwards of Optimize U Chatt, Dr. Erin Westner of the_pelvicmethod, and myself for a panel discussion regarding S*xual Health!

Libby Schwartz of Health Chatts has invited the three of us to come and speak in an open,free, public forum about s*xual health.

It will be February 24, Tuesday evening!

Excited for a great discussion with these two colleagues!

https://facebook.com/events/s/february-health-chatts-meetup-/1915442209057980/

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02/16/2026

02/14/2026

https://www.iloveusintimacy.com/event-details/communication-emotional-regulation

A couples workshop -it's the equivalent of 6+hours of therapy content in a 4.5 hour format! It will be catered, cozy, and very practical!

02/13/2026

Miss Scout is quite the working girl 🫶🏽💖👑💅🏼

She was at the office today from 11 to 7 pm

02/12/2026

What if I told you purity culture was never really about purity?

Purity culture is a system that teaches girls their bodies are dangerous, distracting, and responsible for boys’ thoughts. It tells women to cover up, shrink down, and carry the moral weight of male desire. Meanwhile, boys are often taught to “guard their eyes” without ever being taught to examine their entitlement, emotional immaturity, or distorted theology of s*x.

It polices her clothing but rarely confronts his character.
It shames her body but excuses his lust.

That is not holiness. That is misplaced responsibility.

At its core, purity culture externalizes sin. It locates the “problem” in a woman’s body instead of addressing the deeper issues of objectification, power, emotional repression, and a lack of formation in men. And the fallout is real. Women grow up disconnected from their bodies. Men grow up disconnected from accountability. Shame replaces maturity. Fear replaces intimacy.

We do not create healthy disciples by teaching girls to manage boys’ impulses.
We create healthy disciples by teaching men self-control, empathy, and respect.

Holiness is not about hiding women.

If this resonates, share it. The silence around this has lasted long enough.

02/10/2026

11 weeks old now !

My beautiful little Scout 💖 from in GA !

I had her at office #1 of all day today, and she did great 😊
My clients love her 💖🙏🏼👑🐾🥰

02/06/2026

What a beautiful and fun evening with .chastain.np !

Thank you to each of you who attended in person and participated! The conversation was awesome 👏🏼🩷🫶🏽🧠🤓

Thank you to the fabulous women@I tagged here from Optimize U for making this happen, and for the way you take care of your patients!

As always, I’m very grateful and honored to have been able to participate in something like this.

Cheers 🥂 to learning & s*xual medicine for women💃🏼👏🏼

( and thank you Stephanie for all of the rad hot pink 💞💖💕!)

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